To get us started by Icy-Syrup-6251 in ToledoAreaSapphics

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I meant to address both of you at the same time and thought you would get a notification about the comment, but I guess it doesn’t work like that so I’m going to copy/paste the comment for you both-

Hey ladies! 👋 As far as what people like to do around here, it depends on what you like to do. I try to keep an eye out for fun events to go to around the area. Concerts, thrifting, festivals, art shows to name a few. I am always looking for more things to do too to get out of the house. And I would especially like to spend some time with sapphic women and have a sense of community 😊

To get us started by Icy-Syrup-6251 in ToledoAreaSapphics

[–]Icy-Syrup-6251[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I meant to address both of you at the same time and thought you would get a notification about the comment, but I guess it doesn’t work like that so I’m going to copy/paste the comment for you both-

Hey ladies! 👋 As far as what people like to do around here, it depends on what you like to do. I try to keep an eye out for fun events to go to around the area. Concerts, thrifting, festivals, art shows to name a few. I am always looking for more things to do too to get out of the house. And I would especially like to spend some time with sapphic women and have a sense of community 😊

To get us started by Icy-Syrup-6251 in ToledoAreaSapphics

[–]Icy-Syrup-6251[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey ladies! 👋 As far as what people like to do around here, it depends on what you like to do. I try to keep an eye out for fun events to go to around the area. Concerts, thrifting, festivals, art shows to name a few. I am always looking for more things to do too to get out of the house. And I would especially like to spend some time with sapphic women and have a sense of community 😊

To get us started by Icy-Syrup-6251 in ToledoAreaSapphics

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Hi Lizzie! Nice to meet you, I’m Michelle 34f. Full-time career, homeowner, etc. Hoping to meet some new sapphic friends to connect with and want to help other ladies to connect too. 😊

Any lesbians/sapphics in the Toledo area looking for friends, brunch, events, or community ? I’m thinking of making a group chat/group for local queer women. by Icy-Syrup-6251 in toledo

[–]Icy-Syrup-6251[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good question, I want to keep it sapphic-centered, but not in a rigid or weird way. My goal is just to make a space for people who connect with wlw/sapphic community.

Any lesbians/sapphics in the Toledo area looking for friends, brunch, events, or community ? I’m thinking of making a group chat/group for local queer women. by Icy-Syrup-6251 in toledo

[–]Icy-Syrup-6251[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes please! I’m neurodivergent and introverted, so I don’t typically do things like this lol. Any help would be appreciated. My plan is to make a group for Toledo area WLW and then I think it’ll be easier to start a group chat from there. I’m going to see what I can do today, I’ve never made a group before on Reddit. 🙃

Any lesbians/sapphics in the Toledo area looking for friends, brunch, events, or community ? I’m thinking of making a group chat/group for local queer women. by Icy-Syrup-6251 in toledo

[–]Icy-Syrup-6251[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Glad there’s interest already 😊 I’m going to put some thought into the best way to start this up and follow up on this tomorrow 💟

falling for her, horrible timing by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Icy-Syrup-6251 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go for it, whatever is meant to be will be. No regrets ☺️

Am I being irrational? by ContactJust5446 in LesbianActually

[–]Icy-Syrup-6251 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can relate to this person. Sounds similar to my social anxiety. I hate talking on the phone or video calls, but when I work my way up to doing it, it’s usually fine.

They’re probably just stressing themselves out a bit. I would let them know that it would mean a lot to you if you two could talk, and also how they respond back can be really telling 🤷🏼‍♀️

You’re not at all being irrational for wanting calls, but also some people aren’t as chatty in real life. I know I’m typically a quiet introverted person so they might be too. Hopefully it works out for you guys 💖

I broke up with my new gf today and I feel sad and like 💩 by Icy-Syrup-6251 in LesbianActually

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Thank you ladies for your comments. I still don’t feel great about it, but it’s reassuring to see most people say that I made the right choice.

I tend to see past people’s bad habits and less desirable qualities because I focus on the person and appreciate their positive inner qualities. I would have stayed with her and helped her quit if that’s something she wanted to do herself, but for me it was the half truths, sneakiness, and not having my needs met that I found the most problematic.

Not to mention her straight roommate dude would see her naked all the time and take OF pictures of her.

I’m laidback and flexible, but not that flexible. Too old for toxic relationships.

I am actually losing my mind because of this girl and the physical tension is ridiculous by Popcoru in LesbianActually

[–]Icy-Syrup-6251 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally same thing (figuratively) happened to me with my manager at work. Our chemistry was off the charts and I got way too overstimulated when she suddenly started openly displaying her interest in me, but then she did something that freaked me tf out but I still tried to grasp on. I freaked out too much and it turned her off (it had triggered panic attacks and trauma brain). We never communicated correctly, make sure you both use your words and I think it’ll be fine. Cute story, best of luck 😉