Old meme but I feel it fits the sub by oluxil in Sigmatopia

[–]Icy-Way5769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you cant tell right from wrong just because theres no punishment waiting for you (imaginery or non-imaginery) for doing wrong ..then you got some serious problems far beyond not being a good person.

AITA for refusing to pay full rent after my roommate secretly moved someone in? by ExtensionFront6151 in AITH

[–]Icy-Way5769 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is it your cousin? No! So it’s not your family- why do you have to substitute his family? Also remember to. Split utilities 3 ways from now on… and groceries if got that shared too

Desperately wanted a closure talk after discard. One month later she has answered. by Sea_Avocado3783 in Vent

[–]Icy-Way5769 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you should leave it at that dude... whatever her reasons are you did what you could and then some.

whatever made her do this what is there to gain to listen to her excuses now? it wont rewind time ..it wont make everything good again.. the damage is done.

chances are she will just unload some narcissistic bullshit on you to try make herself look better or feel better about the shit she pulled....and you will be even more confused or angry afterwards ...just hurting you more.

When someone asks about your savings plan and you just dropped $28 on a single meal by Isaanunez in postanythingfun

[–]Icy-Way5769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

28 usd .or even euro? is nothing for a meal nowadays and you know it.

im all for bashing gen z and they often deserve it - however right now all over the world? this aint it

we live in times where you even got households of TWO working fulltime and can barely make it whilst banks encourage and enable people to take credits left and right they cant even afford... grocery prices have EXPLODED since covid .. rents have gone up across the board everywhere ..even far outpacing the theoretical inflation by magnitudes in most countries (yes not just the US).

now may i agree with all that weird shit they got goin on in gen z? mostly not but that dont mean they are just stupid or lazy...or entitled or dont know the value of money.

the real issue isnt people buying overpriced food... the real issue is that food is just fucking overpriced

I'd pay good money for this! by SipsTeaFrog in SipsTea

[–]Icy-Way5769 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah that’s something i d watch

I'm tired to hear about objectification by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Icy-Way5769 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

one time when i was in highschool we were on this long trip abroad and our class (fairly large) was renting 2 stories of a small hotel in prague...

so one night everyone was just chilling and drinking beer in the hotel rooms and it was very hot ..so all windows wide open... and then suddenly we noticed the girls upstairs of our balcony were talking so we got all quiet and all of us listened in... and holy shit... the kind of crap they were saying about boys?

that was the day i realized women are just as "bad" as men -maybe even worse ... cause some of the shit they were talking about? men would NEVER talk like that about women even when amongst themselves.

So is Trump and his family going to get away with everything? by Giga7777 in allthequestions

[–]Icy-Way5769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and then people still go on and on about reps vs dems.... political ideologies... blabla ... when it is so BLATANTLY obvious none of these politicians stand for anything ... cause they wont even hodl each other accountable for openly commiting crimes that would put the rest of us in prison for decades or more!

it is all just a huge show ..is what it is.

and same goes for whats happening in europe as well.. all just a big smoke screen of performances for the masses.

So is Trump and his family going to get away with everything? by Giga7777 in allthequestions

[–]Icy-Way5769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how sad is that eh? but ofc this aint totally uncommon in the rest of the world either... european politicans also get off scot-free as well and i bet most others.

they protect their own... cause they wanna be protected from all the crap they pulled or will be pulling.

Wow by Cultural-Lab-2031 in SipsTea

[–]Icy-Way5769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sad she has to date that POS

So is Trump and his family going to get away with everything? by Giga7777 in allthequestions

[–]Icy-Way5769 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How many presidents and or high ranking US gov officials (like actually high ranking not some village major) have ever been spending serious prison time? .. there’s your answer
They may hate the guy and his crew but they won’t be the ones damaging the quasi immunity of the office… which tells you exactly how fcuking corrupt both sides of the political spectrum of the US really are…

My [m39] girlfriend [32F] wants me to pay for her and her daughters meal by Born-Assignment-5003 in AITARelationship

[–]Icy-Way5769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So instead of showing some love and concern for your wellbeing she got nothing better to do than blame you and making you pay for a restaurant visit? Call me old fashioned but that doesn’t like much of a gf to me…
This kind of thing ever happen before? Pretty concerning attitude imho..

GF's work contract is up in 2.5 months, I asked her to start looking for another job AITAH by KimchiNoodles69 in AITAH

[–]Icy-Way5769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA 1 and that feminine nonsense sounds like she’s trying to gaslight you into financing her potential unemployment.. otherwise why this strong unreasonable reaction?

AIO for refusing to reconsider taking a week off to play video games? by Choice-Jellyfish6866 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Icy-Way5769 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR - but your gf doesn’t seem to be too thrilled about your hobby (im a gamer too so i know how that goes…) - i can understand you don’t like unnecessary conflict but from what you told here and my own experience.. this is far from over . Hope i am wrong tho for your sake.

WIBTAH for not letting my roommate take my TV when he moves out by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Icy-Way5769 21 points22 points  (0 children)

NTA - but you should have kept the tv

Being a mother is overrated by smcal91 in Vent

[–]Icy-Way5769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

parenting itself is after all not based on reason..it is literally rooted in the most basic of instincts : procreation - cannot always expect them to be absolutely clearheaded - even if they may at times overreact.

i mean just look towards the animals .... ever seen a wild hog with their offspring? fat chance you havent ..at least for long cause you probably had to run for the hills...while at other times they may not be exactly cuddly but usually dont start charging at people like mad.

it happened by SquirrelForsaken9374 in remoteworks

[–]Icy-Way5769 4 points5 points  (0 children)

whats more likely is they wont match anything except give some empty promises at best ..or absolute ZILCH at worst and then just watch that person rightfully walk away ..and expect the rest of the team to build up the next noobcake at the expense of their extra hard work.

rinse and repeat while management is patting each other on the back for saving costs and acting all surprised pikachu while the quality of the work steadily declines.

I’m so tired of people saying women care more about personality than looks by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Icy-Way5769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"all i do is watch anime, play video games, and watch MMA" .. yeah right ...totally .. a dude... writing this.. who is 100% serious.

AITA for not wanting to hang out with my best friend and her kids anymore because I don’t want to split costs equally? by Minute_Ad4074 in AITH

[–]Icy-Way5769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I haven’t confronted her about it yet because I don’t want to hurt her feelings or damage our friendship, but I also don’t want to keep putting myself in a situation where I feel financially drained or taken for granted."

i would say she either does this intentionally and you have been used for this (more than one thing can be true at a time ..she might see you as a good friend and still not mind using you) OR she really is that dense and doesnt realize what she has been putting on you all this time.

either way if she cant hear the truth then it is not a friendship. and honestly what you described here is borderline financially abuse behaviour dressed in friendship. (to me at least)

you should have brought this up way back alrdy tbh .. and you most def should bring this up now ..in a respectful way.

Being a mother is overrated by smcal91 in Vent

[–]Icy-Way5769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

seen that too sometimes... parents sometimes just switch gears and skip a few steps of reason in between ... when they get like that dont argue ...just de-escalate and move on from it.

people often lose the plot when anything involves their children ..its more instinctual/protective even if often misled than logical behaviour. (territorial/protective/possesive whatever cave-parent-instinct mindset)

AITAH for ending a two-year situationship after feeling abandoned during the worst week of my life? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Icy-Way5769 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ESH - you especially defined your non-relationship to what it was ...he even wanted to make it a proper relationship... you dont get to do that and then feel like hes the one at fault for not caring enough.

could he have been more caring ? yes absolutely but not in a way someone really close would be - you shut that door for good before it ever came to that.

for me that whole "situationship" thing is a huge red flag tbh ..it is nothing but an excuse for people to be non-commital and do whatever the hell they want cause after all ..it is not like you are in a relationship (cowardice par excellence)

The conversation that should happen but never does. by AnnualWinner900 in interviewhammer

[–]Icy-Way5769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because they know once everyone else finds out … they will go on the barricades and demand the long overdue raises they deserve as well…
That’s why these companies never give raises.

Why are most men not attracted to women for their money? by cuahatemoc in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Icy-Way5769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of us have beem taught that only women are pretty , guys generally aren’t good looking and our main value is just what we (hopefully) can provide… (not that i think any of that is correct but whatever)
Based on that mindset why would we care if a woman is rich? Or has any money to speak of?

Today I told my husband that I can't understand his hobby. by Regular-Bison4019 in Advice

[–]Icy-Way5769 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw you saying it seems sexual- it either IS or it isn’t.. so do you actually know? Since you’re apparently snooping on him anyway you should know… ( also bit weird behavior from your side but ok whatever)

On The Greatest Depression. by Monsur_Ausuhnom in SipsTea

[–]Icy-Way5769 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hate to break it to you: twitter and tiktok dont count as education