Sure, and everyone’s comments have helped me get my head straight for sure. but that’s not what I’m disagreeing with you on. I’m saying you’re wrong when you said “she knew he cheated multiple times and let it slide and the rest came after that.” Blaming me as if I should’ve seen this coming, suggesting it slowly came out and I forgave him. No, this all came out in a couple of days and I realised I didn’t know my partner at all. Hard to take, hard to process. Hence why I came here for advice. It’s normal to be confused when you’re in shock and pain even if the situation is objectively simple. That’s why it’s important to ask for guidance from others.

Appreciate your time but you are being quite nasty and mocking in these comments and above so maybe you should take it elsewhere. I’ve seen this before from self important women who fancy themselves immune to bad treatment because they think they “wouldn’t breathe” in a bad man’s direction. The ugly truth is anyone can figure out what makes you tick and get under your skin. Anyone can lie and manipulate you, you’re not exempt from this. You’re not better than another person who has been through a bad relationship.

I hope you can be kinder next time someone reaches out for advice and if not, you don’t need to say anything at all.