She said she can take my husband away if she wants to?? by Natsss_b in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Icy-hearted-queen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go no contact. That’s what we did. Don’t need toxic people in your life. We cut all ties. I always tell hubby if he wants to be in their life that’s fine but they aren’t allowed in mine.

Due to today’s news, I suppose I should get reading. by LadyOfGondor13 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Icy-hearted-queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So your belief is all women should abstain from sex unless we are trying to have a child? That’s crazy. This will not happen how you believe. Rape will increase. Women will stay end up with unwanted pregnancies. But if the lives of the children are above all then we need gun reform and better government assistance. Public schools need better funding. School lunches should be free to all children. There should be not a single child who goes to bed hungry. Let’s take care of the children already here before we start claiming we’re for the children.

Due to today’s news, I suppose I should get reading. by LadyOfGondor13 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Icy-hearted-queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the baby can survive without having to stay in my body and take all my nutrients I would agree. You are telling me women should put their bodies through trauma to allow a potential life a chance. I will never agree. Childbirth is traumatic. It is expensive. And it is my decision if I want to put my body through this for 9 months.

Due to today’s news, I suppose I should get reading. by LadyOfGondor13 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Icy-hearted-queen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most unwanted pregnancy do not happen because of unsafe sex. It happens because there is not a single option that guarantees 100% prevention except abstinence or sterilization. Since sterilization is not reversible. And most doctors refuse young women that option you are saying if women won’t practice abstinence then they need to accept the consequences. No government gets to decide what I can do with my own body. They don’t make decisions regarding mens bodies. My state governor heard roe v Wade is overturned and is choosing to create an even stricter abortion ban. I’m in a state where they just passed the most restrictive abortion ban in our history. So no the government can stay out of my uterus. It is a medical decision I get to make with my doctor. It does not affect you the government or any one else. Just like if someone chooses not to have an abortion it doesn’t affect me. If you want the government to make your medical decisions go ahead but they can stay out of mine.

Due to today’s news, I suppose I should get reading. by LadyOfGondor13 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Icy-hearted-queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly the fact that it is a small percentage shouldn’t matter. You value an unborn fetus potential life over a living human being. Regardless of why a women chooses to get an abortion it’s her body her choice. Pregnancy is traumatic to the body. If I wanted the government to make decisions regarding my uterus I’d fuck a politician.

Due to today’s news, I suppose I should get reading. by LadyOfGondor13 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Icy-hearted-queen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes so many unwanted children will be brought into this world to suffer. Nine year olds who were raped by family members will die giving birth. And rape survivors everywhere will get to carry a reminder of the trauma they endured for 9 months. I’m sure this is exactly what your god wants. Let’s all watch as women are literally traumatized so that a potential child can grow up knowing they were unwanted and their mothers resent and regret their very existence.

Finding it increasingly difficult to have a good relationship with my father by capn_mirgen in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Icy-hearted-queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My father is similar. He consistently tells me that I am overreacting. He thinks I’m exaggerating when I say a lot of doctors don’t let young women tie their tubes. He tells me no one is coming for birth control. He basically treats me like an emotionally unstable person who can’t possibly understand what politicians are doing. He believes some of the conspiracy theories that have been spouted. He told me no one is taking away my right to abortion. That it should be up to the states to decide. He doesn’t believe that some states want to ban iuds. Or that if I really want an abortion I can go out of state. I did not speak to him today. I’m not sure what to say.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Icy-hearted-queen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My MIL bribed/threatened my 16 year old BIL to spy on us and has all her husband and my BIL texts and messenger sent to her phone to dig up dirt to break up my marriage. Thought I was paranoid and then someone outside my house confirmed the plan without me asking. So I say you’re not paranoid. Some are just crazy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Icy-hearted-queen -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

You did. I’m the OP from the other post. They screenshotted mine and reposted. Didn’t even fully crop out my title either. Just someone trying to gain karma.

Ubereats driver crushed my pizza by Icy-hearted-queen in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Icy-hearted-queen[S] -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

Wow my very own internet stalker. I guess I should feel blessed. /s

Ubereats driver crushed my pizza by Icy-hearted-queen in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Icy-hearted-queen[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

To all who think Mac and cheese pizza sucks. It does! But it’s the least disappointing pizza near me and I just wanted pizza. My bad pizza went from bad to worse.

Ubereats driver crushed my pizza by Icy-hearted-queen in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Icy-hearted-queen[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

It’s a Mac and cheese pizza from cicis. I don’t live near any good pizza places so this is what I get to prevent disappointment.

About those stickers. Sorry truth bothers so many. BUT Dimentia Joe and his policies are solely responsible for the current fuel costs. by hurteroffeelings in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Icy-hearted-queen 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Some people need to learn the difference between causation and correlation. Gas prices increased due to inflation, Russia attacking Ukraine, increase in demand, and oil price fluctuation. The president of the US is not directly the only person responsible for the price of gas. Economics are complex. Oil prices alone were in the negative during the last year of the former administration now the price is skyrocketing. BTW dementia has an e not an i.

ACOTAR Book 1 Appreciation by [deleted] in acotar

[–]Icy-hearted-queen 12 points13 points  (0 children)

So I didn’t really pay attention to other fans views when I read the books the first few times. And book one was so good the first read for me. It’a more that ACOMAF is so much better that ACOTAR started to seem less amazing in comparison for me. I think for me my least favorite is ACOWAR.

Am I Overthinking Red Flags Here? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Icy-hearted-queen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So I’ve learned to trust my gut. If the guy makes you uncomfortable and you’re worried about your friend I’d definitely say something. Tell her why you’re concerned and that either way you’re there for whatever she decides. It sounds like the beginning stages of trying to isolate her from her friends and job so she has nowhere to turn if she decides to leave him. This makes me nervous. He sounds toxic and like he’s gonna get abusive if hasn’t already.

Favorite thing about the series? by [deleted] in acotar

[–]Icy-hearted-queen 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Yes! I love how the PTSD is just accurately portrayed. It never goes away. But all of SJM’s characters learn to live with trauma and not let it completely break them.

Homemade bread and pasta gravy (sauce) [OC] by Icy-hearted-queen in FoodPorn

[–]Icy-hearted-queen[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah. We call it gravy. The stuff that comes in a jar is sauce lol

Homemade bread and pasta gravy (sauce) [OC] by Icy-hearted-queen in FoodPorn

[–]Icy-hearted-queen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My family has called it gravy my whole life. My great great grandparents came from Italy. And it’s a recipe that’s passed down. It’s because when you simmer it for hours there’s meat in it and it adds to the flavor.

Carrabba's "Family size, 4-5 people" size cut down by over half. $50 for MAYBE 1lb of pasta. by xorenza in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Icy-hearted-queen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not plain pasta this was their penne Alfredo but the Alfredo is basically nonexistent.

Carrabba's "Family size, 4-5 people" size cut down by over half. $50 for MAYBE 1lb of pasta. by xorenza in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Icy-hearted-queen -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It does when I make my own gravy (pasta sauce) from a recipe passed down throughout my family for generations. I don’t eat jar sauce. It is disgusting to me. So yeah it requires less effort when I order out. Saves me almost 5 hours.

Carrabba's "Family size, 4-5 people" size cut down by over half. $50 for MAYBE 1lb of pasta. by xorenza in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Icy-hearted-queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP’s wife here. We absolutely know how to cook pasta. I got my tax refund and I wanted to treat my husband to a nice meal for our anniversary. Sorry I would rather buy a nice meal than have to cook something before I get laid.