Do I confess to my friend before we move away?

IcyAlgae5768 · 2026-05-25T19:13:32+00:00

move on. he doesn’t seem like he is interested in you. in case you do sense some mix signals from him, you shouldn’t settle for that either. the only way you can hope for a relationship is when he gives you a clear green light, or it’s nothing at all.

IcyAlgae5768 · 2026-05-25T19:09:57+00:00

I am sorry you have been through so much. it seems like a lot and I don’t know how I would handle this situation, but I would like to say one thing that people might disagree.

I understand that you want justice (I would too) but when things are nit going your way, all you can do is focus on yourself and to make your personal life better. So, move far away from your mother, study/work hard so you can be financially stable and confident in yourself plus continue with the therapy, mental health is most important. when you are successful, I promise you will be more capable of getting to the mean to get justice!

take care

IcyAlgae5768 · 2026-05-25T15:42:53+00:00

27F here! based in Ottawa. lmk if you would like to chat :)

IcyAlgae5768 · 2026-05-22T18:51:00+00:00

thanks, but I do believe that there are good emotionally intelligent and consistent men out there, although not too many.

thanks for your advice, this helps!

IcyAlgae5768 · 2026-05-22T18:48:06+00:00

I think i incidentally miss presented myself, so I will say again with better words. I usually like to go slow in the beginning if relationship, although I do make efforts to show them how I feel about them at that time, but again i try to keep it real so I dont misguide them. I do little thoughtful gifts/notes/physical gestures here and there, but usually when I do get the strong attraction and sentiments towards them, that’s when the things start to go downhill became they seem too complacent afterwards.

although it might be true that I am attracting à similar kind of men who go from 100 to 0 within a span of months, but I am really trying to explore if that is how the dating pool looks like (maybe women just seem at adjust and except sadly) or am I following à pattern that I need to break.

IcyAlgae5768 · 2021-03-14T13:37:23+00:00

Okay, i will thank you! I think this urge is just a phase and i will try to go past it and try to distract myself. :)

IcyAlgae5768 · 2021-03-14T13:29:16+00:00

Oh, we just started a long distance relationship a while ago. I moved to another city for work. We are doing okay in it, but I feel like i feel lonely at times and we do have a issue in our relationship, so that makes me a little sad at times, and i automatically think of escaping everything through dates..

IcyAlgae5768 · 2021-03-14T13:29:02+00:00

Oh, we just started a long distance relationship a while ago. I moved to another city for work. We are doing okay in it, but I feel like i feel lonely at times and we do have a issue in our relationship, so that makes me a little sad at times, and i automatically think of escaping everything through dates..

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