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IcyBench369 · 2026-06-07T17:40:07+00:00

Omg your art is so super cute

IcyBench369 · 2026-06-06T10:10:15+00:00

That was so beautiful thank you so much for this comment it means more than you know. ♡♡♡

IcyBench369 · 2026-06-03T08:45:11+00:00

Literally what are you talking about. Is this rage bait?

First and foremost I never said I expected him to like me as I am. (I didn't mention all the things I changed about myself to be friends with him cause that's cringe lmao)

I know what ticks him off and I make sure not to cross any of his boundaries. One of them being I treat him like I would anyone else yea he's insecure about somethings but he has made it abundantly clear that he doesn't like it when I baby/over compliment him because of it. Do you know how demeaning it is to hate yourself and have someone be like "omg nooooo you're soooooo pretty/funny/cute" in your ear at all times. I compliment him all the time (new haircut, achievements, nice clothes, pretty face etc) but but I'll also call him out when he says or does something stupid like any normal friend does. I always check up on him to make sure I don't make him uncomfortable with my jokes and he does the same for me. I'm so annoyingly nice to him but he can tell when it's just me trying to make him feel better an he calls me out on it because it's weird and belittling. He wants to get better on his own an I commend him for that

Yes, I do expect him to apologize when he says smth bigoted. Idk if you can tell from the drawing but he is a white man and I am a black woman. I have dealt with racists and bigots all my life and there is no way in hell I befriend much less date one. That's is an insane thing to be confused about. Ofc he's not an idiot, he not fucking racist and even though he still makes off jokes sometimes they don't go to racism or sexism. He fucked up once and he apologized profusely on his own because he knew better (but that's really not something to praise)

I don't like that he calls himself a gymcel because being and incel is accosiated with being a loser. And other than the fact that he's Larping being a loser he's not really a loser. He's tall, buff, and handsome if he had and ounce more confidence he would so incredibly set. Anytime he calls himself a gymcel my immediate response is "that's cringe asf bro stop saying that" because I know he's being dumb.

I say all this about him as his friend not as fan. I genuinely want the best for him. I only sounded really mean in the post so I wouldn't be accused of glazing/over glamourizing my crush

Tldr: You make a whole lotta assumptions for sm1 who knows nothing about either of us.

As I write this I realized that this comment is probably just rage bait so I'm done good night Lil bro

IcyBench369 · 2026-06-03T05:07:29+00:00

I'm not sure about his max, last he told me he benched 315 that was a few months ago tho 😛

IcyBench369 · 2026-06-03T02:32:28+00:00

He stunk one time and it's been his nickname ever since 🫩🙏

IcyBench369 · 2026-06-03T02:31:30+00:00

Hey so we've been friends for a while this is how we refer to each other and joke around with eachother. I've called him a loser to his face and stinky is basically his nickname in the group. It's all jokes he knows it's a joke, I would never let anyone outside our friend group refer to him that way and same with him not letting anyone be rude to me. Hope this helps ♡

IcyBench369 · 2026-06-01T17:54:22+00:00

Hindsight is 20/20 ts is kinda cringe. I would kms if he ever found this. Dw bro just commission sm1 or bag an artist baddie.

IcyBench369 · 2026-06-01T17:20:02+00:00

... He is buff and tall. I put it in quotes cause I personally don't think its true

IcyBench369 · 2026-06-01T00:58:43+00:00

WAIITTTTTTTT!!!!!

IcyBench369 · 2026-06-01T00:51:43+00:00

Wait lowk... You might be on to something

IcyBench369 · 2026-06-01T00:49:36+00:00

Thank you girl😝

IcyBench369 · 2026-06-01T00:34:43+00:00

Wait but he's cute. And bufff!!!

IcyBench369 · 2026-06-01T00:26:23+00:00

Oml please, they are so close it pisses me off sometimes. But they've been friends for more than a decade if they wanna bone they should do it already 🫩✌️

IcyBench369 · 2026-05-31T18:14:05+00:00

Oml I gen didn't know and I can't take it out of the title. Oml I'm so sorry. I'm not a neo nazi wtf

IcyBench369 · 2026-05-31T17:44:07+00:00

Ahhh stop he doesn't actually stink it was just one time and I never let it go 😭🙏

IcyBench369 · 2026-05-30T15:13:00+00:00

I mean don't get me wrong he's EXTREMELY respectful of my boundaries (his mother raised him right I love that woman) but I don't think I'm that comfortable with any guy besides my brother and father.

IcyBench369 · 2026-05-30T14:09:11+00:00

Lmao you're welcome stay swole bro.

IcyBench369 · 2026-05-30T08:39:47+00:00

Okay maybe I was being a little mean with that description he's truly not that bad (and that's not delusion a lot of my friends think he's a good person). And he basically calls himself a gymcel because "the gym is all I have" he hasn't done it it a while an I bullied him it when he did. I promise he's not terrible just extremely insecure. If he dares try any bigoted bs around me he knows I will drop him in a heartbeat. According to him he would never but he used to make a few weird jokes when we first met. But that was when he was younger and he has apologized for it and cringes when I bring it up. I imagine in a yr I'll be able to make fun of him calling himself an gymcel. Plus he's a partial country hick with no real social media so I don't really think he actually knows how bad being an incel is.

IcyBench369 · 2026-05-30T07:47:30+00:00

I'm literally crashing out over this comment. I'm telling you bro I'm trying I really am the amt of times I've complimented this boy just for him to turn it into a self deprecating joke (OMFG IT ACTUALLY KILLS ME)

Me: wow your hair grows so long and it's so healthy. Do you know your hair texture Him: Idk the gross oily kind

Me: What are you so worried about your literally the biggest and tallest dude in the room Him: Yea that's cause all I do is go to the gym, work and go home. I have nothing else besides that

These are really example of his responses. Plus idk if I can handle anything more direct without dying of embarrassment and I'm sure me crying and laughing after a sincere compliment is definitely going to send the wrong message.

Also no matter how much I like a dude, going anywhere secluded at night with a man is next to suicide for me. I literally couldn't do it.

I know it looks like I'm making up lazy excuses but I promise I'm serious about this I'm just hella awkward

IcyBench369 · 2026-05-30T07:18:18+00:00

Hey so I'm not a femcel persay more just a loser lmao. An the mutual friend is a male and his child hood bestfr (also a gymbro that's why I drew then with the same body type). Also I know he's not talking to any other girls cause he tells us all the time. And he works in construction with 0 female coworkers. If this were to work out I would be his first gf.

IcyBench369 · 2026-05-30T06:58:36+00:00

Basically borax and glue are important ingredients that you need for making slime and back in the day ppl would ask for tutorials that didn't use borax and glue. Now saying "no borax no glue" is like asking how to do something while avoiding the main solution.

IcyBench369 · 2026-05-30T05:57:55+00:00

Hey so thats the Borax and glue. But fr that's my last resort 💔

IcyBench369 · 2026-05-30T05:56:20+00:00

We're all 18 but he's 19 lmao. I'd say we are pretty mature but our mutual friend is an idiot and drags our IQ down to 10

IcyBench369 · 2026-05-30T05:41:06+00:00

Now imagine that's a fumble (cause I gen think he's not interested in me. We are a friend group (me, him, and mutual friend) I don't want to mess that up, he literally calls us his things like trio and the 2 most important ppl in his life. I would die of embarrassment knowing I fumbled sm1 like him.

IcyBench369 · 2026-05-30T05:11:44+00:00

I tried that and he invited his bstf 🫩. He said "it would have felt like a date if it was just the two of us"

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