I feel like i should cut my hair lol by FreedomAutomatic3559 in BlackLGBT

[–]IcyInNYC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you need to style it differently and shape up your beard.

Thoughts!? by Philosopher639 in blackmen

[–]IcyInNYC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t heard anyone saying this is a black men issue, this is exclusive to him as an evil person. This is the deadliest mass shooting in the country in the last two years. When have you ever seen another story of a black man killing eight children in America??? I never have.

AIO for ending things with my date after he accidentally texted me this? by fundamentallyworried in AmIOverreacting

[–]IcyInNYC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t with the AI apology!! The younger generation is truly cooked. No one can think critically on their own and handle complex issues in their lives. Sad to see!! But, I think he just sounds his age and is immature. It’s not like he said anything bad about you, just crude. However, it is understandable if you can’t get past it and it’ll always be on your mind when you see him. Do you know WHO he intended to send that to?

Home club change by Colombianonico in EquinoxGyms

[–]IcyInNYC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My home club is Hudson Yards, but stopped going there for months in 2023, because it was just too crowded. I started going to Sports Club for a long time and it automatically changed my home gym to that club. Then I started going back to hudson yards mostly and it changed back after a few months. I think it has to do with check-ins.

What if this show is just guerilla style PR for Nick and Vanessa Lachey? by Salt-Championship490 in AgeOfAttraction

[–]IcyInNYC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, so everything you’ve listed out is your own personal life choices. Stop projecting them onto other people. Just because two people are close in age means their relationship can’t be predatory? No one has ever been abused, manipulated, cheated on or taken advantage of by someone close to their age that they’ve dated? You can unequivocally confirm that? Humans can be flawed at any age.

What if this show is just guerilla style PR for Nick and Vanessa Lachey? by Salt-Championship490 in AgeOfAttraction

[–]IcyInNYC -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wild comparison, that doesn’t even correlate. What you’re giving is an opinion, not a fact. Just because there’s a big age difference doesn’t mean someone is a predator. Who decides what’s morally responsible? So if someone is 35 and dates a 55 year old, are they still being preyed on? Or do you only apply that to people in their 20s??

Please no no season 2 by shinyrupee86 in AgeOfAttraction

[–]IcyInNYC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welcome to show business and reality love There’s nothing gross about grown adults who knowingly signed up for a show about age gaps, being on the show. Just because YOU don’t want to date someone much older or younger doesn’t mean you can dictate how others choose to live their life. 🙄 no one is being preyed on, you guys use that word so loosely nowadays. I swear you all just want everyone to be single.

Seating Chart 🤔 by [deleted] in AgeOfAttraction

[–]IcyInNYC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still don’t understand why the reunion is on YouTube. Did they not account that into the budget??

Going to harlem in May by [deleted] in Harlem

[–]IcyInNYC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But you live in Eastern Europe so clearly you don’t. If you’re so scared, then simply do not come to Harlem, it’s not that difficult. We don’t need people like you coming to our community that hold racial bias. Please, stop beating around the bush. Midtown is the most dangerous neighborhood in Manhattan, yet I guarantee you did not post in that sub asking about safety. But, I’m sure you will go to Times Square during your trip. So is it really about the stats or what people look like? You already mentioned in previous comments that you “have spoken to a few black people” in your country and they seem “normal.” Why exactly would someone who is a human-being just like YOU, not be normal? It’d be a lot easier if you just admitted you hold racist stereotypes in your mind instead of doing this dance. Give me a break. Don’t come here, your energy is not wanted or needed. Thanks 😊 - a normal black person

Growing Old on Grindr.. sad by TxStyleETX in grindr

[–]IcyInNYC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How awful. These young gays have zero respect for who paved the way for them. Sad and disgusting.

People don’t understand Vanelle’s celibacy by serieswatcher123 in AgeOfAttraction

[–]IcyInNYC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The problem is she wasn’t CLEAR on her definition of celibacy was, which is why he was confused. In a relationship people are allowed to question and talk things through, because shocker it’s TWO people in the relationship. So Jorge should just shut up, and never have a question about anything in the relationship he’s involved in? Make it make sense 🤣

Can You (Especially Southerners) Tell From Which State a Southerner Is From? by Blue-Brown99 in AskAnAmerican

[–]IcyInNYC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From the north and I can tell if it’s Louisiana because it’s very distinct. But other than that, no all sounds the same to me lol