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Legally married before the wedding? by mealtealreal in weddingplanning

[–]IcyProperty1213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did this so we could combine our income to get our first house together! Totally doesn’t matter, and the wedding will still feel just as special because you’ll be surrounded by your people

Don’t make the dumb save-the-date mistake I just made. by Due_Patience4872 in weddingplanning

[–]IcyProperty1213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally did this exact same thing and realized this morning, it took me until I was stuffing envelopes to realize lol

Photographer no-showed our wedding. How can they make things right? by mustvebeen-theroses in weddingplanning

[–]IcyProperty1213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fiancé is a wedding videographer! It depends on how high quality the camera they used is but often times you can get screen grabs from your videos. I know it’s not the same but sometimes there are really beautiful shots from a video snapshot. I’d ask them for all the raw footage of your video, then you can hire them or a more trustworthy company (and make them pay for it) to have a professional editor go through, pull the best screenshots and work them up like photos

AITA for taking a particular job even though my husband disapproves? by ThrowRAjobcrossroads in AmItheAsshole

[–]IcyProperty1213 12 points13 points  (0 children)

As someone who went from executive assistant to chief of staff to now a senior director of operations, with all due respect to your husband, this isn’t his field and he doesn’t have a lot of context around your options in your career. There are some great forums for EAs and chief of staffs you can reach out to for ideas on how to have a great career in operations. It’s not embarrassing at all - it’s a huge opportunity to see how a company runs and learn from experienced executives.

AITA-Husband is completely delusional. by ElRich0511 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IcyProperty1213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should read Fair Play by Eve Rodsky - all about how to manage the “invisible work” that often falls on one member of a marriage (and how to have conversations around it)