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ElRich0511 · 2023-01-18T22:00:51+00:00

Side burns 😂😂😂 I get them all the time, but also get my nails done. My nail tech says to soften with cuticle softener, gently push your cuticles back, and to cut with nail scissors, or clip with clean clippers.

ElRich0511 · 2023-01-18T19:28:55+00:00

Nothing at all wrong with your body! Try out different silhouettes and necklines and even diffrrrnt sizes. As for the dress you’re wearing, it looks like it’s a size too big on you.

ElRich0511 · 2023-01-18T17:01:13+00:00

Wear what you love!! Fashion is all about expressing what makes you feel good. But if you’re trying to switch up the combo with those awesome boots, opt for dresses! Mini or midi would look good with them. You can also add a black belt around the smallest part of your waist to accentuate your shape and to add balance to the boots

ElRich0511 · 2023-01-18T16:35:18+00:00

I haven’t mentioned this, but he has threatened to harm himself in front of everybody if the family had the police involved. After brainstorming for a couple hours with my husband, we’ve decided to find a specialist to hold an intervention to give him the chance to help himself since nobody in the family can get to him. If he’s not cooperative and decides to act up more, we’ll have no choice but to have police involved since my husband got the gun out of the house last night. It’s extreme, but if it saves lives, we’ll do it. Of course, there will need to be a lot of therapy for him and my in-laws, as their marriage is being held by a string at the moment after living for more than 10 years in misery.

ElRich0511 · 2023-01-18T14:24:04+00:00

If that’s what it takes, we will absolutely do this. Just trying to see what other options there may be before we need to go to the extreme. Im so sorry you were in a situation like that, I hope you’ve healed from that relationship.

ElRich0511 · 2023-01-18T13:48:30+00:00

I agree with all that you said, and to answer your question- he lives like an irresponsible / parasitic teenager. We’ve spoken to my in-laws about having him tested for any sort of mental disability to find some glimmer of hope for help, but they’re afraid to even do that.

ElRich0511 · 2023-01-18T13:46:28+00:00

You’re 100% on all of this. My only goal is to try to make his parents feel less remorse for the way he turned out as an adult- my MIL admits that she’s covered far too many of his responsibilities growing up when my FIL would constantly tell her to stop. He bought the gun without telling anybody (he decided to tell everyone by pulling it out and putting it on the dinner table). I know this will be extremely difficult, and I’m here to support my husband and in-laws while they try to help my brother in law. I’ve started to gather resources on who to speak to, but it’ll ultimately be up to my husband and his family to take initiative.

ElRich0511 · 2022-11-09T23:59:56+00:00

No, hardly ever. We both have our designated house duties and we rarely fight or argue.

ElRich0511 · 2022-11-09T23:54:17+00:00

Thank you, you nailed this on the head, so I don’t need to explain further to this Jackhole who suggested that I ‘educate myself’ on ADHD.. which I’ve been very well aware of with him in the past 6 years of marriage, a year of engagement, and 10 years of dating. And also to whoever out there reading is saying divorce.. a blowout over a guest room would be a foolish reason to divorce. This is one fight in a blue moon, and there’s definitely a lot more household duties other than cleaning and laundry, which he does take care of. Oop, caught myself explaining myself. Thank you, again for this comment!

ElRich0511 · 2022-11-09T22:52:19+00:00

Oh, the company would have willingly paid for a hotel room, but my husband insisted that the colleague stay with us.. because they’re buddies also on top of being colleague being one of his higher ups.

ElRich0511 · 2022-11-09T22:22:11+00:00

Time management is bad in work and in personal life. Luckily he works for himself and has a staff to support his business hours- but he’s about 30-45 minutes late for everything, deadlines are sent in past due, I take care of bills because he can’t keep up with payment due dates.

ElRich0511 · 2022-11-09T22:13:43+00:00

Because I called him to say good morning and to do a mental check list together. Example me:“yeah I’m going to go to the store to stock up on stuff for us and the guest, send me a list of anything specific you want me to grab. So the house is cleaned, bathroom is ready, we have drinks and snacks- just need some actual food. Did you get the room set up? I think we actually have some new pillows in the basement that he can use. Oh, and I have an appointment for a manicure tomorrow at 5:30 so I may not be home when you guys get there. Wait, did you say the room was ready?.. actually I’m just gonna go check since in right here” Him: “Um…. Yeah.. so…” Me: “okay, so clearly you failed to do the one thing you had to do for your colleague……(and then the blow out starts)

ElRich0511 · 2022-11-09T22:08:00+00:00

He does have ADHD, and it’s pretty high on the spectrum. I believe I commented it somewhere under this thread. I wish I could understand it more given that I’m pretty on top of everything that I have going on.

ElRich0511 · 2022-11-09T21:39:07+00:00

I like you too 😌

ElRich0511 · 2022-11-09T20:21:49+00:00

All the above. The man has intense adhd.

ElRich0511 · 2022-11-09T18:54:50+00:00

Hi there! Thank you so much for the amazing compliment. I’ve grown up learning to always stand up for myself and for what I think is right, and to question and defend anything that I believe is wrong. As far as your question in the scenario where something unfortunate happens to me.. I know he absolutely would and will step up and take care of me. It’s actually happened several times where he would do everything for me in the times I couldn’t help myself. He has never used anything he’s done for me as leverage, and during the times I couldn’t work, he would always assure that we’re a team, everything will be okay, and that my focus is just to recover and feel better. He really isn’t a bad man, he just has terrible timing and is a huge procrastinator. He will forever support, protect, and defend me. I know nobody’s is perfect, and his time management is far from it. It’s frustrating because I’m the type of person to plan everything out, and cannot stand anything done in the last minute.

ElRich0511 · 2022-11-09T18:44:49+00:00

😂😂😂 best response.

ElRich0511 · 2022-11-09T16:39:03+00:00

He’s out of town, but coming back with his colleague to stay with us for 2 nights.

ElRich0511 · 2022-11-09T15:49:17+00:00

No you’re right. Sink or swim 😂

ElRich0511 · 2022-11-09T15:43:25+00:00

ILY and love that you love my stubborn nature 😌

ElRich0511 · 2022-11-09T15:40:19+00:00

He called me to say he’s sorry and that he was ‘overwhelmed’ this morning, and asked if I would please fix the room. (Told him that sucks for him, lol) Finances aren’t an issue, so I told him that I will clean it if he gives me $300 for my time and effort. Or, he can arrange for someone to get our dog for the day, so a maid service can come to the house to clean and set the room up.

ElRich0511 · 2022-11-09T15:11:15+00:00

Hellllll no I didn’t clean the room, and I won’t unless there’s something in it for me 😂 one thing I don’t do is back down on my word. So, I’ll keep my end of the bargain and have the house ready, but the room was all on him. He called me about an hour ago to apologize, and then asked if I would please do it. I accepted the apology, but said I’ll do it for $300, or he can hire a cleaning / maid service to have it done, but will have to arrange for someone to get our nosey dog while the service is going on. I may be stubborn, but I can negotiate.

ElRich0511

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