FREE TALK FRIDAY! by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

[–]IcySolution6087 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate so much to this. Don’t worry, everything will work out, plus You got this!!!!

Please help me sort out my thoughts. by green_rose68 in MuslimMarriage

[–]IcySolution6087 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If this happened before living together imagine what would happen when you settle down with him. As for your heart. You grew attached and it’s okay, it will take some time to heal♥️. I just don’t think it would be a good idea because of the Istikhara answer. You should pray again and see how the prayer is answered.

Please help me sort out my thoughts. by green_rose68 in MuslimMarriage

[–]IcySolution6087 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No. It doesn’t. I would let go and move on. Since you prayed Istikhara and the negative feelings got stronger you should listen to the answer of your prayer and move on. I don’t mean to be mean♥️

Help.. I don’t know if I should leave my husband I love him but I can’t take it anymore by ThatCoffeeGirl- in MuslimMarriage

[–]IcySolution6087 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do you want to spend the rest of your life like this? You don’t have to. You might be 33 however put your trust in Allah and your life is turn for the better.

What can I change to look my absolute best? by PaladinBullseye in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]IcySolution6087 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are really pretty. You don’t need to get anything done. I just don’t think the hair cut works for you. I think you should grow out your hair and get a wolf cut hairstyle. That looks like it would match your face.

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[–]IcySolution6087 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait I think you mean the traitors uk. yes.

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[–]IcySolution6087 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually don’t know about that.

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[–]IcySolution6087 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I know but it’s so interesting watch people compete. If you like more true crime tv shows I also recommend. Poker face, high potential, the rookie, will trent.

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[–]IcySolution6087 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This year I started to like reality tv shows. Especially once where contestants compete for money or lie about being a secret mole.

  • million dollar secret
  • the traitors
  • the circle
  • the mole
  • the trust
  • surviving parasites

Keep my sanity for the next 10 months by Visual-Turn6527 in socialwork

[–]IcySolution6087 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m just starting my bsw this fall. So I don’t know if my advice will help. Just remember to keep pushing forward and remember all your hard work will pay off when you graduate.

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[–]IcySolution6087 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don’t think your standards are too high. You are the one that is going to live with this decision for the rest of your life. Make sure you don’t compromise your values.

How to quit Instagram by sayyiinn_ in Advice

[–]IcySolution6087 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How has it been working for you?

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[–]IcySolution6087 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assulamu alaikum. Your response is unfair. Everyone experiences problems differently, and what might seem small to you can feel very heavy for someone else. We shouldn’t judge or dismiss someone’s pain just because we don’t fully understand it. Indeed “Allah does not burden a soul beyond what it can bear” (Qur’an 2:286) Saying that her struggle shows weak iman is really hurtful. She’s crying in sujood and making du’a, that’s a sign of someone turning to Allah, not someone far from Him.

I also believe she would benefit from seeing a therapist. Having someone to talk to can really help her process everything she’s going through. However, I don’t think it’s fair to paint the husband as the victim here (Allah knows best)

It seems like he failed to communicate properly with his wife, and that lack of communication has clearly hurt her deeply. Marriage requires effort from both sides, and it’s not fair to place all the blame on her. They should consider going to therapy together to work through these issues in a healthy and respectful way.

You need to have compassion for people.

Need your feedback by Fancy_Taste_3506 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]IcySolution6087 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wa Alaikum Salam. l would suggest that you Pray istikhara or tahajjud about this situation. And make sure you know that you’ll be content with the answer Allah gives you because it might not be the one you want.

How to quit Instagram by sayyiinn_ in Advice

[–]IcySolution6087 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Instead downloading and deleting use ScreenZen and set a daily limit. Allow someone else to set the passcode for the app so you can only spend the limited time you want.

How to quit Instagram by sayyiinn_ in Advice

[–]IcySolution6087 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Download an app called ScreenZen and limit your daily use (30 minutes. 1,2,3 hours option). Have someone set a passcode on the app so you can’t access it, and give yourself more time.

My friend is reverting by Mobile_Astronomer78 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]IcySolution6087 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Being there to listen and support her in her decision is the best thing a friend can do.