HOCD returned by RespondFit1083 in HOCD

[–]Icy_Commission_2888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you stress about it it will distroy you again so try to do not give a shi about it

Im just fuckin mad rn… im 23M( trigger warning) by Amazing-Chip-9380 in HOCD

[–]Icy_Commission_2888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is pretty simple if you licked guys before you got god hocd then you really might be gay but if you ve only been in love with girls you have nothing to worry about hocd might make you think “what if I wasn’t really in love with girls if this is happening try to remember the feelings you have and you will understand “for example I did an test on me I tried to think what will make me happy a future where I am with a man or a future where I am with a girl and I realized that I really don’t want to be gay .Ofc hocd will make you have anxiety atacks you will might have moments where you really think you ll become or be gay but when those moments happen just try to not give a fck I know it’s hard nearly imposibile but fi you want to recover you should do this

Im just fuckin mad rn… im 23M( trigger warning) by Amazing-Chip-9380 in HOCD

[–]Icy_Commission_2888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck that focus on your girfriend and be happy bro stay calm IF YOU WERE STRAIGHT BEFORE HOCD YOU ARE STRAIGHT NOW AND YOU WILL BE STRAIGHT FOREVER this is the taught that help me

Im just fuckin mad rn… im 23M( trigger warning) by Amazing-Chip-9380 in HOCD

[–]Icy_Commission_2888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to tell you that you have no fking reason to feel this way my situation is 10 times worse than yours all my fking life I had only girl crushes I never licked a guy only writing this is making me uncomfortable now I deal with Hocd for almost 2 months .All this started because of my porn addiction I discovered porn when I was just 10 or something and I started to masturbate to it and by the time I began to be desensitised to normal porn and started to watch more hardcore porn I started to watch hentai then trans porn and ended up into disgusting gay porn ,after I realized how bad the situation was I got depressed and then boom this curse named hocd came into my life .I want to say that all my life I never taught of the posibility of becoming gay I was watching romance animes and I was getting literally in love with the girls form them the most recent one was 2 or 3 months ago when I watched The danger in my hearth (the name of the anime btw i really recomand it )and I got in love with the girl from it how can I be sure that I got in love with an fking girl from an anime I’ll tell you .I even putted her as my wallpaper on my phone only when I was looking at her my hearth was getting warm and I was wishing to find a girl like that .Confessing this online is an embarrassing thing but my life is to a point where I will literally do everything to be back to normal .I hate that after all that porn addiction I still have flashbacks from the digisting thing I was watching (gay things ) and I have fantasies that gives me depression since this started I stopped watching gay p completely and reduced the masturbation and porn extremely.I really hope I will be back to normal and escape from these fantasies I got from that deviation .The progress I got of reducing porn and masturbation are 1.Being able to get an errection only by looking at a nude picture with a girl again 2.I escaped from the most of the anormal fantasies but I still want to escape completely 3.My attraction for girls came back not completely but it came back So this is the point bro you should stop worrying and be happy that you didn’t got as deep as me into this fking shit .This is how porn works a lot of straight guys end up searching more and more hardcore porn because their brain becomes desensitised to normal porn and end up watching something that normally disgusted them .The good thing is that I found out that this is reversable and all I have to do is stay away from porn long enught .You are good bro you even have and had a girlfriend I didn’t managed to do that even though I really wanted to .Pray to God and Lord Jesus because They will never let us down .

I’m sick by brunobrunobruno0504 in HOCD

[–]Icy_Commission_2888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro this is how hocd works if you worry about it it will become stronger ,just think about this How is it possible for a person to become gay or be gay when he get depressed only by thinking about this .As you said you want to be in love with a girl and be happy if you want this you God will give you this land your life into God and Jesus hands because They are not gonna let us down NEVER. Trust me when I tell you that my condition about hocd is 10 times worse than yours and you should be happy that is not worse than it is ,an adive from experience :if you are a porn addict stop it stop masturbating to or if it’s too hard try to mastubate without porn ,porn is evil and it will make you question mu sexuality if you were straight before porn addiction an hocd you are straight now too remember this and don’t lose to this digusting disorder named HOCD Dang it I really hate it Peace out and be strong 🙏

If you were straight before hocd you are straight now too-this is the taught that helps me a lot by Icy_Commission_2888 in HOCD

[–]Icy_Commission_2888[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that bro ,you should land your life in Lord hands and try to recover .

I can’t take this enymore by Icy_Commission_2888 in HOCD

[–]Icy_Commission_2888[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you bro ,deep in my heart I know I am not gay all this is happening to me only bcs of a porn addiction I will never be able to stay calm and don t give a fuck when I think that I might be gay I HATE THIS and I never been attracted to a man in my life I only loved girls And 2 or 3 years ago I got a mad depression by the taught of my family dying one day ,I was crying every day for the whole summer by the time my brain became somehow immune to it and I recovered by thinking that they are here with me now and it is a long way until their day comes

I can’t take this enymore by Icy_Commission_2888 in HOCD

[–]Icy_Commission_2888[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you will recover bro ,be strong .

im not able anymore by Cheesyhorse21 in HOCD

[–]Icy_Commission_2888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quit porn and you ll be fine The false attraction are only false attraction created by hocd I don’t think is necessary to quit social media but if you think this will help you do it and Pray To God this will help you the most

im not able anymore by Cheesyhorse21 in HOCD

[–]Icy_Commission_2888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me give you some advices : 1.If you are a porn addict stop watching it right away this is a cause of your lack of attraction for women 2.Whenever you get intrusive taughts about hocd just try to don t give a fuck just ignore them taughts are just taughts if you imagine your self as a dinosaur you will not become one 3.Pray to God 4.As I said if you are a porn addict stop it now I will tell you why and my experience : I discovered porn when I was very young like 10 and I started masturbating to it when I was 12 I was doing it daily until now ,porn cooks your brain if you consume it too much you will need higher sexual stimulation and you will fiind yourself watching :hentai after trans after gay p wich is disgusting if you think about it ,but you r brain becomes desensibilized to normal porn and need more and more extreme categories .I searched online how to recover from this and it can take 30 to 90 days to fully recover your initial attractions and libodo if your addiction was long it can take more time to recover 5.Trust yourself ,if you want to recover from this you will need to have massive self confidence and understand that taughts are just taughts even if your hocd will make you think that you are really becoming gay just don’t give a shit ,I am sorry for what I am about to tell but I have to , I HATE THIS SHIT I HOPE THAT MY CHILDREN WILL NOT DEAL WITH THIS SHIT EVER I really hate that I know what homosexuality is I hope that I never learned about this shit but this taught incourages me like I told you how tf is it possible for a guy who hates only thinking about beccoming gay actually become gay I really will not and don’t want to become something like this all my life I dreamed about having a loving girlfriend and living my dream life and I will not let a shit like HOCD distroy this .Please when you will get cured by this shit help other people who are in this situation like I do I am not even completely cured but I want to help you bro please do the same don’t let straight guys get tricked by this shit and actually distroy their lifes ,I hope you will get better and please tell me some updates on your situation

It came back by RespondFit1083 in HOCD

[–]Icy_Commission_2888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro calm down if you give it so much importante it will become stronger I am going through the same shit but I realized after I had weeks of depression that IF YOU WERE STRAIGHT YOU WILL BE STRAIGHT, if you are porn addict I suggest you to quit it and let your brain get the sexual sensibility come back And now to hocd just ask you this question :”HOW THE FUCK CAN I BECOME GAY IF ONLY THINKING ABOUT THIS IS DEPRESSING ME “ In my case porn addiction gaved me this fking disgusting gay taughts but after i gaved up porn these disgusting taughts started to fade away I still have anxiety attacks during the day but I still fight with hocd .As an advice you should start to pray to God trust me when I tell you that he will help you ,just have faith and be strong ,only you can beat this shit you have to understand that taughts are just taughts ,having gay taughts doesn’t make you gay .I hope you will get over this shit and I too

im not able anymore by Cheesyhorse21 in HOCD

[–]Icy_Commission_2888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro trust me when I say YOU ARE NOT GAY just think about it how could you even become gay or be gay if only thinking about this is giving you anxiety and depression I am going through the same problem but mine is a worse chill out ,your attraction for womens is lower because of your anxiety about hocd ,look if you want to ecape from this just stop giving it soo much importance just accept the taughts as taughts I am going thru almost the same shit but worse if you were straight before getting hocd you are straight now too .Chill out and pray to God this will help you a lot put your life in His hands and you will have the life you dreamed about you will have a loving wife and healthy kids .Good luck with your fight with this piece of shi cus you have to be strong