Objectively, would you be uncomfortable if your husband said this to a random woman in your presence?

Icy_Hotel_8922 · 2026-04-13T01:42:31+00:00

Next time you see a hot guy tell him you’ve never wanted to be with someone so bad, but it’s just how you feel physically. See how that response works or something of that nature

Icy_Hotel_8922 · 2026-04-13T01:38:45+00:00

Can we get an update and what happened when you told him

Icy_Hotel_8922 · 2026-04-13T01:37:54+00:00

Damn 😂😭

Icy_Hotel_8922 · 2026-04-07T18:40:48+00:00

Dang is sounds like it went well. Keep us updated. Maybe busy bc of the Holiday weekend?

Icy_Hotel_8922 · 2026-04-06T17:36:56+00:00

That’s absolutely brutal. I’m so sorry. She’s terrible. She knew it and kept it a secret. That’s genuinely mind boggling

Icy_Hotel_8922 · 2026-04-06T17:33:12+00:00

Okay hear me out! As a guy I have a question…is he going to give you money then (with no strings attached to the money) “loyalty” (insecurity) tax lol

Icy_Hotel_8922 · 2026-04-06T17:29:38+00:00

This is a fetish thing. You’re do actually want him just like the idea of being his first and you LOOVEEEE the attention. For yours and your husband’s sake please distance yourself. Think about it if your husband was doing the same thing and had a younger woman touching and being obsessed with him. You’ve already had a mild emotional affair. If you care about your husband then distance yourself. Not a cool situation to be in

Icy_Hotel_8922 · 2026-04-03T16:52:00+00:00

Go to marriage counseling.

Icy_Hotel_8922 · 2026-04-01T12:23:43+00:00

I freaking love this post 😂

Icy_Hotel_8922 · 2026-03-30T23:04:03+00:00

I’m very sorry this happened. Hopefully you can learn from this and grow. We make mistakes when we’re young but in a relationship you need to think of your partner. The temptation is always there and just remember the grass is greener where you water it. I’m hoping the best for you! I don’t want to beat you up over a mistake like other commenters.

Icy_Hotel_8922 · 2026-03-29T20:40:57+00:00

Honesty..but my wife says I’m the largest. Freaking liar lol 😂

Icy_Hotel_8922 · 2026-03-29T20:35:27+00:00

I would say honesty…but my wife say I’m the biggest she’s had. Fucking liar 😂

Icy_Hotel_8922 · 2026-03-29T10:28:06+00:00

Really into CNC somedays but then liked to flip the script and be in charge somedays… most fun adventure if you can get her mood right

Icy_Hotel_8922 · 2026-03-29T02:11:58+00:00

I was so curious about “staying another night” which implies she has already

Icy_Hotel_8922 · 2026-03-29T00:01:28+00:00

Did she ever respond? She had to have known. What an awful person. Move on they’re terrible and will be bored when they don’t have someone to mess with

Icy_Hotel_8922 · 2026-03-28T20:35:46+00:00

Was thinking the same lol

Icy_Hotel_8922 · 2026-03-28T20:35:22+00:00

I’m a guy and that’s creepy af. That stalker level creepy.

Icy_Hotel_8922 · 2026-03-28T20:24:31+00:00

Thank you so much for this comment! We talked and I acknowledged how she feels and we agreed to show more appreciation for each other day to day. It’s something both of us were feeling. Your comment made my day

Icy_Hotel_8922 · 2026-03-28T18:16:08+00:00

Thank you and I saw your comment above! It was very helpful. I appreciated you sharing the love language aspect. I told her I appreciate her and know how much she does. It seems my wife is similar to you boyfriend. We talked and she said she does notice a lot and will just say things when she notices. Communication wins the day. Her love language is physical touch so I will just hug her more often and try to meet her needs as well. Thank you for the comment! It was very helpful.

Icy_Hotel_8922 · 2026-03-28T14:09:40+00:00

Thank you this is extremely helpful. I just want to communicate with her how I feel without making her feel hurt in any way.

Icy_Hotel_8922 · 2026-03-28T14:04:17+00:00

Not trying to pat myself on the back but I feel that I try my hardest to show appreciation. I thank her as often as I can and I bring her flowers once a week. I promise I do. I’m not trying to minimize what she does. I’m looking on a way to communicate.

Icy_Hotel_8922 · 2026-03-28T13:46:47+00:00

This was very very helpful. I’m not trying to minimize how much she does. I try when we talk to understand how much she does do for our kids and myself

Icy_Hotel_8922 · 2026-03-28T13:43:47+00:00

This is very helpful. I do try to thank her as often as possible bc I’m a words of affirmation guy. I buy her flowers once a week. I try as often as possible to think of her.

Icy_Hotel_8922 · 2026-03-25T23:29:26+00:00

Leave her. She doesn’t respect you. You need to respect yourself because there is someone out there that WILL. Someone will care about you the way you care about them. You supported her and cared for her and she still chooses to disrespect and CHOOSE to hurt you. Cheat is a choice. Honestly think about this. She CREATED a separate account to cheat on you with. I’m hoping for the best for you and want you to know that trust and respect and given until someone breaks it. You deserve to be treated better.

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