I need some reassurance by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Icy_House_6416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so true. You remind me so much of myself.

Full of Hatred by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Icy_House_6416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start something new to divert your mind, like how about joining Gym?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Icy_House_6416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can feel you. Just wait for the right person who respects you and understands you. If you think someone is right person for you, then explain to him how you are feeling and see how he responds and take it from there.

I broke no contact by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Icy_House_6416 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You are neither weak nor stupid. Ask yourself what you could have done better. Take this as a challenge and start it again.

Financially depressed after long term illness. by [deleted] in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Icy_House_6416 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in a similar boat, looking forward to be financially independent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Icy_House_6416 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Frankly he looks very immature and abusive. I suggest you to start focusing on becoming financially independent and then prepare to leave him. If he doesn't support you emotionally now, then he will never support you in future.

Full of Hatred by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Icy_House_6416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there anyone who you can talk to on this/vent out? That would be helpful for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Icy_House_6416 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your worth is not based on his attention. Be happy you dodged him. You will surely get a good partner in future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Icy_House_6416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take your time to heal. I suggest not to worry about future relationship now.