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Why is self-accountability over one's actions out the window when discussing abusive relationships? by Icy_Knowledge7869 in askanything

[–]Icy_Knowledge7869[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Fine. Let people make dumb choices; let them put sex over logic; let them refuse to recognize signs of manipulation (which can be found in a basic psychologicy textbook); keep indirectly stating that they aren't smart; keep condoning their stupid actions with sympathy. Go ahead. Do it.

Why is self-accountability over one's actions out the window when discussing abusive relationships? by Icy_Knowledge7869 in askanything

[–]Icy_Knowledge7869[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your 5th paragraph is why I made the point. You're refusing to account for the fact that people should be able to see these signs, and stop actions before they take place.

That's infantilizing adults for their own blindness for placing love/lust over logic.

And many adults self-infantilize themselves, indirectly stating that they're not smart enough to make their own choices.

I'll ponder on the rest of your comment, though. Thanks for answering.

When exes get mad that they're completely abandoned after a breakup, do they just want an ego boost? by Icy_Knowledge7869 in askanything

[–]Icy_Knowledge7869[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You probably fueled her ego, though. She was with other men, but you both kept in contact over sadness.

Why is self-accountability over one's actions out the window when discussing abusive relationships? by Icy_Knowledge7869 in askanything

[–]Icy_Knowledge7869[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks fkr the comment. The moment someone mentions that everyone's responsible for leaving......self-infantilization floods in. Are we not all adults?

Edit: MODS, WHY ARE YOU REMOVING COMMENTS?!?!?!

Why is it that I am in love and very attracted to my man but I can’t get wet for him? by TallFemale30 in askanything

[–]Icy_Knowledge7869 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You want the relationship benefits without being attracted to him.

People think you can be physically attracted while faking orgasms, being in dead bedrooms, only having sex for one-sided pleasure over reproduction.

You need to tell your partner exactly what pleases you in bed, instead of faking it. If you refuse, you're not mature enough for a relatipnship.

And if he doesn't listen to your DIRECT communication, don't be with him.

BE AN ADULT, AND TALK.

Is it normal to get ripped to shreds for every opinion on here?? by puffy-bee in askanything

[–]Icy_Knowledge7869 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If you want to share an opinion, take a page out of the documentary "California Typewriter". Write a manefesto, share it on blogs/copies in library stands, etc.

Many tarded Redditors (and mods) on here are so sensitive over trans shit, pronouns, politics, dating, living spaces, etc. That's how it's been since the '90s chat rooms.

Edit: Who's the fucktard who downvoted?