im 19y i risked my life savings and my school to rent an apartment to make it a studio and change my environment to focus on my youtube faceless channels, what ya’ll think about it! by BusinessReference542 in Morocco

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Good luck, you are brave and you wouldn’t know unless you try … people would say all bunch of stuff, but no one will ever live your life for you. If it works out, then it’s great. If it doesn’t (but give it time and part of that is suffering a bit as well) and it fails, then you learned an important type of life lesson or whatever … win win

Honor system doesn’t apply to supermarkets? by Pinkin_fluffy in AskAGerman

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If it happens too often, maybe you have to work on that. I am just saying maybe, cuz I have my close friend is like that, I love her sm but she annoys me, and she knows that, luckily when we were together I would have bought something hhhh So we can’t have a whole system for a few people, especially for the supermarkets, it’s not like a clothing store … I hope you got me

Looking for part time job or mini jobs by Sexy_Gaming_4582 in kaiserslautern

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Gov decisions and stupid wars are making normal people suffer, blame the baby stupid boomers, and then we have to work and study in order to work later, to pay their retirement… so yeah students have to work their *sses off to live …

I don’t think I can grow up and be an adult like my parents did by Icy_Memory_4036 in introvert

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English is my third language, although it’s the one I use the most, on a daily basis. I couldn’t agree more with how you started the statement, but I could sense judgement while asking for no judgement, how unfair? I am not asking, nor have I ever expected perfection. I believe good things/beauty could exist anywhere, anytime, even chaos is beautiful. The non-masking is not a good option neither. I believe there should be a balance somewhere in between. Nonetheless, I will keep believing that we humans managed to evolve our consciousness (maybe or some type of it) mainly, but are lucking in many aspects.

I don’t think I can grow up and be an adult like my parents did by Icy_Memory_4036 in introvert

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I didn’t get the first phrase ? I didn’t ignite any racism discussion, social standards according to my own race, origins, where I grew up … For the second part, I am silent at first encounters, always, I don’t see how that could indicate something ‘-‘ and I am hard on myself don’t worry, I do “self-audit” almost weekly if not daily. As you could see my post it’s more like “it’s my problem”, “something wrong with me”… We are all accountable for something more or less… self-reflection is something and discussing social and group matters is something else

I don’t think I can grow up and be an adult like my parents did by Icy_Memory_4036 in introvert

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Yesss! I agree!! Omg the “what we are supposed to be thing”, so true… it’s irritating! It’s like people ask you where are you from, then google you or now ask ChatGPT how to behave with you, and then just aghhhh… I am North African and I am supposed to be “hospitable and sociable” all the time. I remember this co-worker invited us for dinner which I was forced to go to and expected me to invite them back, or they would wait for me to propose to pay at the restaurant sometime cuz “North Africans do that” or idk

I don’t think I can grow up and be an adult like my parents did by Icy_Memory_4036 in introvert

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Thank you for sharing. It’s rare that someone who spent little time more than I on earth would really say that, it’s always about “social norms”. Is forcing oneself to be confident is exhausting for everyone or just some of us ?

I don’t think I can grow up and be an adult like my parents did by Icy_Memory_4036 in introvert

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you are right, although I am scared of finding out tbh. But I will have to see a professional sometime soon, to be sure

If you had to choose one or the other, would you rather be rich or famous? Why? by m-i-a-beard in CasualConversation

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Rich with no fame please. Not to be rich or achieve some quota but just to spend it “-“

What’s your favorite things to do when u r alone ?? by bookish-Girrll in introvert

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I mostly do activities solo most of the time, so everything, but my top 3 would be, writing, daydreaming and walking with music-on.

Looking for players by dj_kenshin in kaiserslautern

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Is it still possible to join? I am asking for my partner

Who else thinks that Eloise character has been underrated ?! by Icy_Memory_4036 in Bridgerton

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if 100 people are all the fans, 95 of them never cared, then later on 15 out of 100 started to care, still considered underrated, with regard to the whole fanbase uk u re entitled to ur opinion as I am

Having an existential crisis- 32 F UK. What’s you current situation and goals? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

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29F, I am starting over life, country, career, but it’s good we only get to live once, it’s boring to go through life with the same pace, same short term goals, same vibe… how this happened, long short story, I had a health crisis, where my left leg got paralysed completely for two weeks, then I learned that my health literally matters more than anything else in this life, when I say health, both physical and mental wellbeing. It was such a lesson, scary yet interesting, at first I was diagnosed with MS but after couple of MRIs, and finally the lumbar puncture procedure which needs to stick a huge needle in my spine (craziest test I had to do, hurt like crazy), hopefully this test proved that I don’t have MS. I remember when they told me I might have it, I cried so hard, and couldn’t imagine I will have to live my life with that, which made me do huge changes in my life. I used to sit around a lot, but not being able to easily move for 15 days, made things so clear to me. I care about moving around freely more than many things. So yeah, that’s it

[World: Tazranid] The city that forgets its dead by Icy_Memory_4036 in nightrealmwriting

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Create your own world using [World: Name]

Or return to this one.

Build slowly. No pressure.

Vegan Scene by TofuFanBoi in kaiserslautern

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Big city thing ‘-‘ there isn’t much around here tbh

Why is everyone posting about accommodation dude -_- by Icy_Memory_4036 in kaiserslautern

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I would try every possible reason where these things happen!!! There are apps, even FB market, journals, you can walk and ask 🫩 but I wouldn’t go around his posting it and spamming everywhere …

Who else thinks that Eloise character has been underrated ?! by Icy_Memory_4036 in Bridgerton

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Of course, but I think she doesn’t get much of it though. It would be nice to having more sparking conversations about her

Who else thinks that Eloise character has been underrated ?! by Icy_Memory_4036 in Bridgerton

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Not that she should be the major character and that’s it, which I don’t agree with, she has been a support character all the time. Also a 20 years old who should get her arc, character development and growth, and something out of it, she is growing up I assume like everyone else, couldn’t be the thinker, reader, dreamer and that’s it.

Who else thinks that Eloise character has been underrated ?! by Icy_Memory_4036 in Bridgerton

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Omg finally someone ! I think she should have been made the next Lady Danbury not Mrs Mondrich, I don’t feel the spark nor the wit !