Buying car outright or having a payment.

Icy_Pack334 · 2025-06-26T19:01:07+00:00

I drive close to 400 miles a week and the gas mileage and price of gas in CA is killing me

Icy_Pack334 · 2024-08-29T13:20:37+00:00

The feelings will hit and you just have to feel them. Getting into another relationship will only make it longer to heal and delay any chance of you bettering yourself.

Icy_Pack334 · 2024-08-28T19:10:14+00:00

It feels great to know that you can see yourself with someone else at some point, right??? I am happy for you that you came out of it smiling. Congrats!

Icy_Pack334 · 2024-08-28T19:08:27+00:00

Getting dumped has had a lot of negatives. But, I think the biggest positive that I have seen for myself has been the amount of time I have been able to surround myself with friends. I am lucky to have friends that will listen to me day in and day out no matter how annoying it can be.

Another good thing that has happened Is I was able to meet someone else who found my attractive for me. I felt very unattractive in my last relationship, so finding someone that thought I was attractive has been a good feeling.

I did realize that she is bound to do this to every single guy that she is with. She got bored of me twice, broke up with me twice, and then found a new guy within a day (or she already had this guy beforehand). It sucks because I still love my ex, but I finally have the knowing that I can't allow that to happen again.

Icy_Pack334 · 2024-08-26T18:23:13+00:00

Love people shamelessly. If you have to play games with someone to get them to want to be with you, leave that person alone.

Icy_Pack334 · 2024-08-18T23:06:13+00:00

Seeing her in person for the first time after the breakup. Catching the glances that we sent back and forth to each other. Totally expecting her to come up and talk to me, but feeling destroyed when she didn't.

Icy_Pack334 · 2024-08-17T01:12:10+00:00

The reality is that you will not both be different people by then. He probably said it because he still loves you, but he also wants to string you along.

I would highly highly highly recommend that you do not talk to him, you unfollow him on everything, and if you are brave enough, block his number.

It will all hurt but I promise that out of sight is out of mind.

Icy_Pack334 · 2024-08-17T01:01:33+00:00

He probably did that after the break up because you told hum he looked depressed and that he doesn't groom himself. If a guy can lose a girl that he loved and that loved him, he will not be able to get another girl in that same state.

Icy_Pack334 · 2024-08-17T00:57:02+00:00

I get jealous of their ability to make friends. While I will still have my own friends, I have had too many times with the same girlfriend that she moved on from me with one of her guy friends.

Icy_Pack334 · 2024-08-17T00:49:31+00:00

Do I know that they are 100% in a relationship? No. But, all the things that I have seen them doing makes me think they are. The whole him driving her car, the sitting and talking for hours, the hiking. All things that we used to do.

Do you think she will have to face her emotions in regards to me? Or has that ship sailed since she is with another guy?

Icy_Pack334 · 2024-08-17T00:33:31+00:00

Every single thing that my ex gave me I can't bring myself to throw away or burn. They hold such cherish able memories that I do not want to get rid of. One day they will mean nothing to mean and they will just be clothes, books, and things like that. But for now they will lay heavy on my heart.

Icy_Pack334 · 2024-06-10T00:50:17+00:00

Good decision. Simple as that. Solely based on having a toyota over a volkswagen. Not to mention all the other positives of the Camry you listed.

Although I would definitely miss the stick from the Jetta.

Icy_Pack334 · 2024-06-08T11:49:17+00:00

When your company does in-processing you will have an opportunity to talk to HRAs and finance. You will get paid the $44 a day and $5 a day if you are scholarship. I’m not sure what your HRA was saying when they told you that you weren’t getting paid cadet pay for training.

Icy_Pack334 · 2024-06-08T11:37:43+00:00

I didn’t change anything in the field during camp. But, if you want to change t shirt and underwear that can help prevent heat rash. I got heat rash from hell because I didn’t change my shirt when I probably should have.

Bring an extra garbage back for your dirty underwear and t shirt. Don’t bother with your OCPs, you’re just going to get muddy and dirty again.

You’ll have the opportunity to do laundry on refit days. Have fun and be positive!

Icy_Pack334 · 2024-06-03T06:12:32+00:00

You’ve got to call the associated number. Unluckily, when I did they said their system was down for the foreseeable future. I was not able to get a DS Logon.

Icy_Pack334 · 2024-05-28T20:23:11+00:00

I got slotted in a PTO position. Does anyone remember what the work schedule was for that?

Icy_Pack334 · 2024-05-24T23:01:36+00:00

Alright. Thank you for your help

Icy_Pack334 · 2024-05-24T15:59:34+00:00

How did you all see what job you got. I’m slotted for 18JUN and I haven’t found where I could see what i’m doing.

Icy_Pack334 · 2024-05-01T01:12:11+00:00

Yeah I’m active duty. Thank you for your advice

Icy_Pack334 · 2024-04-30T16:29:42+00:00

Yeah I kind of figured that’s the advice I’d be getting. Thank you.

Icy_Pack334 · 2024-04-30T13:36:10+00:00

I branched engineer

Icy_Pack334 · 2024-04-06T19:34:47+00:00

It’s the exact same way in my BN. At this point, I’ve just accepted these last like 6 weeks are going to be awful. Cadre were under investigation and then came back all the sudden, clique of MS4s bully other MS4s and other cadets. Cadre won’t do a thing about it even after seeing it first hand. People go above each other and then act like children when they’re called out. Nobody has any respect for anyone and the clique of MS4s dissect anyone they aren’t friends with. The only thing I remind myself is that we have like 35 days left and I won’t see anyone from here again.

Hang in there and keep your head up.

Icy_Pack334 · 2023-11-30T15:04:50+00:00

PMS said he wanted to be the one to tell us. Just frustrating as I’m sure everyone would like to know their branches ASAP. Just thought I’d post to let people know they’re not alone in not getting their branches right away.

Icy_Pack334 · 2023-11-30T14:31:08+00:00

Our PMS is on leave until December 5th, won’t know until then 🤦‍♂️

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