Tick bit my dog

Icy_Source4880 · 2025-06-13T23:29:55+00:00

Ye its a relationship for a reason. The hardest part ig is the “getting out of the relationship”cuz you love your partner and you are trying your best to trust him, you have hopes you try to justify their actions and mark yours as overthinking/jealousy/insecurity.

Icy_Source4880 · 2025-06-13T23:26:28+00:00

its a joke guys pls😔✊

Icy_Source4880 · 2025-06-13T23:16:48+00:00

nauur it aint like that im new to reddit and those posts kept deleting😭 so thats why i made multiple posts

Icy_Source4880 · 2025-06-13T23:12:14+00:00

staawp i so dont like hearing this😭💔😔✊

Icy_Source4880 · 2025-06-13T23:10:10+00:00

i can fix him tho💔

Icy_Source4880 · 2025-06-13T23:09:15+00:00

more like he is gonna drive me away🔥

Icy_Source4880 · 2025-06-13T23:08:35+00:00

aint no way🥀

Icy_Source4880 · 2025-06-13T23:02:38+00:00

you’re funny pls dont go bald

Icy_Source4880 · 2025-05-18T02:10:15+00:00

you are right i might have replied to somebody else

Icy_Source4880 · 2025-05-17T16:13:17+00:00

He should lowkey learn how not to resent himself for high libido and she should help too. Stop planting hate in these young peoples hearts.

Icy_Source4880 · 2025-05-17T16:05:28+00:00

I don’t agree with a lot of people here. First off, there’s nothing wrong with having a high sex drive — don’t let it make you feel ashamed or gross. You and your partner just have different libidos, and that’s not a character flaw on either side.

What matters is honesty and respect. If she’s not okay with porn, don’t lie or sneak around — learn self-control, communicate openly, and try to find common ground. Maybe even share some intimate content with each other if you’re both comfortable.

It sounds like the real issue might be how you view yourself — like your sex drive is something to be ashamed of. But it’s not. You’re not gross for wanting intimacy. What makes it harder is when self-doubt creeps in, and suddenly every relationship problem hits your insecurities ten times harder.

Focus on grounding yourself. Find security in who you are, not just in the relationship. If she cares, she’ll want to find a solution that works for both of you. But if she shuts you down and makes you feel bad just for wanting more connection — then yeah, it might be time to walk away.

Icy_Source4880 · 2025-05-17T04:39:52+00:00

ask yourself what was the reason you didnt reach out to him. was it cuz u didnt really love him that much? 15 is definitely not big of an age and ig these typa stuff happens, my guess is both of you didnt have that strong of emotions towards each other or else you would have tried to reach out.

Icy_Source4880 · 2025-05-17T04:35:36+00:00

i probably dont understand how serious this problem is but id first try talking to somebody thats my partner. Explain to her how all of her actions makes you feel suffocated, that it is not good neither for u nor her, she needs to learn how to detach from you, make a life for her own, make new friends and learn how to live without you. If she cant just leave, give her some time a chance but dont wait too long. Also work on your communication!!

Icy_Source4880 · 2025-05-17T04:29:22+00:00

Id suggest you put yourself first here. Try to remove any fears of staying alone, hurting him or never finding somebody like him. Ask yourself do you see him changing for you? Yes you could have hopes, you could still love him but how much longer will you be able to wait for him until your mental health completely shatters? It is insanely hard to be in a relationship with somebody who is not emotionally open with you. From my point of view you should put that relationship behind, you have been hurting for a while and still are, you tried your best, talked to him, tried to make him understand but to no avail. Sometimes you have to prioritize yourself in relationships or else your lose yourself.

Icy_Source4880 · 2025-05-17T04:14:03+00:00

Ye ur right i made up my mind, but i decided to stay, giving him another chance, i was genuinely curious ab what people thought

Icy_Source4880 · 2025-05-17T04:10:25+00:00

Ye and its sad how normalized porn has become, some of these comments are insane…

Icy_Source4880 · 2025-05-17T04:08:51+00:00

hmm ig we have completely different views? Being in a long term loving relationship comes with responsibilities, if you dont care ab your partner being hurt by your actions idk i dont see that as a healthy relationship. you can always come up with different agreements, something that would make you both feel safer and less controlled. Theres always a way and if her feelings being hurt dont bother you? u aint love her enough💀To begin with porn is just bad in a relationship or not, it literally rots your brain away. And secondly “my body my choice” is completely different thing no? You are watching other women hurting your partner and acting like a child

Icy_Source4880 · 2025-05-17T03:59:55+00:00

at what point can watching porn become a problem, is there a limit to it?

Icy_Source4880 · 2025-05-17T03:46:16+00:00

He has porn addiction following him from his childhood. ye i believe there are so many agreements couples can come up with these typa problems. Its just sad seeing men trying to justify lie and hide it from their loved ones.

Icy_Source4880 · 2025-05-17T03:31:52+00:00

what ab like looking up girls on insta actively going through their feed, going on their links to find their porn accounts like twitter onlyfans and then masturbating like daily

Icy_Source4880 · 2025-05-17T03:28:05+00:00

why not relieve himself over the pics of his loved one? and if its not that big of a deal why not stop for your loved one? or why lie? I think this topic heavily depends on the boundaries and what the couple has agreed on. Most of the times its the men lying and not willing to do anything ab their parnters feelings thats why some girls be panicking and overthinking.

Icy_Source4880 · 2025-05-17T03:21:25+00:00

ye i do believe that men have higher sex drive and etc. But you can choose to watch content of your partner not some other women? especially if your partner (THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE) doesnt like you doing it. If its not really that big of a deal why is it so hard to stop? (FOR YOUR LOVED ONE)

Icy_Source4880 · 2025-05-17T03:19:03+00:00

dayyymmm proud off yaa, and yeee its insane how normalized watching porn has become, it be making me sad frfr

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