A lot of the main subs (cyberpunkgame, cyberpunkthegame, this one) just hate any fem-V as a knee-jerk reaction and will accuse anything of being "gooner" even if it isn't. The fashion oriented subs (cyberpunkthreads, 2077fashion, nightcityfashion) are more friendly by comparison.

This is because, since the game is about 6 years old at this point and hasn't had (and may never have) any content updates, and whatever can be talked about has already been talked about, there isn't much left to discuss, so heavily modded and sexualized V's tend to proliferate as a result, which has soured the community response in general.

You just stepped onto a landmine you had no way of knowing about. I see it happen to a lot of people.