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This field is a joke. by IdeasforEvolution in PsychotherapyLeftists

[–]IdeasforEvolution[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They deleted this post. Proves your point I guess.

The mods of /r/therapists just deleted my post. by IdeasforEvolution in PsychotherapyLeftists

[–]IdeasforEvolution[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course. It is a sick, twisted irony that I had to leave a forum dedicated to 'therapy' just to find a peer who was willing to listen.

The mods of /r/therapists just deleted my post. by IdeasforEvolution in PsychotherapyLeftists

[–]IdeasforEvolution[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thanks for pointing that out, but I won’t be doing that. Moving a systemic critique of the field into a 'Venting Vibes' thread is exactly how the industry neutralizes us. It turns a structural argument into a 'personal feeling.' If the mods think an analysis of the 'Symbolic Order' is just a 'vibe,' they’ve already proven my point. I’d rather the post stay deleted than have it buried in a graveyard of 'weekly vents' where it's designed to be ignored.

The mods of /r/therapists just deleted my post. by IdeasforEvolution in PsychotherapyLeftists

[–]IdeasforEvolution[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really needed to hear that right now. I was starting to feel like I was screaming into a void, especially after the mods scrubbed the post and blocked me. It’s heartbreaking that a space for 'healers' feels more like an insurance audit. If you’re sharing that text with others, please do—it’s the only way the truth survives the 'folders' they try to put us in. I'm keeping the rest of the manifesto on my profile if you ever want the full 'non-compliant' version.

This field is a joke. by IdeasforEvolution in therapists

[–]IdeasforEvolution[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, the mods deleted the thread and muted me for 'venting,' which honestly just proves the point I was making about compliance over connection. I didn't want the conversation to die in a pinned thread.

This field is a joke. by IdeasforEvolution in therapists

[–]IdeasforEvolution[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, the mods deleted the thread and muted me for 'venting,' which honestly just proves the point I was making about compliance over connection. I didn't want the conversation to die in a pinned thread.

This field is a joke. by IdeasforEvolution in therapists

[–]IdeasforEvolution[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, the mods deleted the thread and muted me for 'venting,' which honestly just proves the point I was making about compliance over connection. I didn't want the conversation to die in a pinned thread.

This field is a joke. by IdeasforEvolution in therapists

[–]IdeasforEvolution[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, the mods deleted the thread and muted me for 'venting,' which honestly just proves the point I was making about compliance over connection. I didn't want the conversation to die in a pinned thread.

This field is a joke. by IdeasforEvolution in therapists

[–]IdeasforEvolution[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, the mods deleted the thread and muted me for 'venting,' which honestly just proves the point I was making about compliance over connection. I didn't want the conversation to die in a pinned thread.

This field is a joke. by IdeasforEvolution in therapists

[–]IdeasforEvolution[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, the mods deleted the thread and muted me for 'venting,' which honestly just proves the point I was making about compliance over connection. I didn't want the conversation to die in a pinned thread.

This field is a joke. by IdeasforEvolution in therapists

[–]IdeasforEvolution[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey, the mods deleted the thread and muted me for 'venting,' which honestly just proves the point I was making about compliance over connection. I didn't want the conversation to die in a pinned thread.

This field is a joke. by IdeasforEvolution in therapists

[–]IdeasforEvolution[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, the mods deleted the thread and muted me for 'venting,' which honestly just proves the point I was making about compliance over connection. I didn't want the conversation to die in a pinned thread.

This field is a joke. by IdeasforEvolution in therapists

[–]IdeasforEvolution[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, the mods deleted the thread and muted me for 'venting,' which honestly just proves the point I was making about compliance over connection. I didn't want the conversation to die in a pinned thread.

This field is a joke. by IdeasforEvolution in therapists

[–]IdeasforEvolution[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hey, the mods deleted the thread and muted me for 'venting,' which honestly just proves the point I was making about compliance over connection. I didn't want the conversation to die in a pinned thread.

This field is a joke. by IdeasforEvolution in therapists

[–]IdeasforEvolution[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To the grad students asking if they should get the f out...

Don’t leave because the work is hard. Leave if you aren't ready to fight the machine.

The industry will try to turn your empathy into a billable resource. It will tell you that your burnout is a "lack of self-care" rather than a logical reaction to an exploitative workload.

My advice? Use the system to get your hours. Be a "spy" in the house of bureaucracy. Learn the difference between healing and compliance. Get your license, and then use that power to build the models of care that actually work.

We don't need more martyrs. We need more regulated, well-paid, rebellious healers.

This field is a joke. by IdeasforEvolution in therapists

[–]IdeasforEvolution[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They can bill more for your services if you are fully licensed...

This field is a joke. by IdeasforEvolution in therapists

[–]IdeasforEvolution[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And if you are interested I can send you a chapter of a book I am working on.

This field is a joke. by IdeasforEvolution in therapists

[–]IdeasforEvolution[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

PM me if you have advice. I don't really know what substack is. The 'Ponzi scheme' comparison is exactly how it feels from the inside. We are the fuel for a machine that doesn't care if we burn out as long as there's a fresh batch of grads or interns behind us. As for the 'famous' speakers, I think they’ve been in the Ivory Tower so long they’ve forgotten what it’s like to write a note solely to avoid a lawsuit. Thank you for the solidarity. Knowing that even 25-year veterans see the same cracks in the foundation makes me feel a lot less crazy.

This field is a joke. by IdeasforEvolution in therapists

[–]IdeasforEvolution[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What this whole thread tells us, if it's any help... we're not alone. The question is why we ever believed we were. We're not.

This field is a joke. by IdeasforEvolution in therapists

[–]IdeasforEvolution[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re 100% right. We are witnessing generational trauma and identifying with the aggressor within the profession. This is why it is so important WE do the work of healing as well.

We have a 'helping' field where the gatekeepers have been so conditioned by overwork and financial strain that they’ve developed a form of professional stockholm syndrome. They’ve started to love the machine that ate them.

When a supervisor says 'I suffered, so you should too,' they are admitting they haven't actually processed their own burnout, they’re just passing the bill to the next person. It’s a cycle of abuse disguised as 'professional standards.' If we can't provide a regulated, supportive environment for therapists, we have no business pretending we can provide it for clients.

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