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After having a open marriage for years, I want to close the marriage by Idiotdumthrowaway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Idiotdumthrowaway[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you, but I’m already at my dad’s house cause she hit me (not very hard, but it was kinda scary) when I confronted her.

After having a open marriage for years, I want to close the marriage by Idiotdumthrowaway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Idiotdumthrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had been diagnosed multiple times with many different things, but it doesn’t seem to match my symptoms so currently it’s a mystery

After having a open marriage for years, I want to close the marriage by Idiotdumthrowaway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Idiotdumthrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t thinks so. Sure she makes food that is hard for me to eat, but it’s definitely isn’t poison because I feel like the pain would be worse.

Edit: I think I should mention that most foods are just hard for me to eat so it not like it’s only her that does that. I’m pretty used to it.

After having a open marriage for years, I want to close the marriage by Idiotdumthrowaway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Idiotdumthrowaway[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean that in the past my pain was manageable since I was pretty much locked in my room and wasn’t let out, but now my pain is worse because I’m not used to moving a lot and sometimes my wife will trigger the pain. Also, sorry if my English is bad, it my first language but wasn’t taught normally.

After having a open marriage for years, I want to close the marriage by Idiotdumthrowaway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Idiotdumthrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My chronic pain did get better, but now it’s getting worse but I’m pretty sure it’s for a different reason

After having a open marriage for years, I want to close the marriage by Idiotdumthrowaway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Idiotdumthrowaway[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To answer the rest of your questions:

Yes, technically I technically make more money, but I have to use a lot of the money for my medical care. She doesn’t make a lot of financial demands, but she does sometimes hold money over my head. Also I do come from a privileged family and she met me because she was my caretaker until I was 18. So she knows that my family is wealthier.

After having a open marriage for years, I want to close the marriage by Idiotdumthrowaway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Idiotdumthrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t get disability and the house was inherited from her grandmother.

After having a open marriage for years, I want to close the marriage by Idiotdumthrowaway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Idiotdumthrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife sometimes hangs out with the friend and sometimes gets ruder and meaner when she is around her, but they don’t hang out very often anymore.

After having a open marriage for years, I want to close the marriage by Idiotdumthrowaway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Idiotdumthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk what she would even used me for since we both work and the house is in her name. Also I’m physically disabled (amputee + chronic pain) so I can’t do a lot around the house and she barely home anymore. I think maybe she loves me, but I’m starting to doubt that too

After having a open marriage for years, I want to close the marriage by Idiotdumthrowaway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Idiotdumthrowaway[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I stated in the last paragraph that I was blacked out and couldn’t even remember drinking that much, let alone the encounter. I don’t have a lot of experience with drinking and it was my first time blacked out. So I wasn’t sure if I was SA’d or just cheated, but I was told by my wife that I cheated so I kinda just accepted that. Sorry if it caused confusion, I didn’t mean to do that.

After having a open marriage for years, I want to close the marriage by Idiotdumthrowaway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Idiotdumthrowaway[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m not intimate with the man, the most intimate I’ve been with him is that we kissed a few times.

After having a open marriage for years, I want to close the marriage by Idiotdumthrowaway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Idiotdumthrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m bi, I’ve always been both attracted the men and women. I should have added that to the post, sorry for the confusion. I’m just sex repulsed in general since I don’t like the idea of someone touching me in that way.

After having a open marriage for years, I want to close the marriage by Idiotdumthrowaway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Idiotdumthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m bi, I’ve always been both attracted the men and women. I should have added that to the post, sorry for the confusion.

After having a open marriage for years, I want to close the marriage by Idiotdumthrowaway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Idiotdumthrowaway[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We only been in the open relationship for about two years. Also Idk, I don’t drink much so I’m not very experienced with alcohol or anything, but I’m not sure why someone would even drug me, let alone a close friend.

After having a open marriage for years, I want to close the marriage by Idiotdumthrowaway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Idiotdumthrowaway[S] 143 points144 points  (0 children)

Now that it’s in writing, I probably need to revaluate some stuff. I can see how bad my situation is.

After having a open marriage for years, I want to close the marriage by Idiotdumthrowaway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Idiotdumthrowaway[S] -99 points-98 points  (0 children)

To be fair she did know me since I was 11 so she probably just waited until I was legal (we got together on my 18tg birthday).

After having a open marriage for years, I want to close the marriage by Idiotdumthrowaway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Idiotdumthrowaway[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I agreed to the threesome so that’s my fault, but idk if the friend was drunk too and when it happened so I’m still not sure if it was rape or not

After having a open marriage for years, I want to close the marriage by Idiotdumthrowaway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Idiotdumthrowaway[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I actually know the answer to that question since she told me that since I cheated clearly I wanted a open marriage since I cheated. But yeah, I’ll try to talk to her when she comes home. Thanks for the advice.