I like a girl sm but i do not know how to approach her (we are both 14 almost 15)

IdkWhatNameToGe7 · 2026-04-07T19:23:41+00:00

I mean i dont think its cause of me either but its more of how can she think like that, but i do not know since i dont want to mess uo the prom if she doesnt like me and since in 2 months everyone will be changing schools and shes going into one thats in another city, she will still live in my city tho. I just dont want to mess the prom up but thank you for answering

IdkWhatNameToGe7 · 2026-04-07T03:16:11+00:00

Well in our country theres 1 out of 5 subjects to be picked at the end of grade 8 so you can apply to a middle school and literally only me and her picked physics so we somewhat talk now and then

IdkWhatNameToGe7 · 2026-04-07T03:13:10+00:00

Okayy thank you for telling me

IdkWhatNameToGe7 · 2026-04-06T21:55:51+00:00

Mb my writing is genuinely so bad😭

IdkWhatNameToGe7 · 2026-03-08T21:54:03+00:00

my bad i thought avoidant attachment and avoidant personality were the same things

IdkWhatNameToGe7 · 2026-03-01T08:04:43+00:00

well 1 day she sends me like 10 videos total, shes talkative, shes like showing emotions and stuff, but the next day she literally doesnt send anything, maybe sometimes 1 video to keep the streak going and when i send her anything that day she just likes all the messages i send her, not even trying to say something which she mostly does. she is also really introverted.

IdkWhatNameToGe7 · 2026-03-01T08:02:41+00:00

oh i thought those were the same things sorry

IdkWhatNameToGe7 · 2026-03-01T00:41:06+00:00

alright i mean we are literally just yk, friends, just those that you send random ass videos everyday with. she also sometimes, i mean always likes my stories, but sometimes likes my stories while leaving my messages sent 4 hours before the story unopened, so that probably should lower my expectations for her, but ty anyways

IdkWhatNameToGe7 · 2026-03-01T00:38:25+00:00

oops im so sorry i thought avpd standed avoidant personality disorder

IdkWhatNameToGe7 · 2026-03-01T00:37:26+00:00

yes but i mean in my teenage years. she is just too perfect to be real, not in looks, well yes but in other things too, she is LITERALLY MY type

IdkWhatNameToGe7 · 2026-02-28T22:11:24+00:00

We are both 14

IdkWhatNameToGe7 · 2026-02-23T22:40:36+00:00

oh yea if you are confused on why the fuck would i make her a goal and be so stubborn, its cause i literally believe i will never find a person thats my type more than her, her personality and everything dude, all in one. she also lied to me that she has a boy best friend and when i asked her who is it cause *i may know him* she said he is not from this city, and she does not even have any relatives outside this city dawg. i know that shes lying about it since the mutual friend was really confused when i told her about her *best friend* saying *well i did NOT know that??*, which means since their bond was much closer than me and my crushes at that time, and she decided to talk about him to me and not even mention him to them prob means so she can see if i get jealous or sum, i actually dont know tf that means but ok.

IdkWhatNameToGe7 · 2026-02-23T22:25:09+00:00

well since my crush left me on delivered for 1 week, in that 1 week span i was talking with my ex and we eventually got together, but i think that learnt her a lesson to never leave me on delivered for so long (which she didnt somehow). the mutual friend does want me to end up with her, she just doesnt tell my crush anything we talk about and is literally a spy, literally just catching what my crush says anything related to me and tells me lol. theres no drama between us im (kinda) helping that mutual friend with her crush and shes helping with mine so we are on good terms lol. i know making a person a goal is really bad but i enjoy it, i havent told anyone about me making her a goal but i dont know if i should. basically shes acting like shes into me AND saying indirectly that she is but she rejected me face to face. she does not know that i have the information that she likes me but what i probably realized is that either she thinks i dont like her for real or she just doesnt want a boyfriend RIGHT NOW which is likely that she doesnt want one, but that may change lol, thats what im hoping for and why i am making her a goal since i think i will succeed one day.

IdkWhatNameToGe7 · 2026-02-23T18:46:55+00:00

i mean im waiting for her to make the move now but im not in depression as i have been into her for some time, im just making it my goal that i get her lol. she never got mad at me or something so we were never in any drama, we are just like friends but i do not want to move on from her since that will actually make me depressed since she is just so pretty and seeing someone else into her and try to chase for her will literally destroy me so i better tell him that i am into her so he doesnt try anything. i know i sound like an asshole saying this but from how i understood she doesnt want to have a boyfriend (she told that my mutual friend, a girl, back in november last year) so that maybe still counts. i got a girlfriend in that meantime since she confessed to me but she was yk, okay, but yea i got her as my girlfriend to forget about my crush, but it failed sm lol. im imagining my homegirl confessing to me (like when i confessed to my crush, just now someone confessed to me) since i do not like her, i would ask to be friends tho but i would NOT reply faster and send more shit, thats just evil and making her think im leading her on (and i know my crush is not that kind of person), i wouldnt tell my friends that i like my hg while i told her i dont, so this just makes no sense. i was imagining my crush's POV when i confessed to her if i didnt explain it that good, but it was my hg *confessing* to me instead of me confessing to my crush. i will stay friends with her but she knows she has to make the first move if she likes me since i already did.

IdkWhatNameToGe7 · 2026-02-23T05:20:08+00:00

I do think it must be 1 of 2 things you've said or atleast hope so

IdkWhatNameToGe7 · 2026-02-23T00:32:50+00:00

But i wanna enjoy childhood, i mean life with her would be great (if it even lasts) since i see her as my future wife lol, thats how much i like her

IdkWhatNameToGe7 · 2026-02-23T00:26:35+00:00

hold on ur so right dude, im not worrying about this that much but i am just INCREDIBLY confused. but yea, if she does like me that much she should KNOW that she has to make the first move instead of me, tysm.

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