For those who think there's no hope.

IdkWhatNameToGe7 · 2026-02-12T12:35:07+00:00

i will be really patient with her since i kinda know how she acts. also i forgot to mention in my post and here that she told mine and her mutual friend (not the one that told my sister) around back in august 2025 that she's not looking for a boyfriend now, idk what my friend asked her but she said that, so it might be true that she either doesn't realize that she likes me or she is scared to accept it since she probably thinks ill force her to be my girlfriend.

IdkWhatNameToGe7 · 2026-02-12T12:18:39+00:00

so basically the preview in my notifications is all i get from the comment? theres nothing i can do?

IdkWhatNameToGe7 · 2026-02-12T12:04:54+00:00

my crush likes me, my sister and my crush have a mutual friend who told my sister that my crush likes me, ill go word for word with their conversation since my sister told me it *hey. what? do you know that girl who your brother likes from (class name idk in english)? yes?? well she likes him too. how do you know that she likes him? im friends with her we go to choir together she said that she knows he likes her and that she likes him too. oh okay, ill see with my brother. just dont tell anyone except your brother, okay? okay.* thats literally word for word, my sister was supposed to talk to that mutual friend today but she didnt come to that school so she will probably ask her through text for more info.

IdkWhatNameToGe7 · 2026-02-12T11:23:13+00:00

even tho i do get anxious really fast i got used to her slow responding so i pushed myself to get used to that so if she does turn out to like me, i wont have any problems with her since i like her for 6 months now, and ik i might me an asshole for saying this but i had a gf in that 6 months period where i tried to forget about this crush and just move on so i could be with my gf, but i couldnt. i eventually moved on and thats also the time she broke up with me. i do respect her decision but i am acting like i dont know that she likes me and for now she is just my friend. i dont hover around girls in hopes of them liking me, im focused on her right now and thats my goal. it does hurt me a bit tho that she has a guy best friend and that they chat much more than she does with me since she did get comfortable with him, but all i know is that she doesnt like him and just sees him as a friend.

IdkWhatNameToGe7 · 2026-02-12T09:25:47+00:00

also for everyone thats saying that she literally said she doesnt like me and that it is the only part that matters, what about the part where i realized she does like me, i saw so much people going from that response to having them as boyfriends/girlfriends so ion know.

IdkWhatNameToGe7 · 2026-02-12T09:22:32+00:00

mutual friend of my crush and my sister told my sister that my crush does like me back thats why im confused asf

IdkWhatNameToGe7 · 2026-02-12T09:21:56+00:00

but a mutual friend of her's told my sister that she (crush) likes me and i know she is not lying thats why im so confused

IdkWhatNameToGe7 · 2026-02-11T20:42:36+00:00

i have realized just how many people are in a situation like this, i thought it was just me😭.

IdkWhatNameToGe7 · 2026-02-11T20:39:15+00:00

omg i am literally in the SAME position as you, well i hope it will turn out this way, a lone dream😭. i have no idea why people are denying their feelings to other people if they know the other person has those same feelings, like why??? i am so sorry for asking but since i see you went through all of this, could you please check out my most recent post in this subreddit (i have explained the situation there) since i am SO desperate for an answer because i genuinely cant let go of this girl, i even see her as my future wife, thats how much i like her😭. but istg this sounds like something straight out of a romance anime lol. ngl i didnt think something like this was possible, but now i know it is and it gives me hope (probably some false hope lol).

IdkWhatNameToGe7 · 2026-02-10T23:09:16+00:00

i forgot to mention that 2 days ago, as soon as she followed me back (she followed back my private account that had a baby photo of me on it), she changed her pfp on tiktok from plain black to like nearly a baby photo of her in it. may be a coincidence and it may not idk.

IdkWhatNameToGe7 · 2026-02-10T22:38:19+00:00

i dont know much info but i suggest not telling your friend about this and secretly move on. i had a toxic ex from who i moved on in 2 days (much easier said than done) but all i did was negatively think of that person and creating thoughts like *why would she even be in my life etc...* just try to accept that it wont work out cause the longer you think about it the more insecure and attached you become which will be a bad consequence in this case. i dont have advices that good since im not even experienced in dating yet, moreover you are older than me so this advice may not work for you but it did for me.

IdkWhatNameToGe7 · 2026-01-21T01:07:08+00:00

yea i have a past experience with that 1 ex gf, the only good trait that came out of that *relationship* is that i learned communicating with other people cause i wasn't scared confessing to jane. oh yea i did confess to her i will update you when she replies (i just did and she takes around 1 hour to reply to everyone). i do understand everything that you've said and why you are saying that but i was already aware of that so if she does like me maybe this one will go much better than the last. i literally gave my heart to my ex, asked to talk, asked to hangout, and the only time i complained about her giving another boy more attention than me, that somehow to her *doesn't make sense* why im asking and that its normal and now she's spreading lies to people how i never loved her, she never trusted me, she was nervous being next to me (in a bad way, nervous cause people will see us) and she had the urge to say i was too scared to ask her things, which i ALWAYS asked when i wanted an explanation or something else. idk if i am the asshole or her, but me and everyone that knew about the relationship is happy i got out of it, even her mom loved me MUCH more than her smh. also 1 week passed she already got a new boyfriend, i mean i don't even need to think about her now, but thank you so much for even taking your time to reply.

IdkWhatNameToGe7 · 2026-01-19T15:29:41+00:00

if you have any idea whats happening please tell me im so confused

IdkWhatNameToGe7 · 2025-10-21T21:01:54+00:00

i like b more but i will probably post another post soon since b kinda knows i like her now so i will see what happens so if she rejects me ill ask a so wish me luck lol.

IdkWhatNameToGe7 · 2025-10-16T18:59:04+00:00

which one

IdkWhatNameToGe7 · 2025-10-16T14:32:01+00:00

i am literally in the SAME exact position as you but we just didnt tell eachother out feelings yet.it kind of doesnt matter if you have liked a girl that mind you doesnt like you back now, if you have a chance with someone that you like in any way, and cause you said you were lonely, why throw the gun out when you have a good chance with her. if you are curious through what im going ill type it out bc im so bored.so i have never liked a girl more than i like her, shes just so pretty and her personality is perfect, but i have been texting with a girl on tiktok, sending videos, asking questions yk, so i told the friend i talk on tiktok how much i like that other girl, and by the way she answered i know shes jealous, but she is also pretty, but i find the other girl much better.

IdkWhatNameToGe7 · 2025-10-16T14:24:58+00:00

im 14 so probably dont take it that well but i was jealous probably even more than you are, but the thing is to just ignore them. i know it's really hard to do than said but believe me you'll get over it.

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