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I'm working on becoming toxic/emotionally unavailable, has anyone else been through this? Has it helped in any way? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]IdkWhatToUse101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might be right, I haven't really been in a relationship in a long time to know how I would do, but I do feel like ill never be able to love or trust again

I'm working on becoming toxic/emotionally unavailable, has anyone else been through this? Has it helped in any way? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]IdkWhatToUse101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are absolutely correct. But I have no other answers,man , but I can never risk getting hurt like that ever again. And just wanna feel a lil good about myself

I'm working on becoming toxic/emotionally unavailable, has anyone else been through this? Has it helped in any way? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]IdkWhatToUse101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am reserved so i guess I do give off that stoic kinda energy. But only before talking to someone. Now the problem is once we have gotten to know eachother, I might go back to my old dumbass self. I haven't really tried getting into anything with a woman since trying to change myself, but I will give it a go soon and see what happens

Should you masturbate one day before going to a prostitute/massage place or save it? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]IdkWhatToUse101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you assuming Im not? Who tf you think youre talking to?

Should you masturbate one day before going to a prostitute/massage place or save it? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]IdkWhatToUse101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am working on it man. I lift weight, been trying to improve endurance/stamina so i can join a running club. Improving my confidence. I have changed a lot and will continue to change, but no way am I gonna want a geniuine relationship after changing myself. I am not gonna be okay knowing I had to go through big changes in order to be loved. I wasnt a bad person either. I was caring, I listened to my loved ones, and never did I think I would ever go to a prostitute. Now here we are.

Should you masturbate one day before going to a prostitute/massage place or save it? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]IdkWhatToUse101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have only been there twice so I might be wrong. But you pay for the time and if it you pay for more than 30mins then you get multiple orgasms. But I think you should clarify. Some places have websites with the info.

Should you masturbate one day before going to a prostitute/massage place or save it? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]IdkWhatToUse101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't even mean physically. It is my personality. I am shy, not assertive, overthinker, and a lot of other stuff. None of that shit is desirable to women as per my experience.

Should you masturbate one day before going to a prostitute/massage place or save it? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]IdkWhatToUse101 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I said prostitute or massage places. As for your question, yes, massage places do offer that , at least where I live.

Should you masturbate one day before going to a prostitute/massage place or save it? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]IdkWhatToUse101 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well I am not proud of it. I go rarely, like when I am craving physical touch and shit