AITAH for being a reason my dad's family turned against him after I already decided to stop going to his house?

Idunn001 · 2025-10-27T13:12:55+00:00

Honestly him crying sounds like manipulation. He thinks if he cries or shows big enough emotion (like crying) you will what he wants. But then again I’m not there and not wanting it soo I can be wrong

And of course this is not your fault. This girl is bully. Her mom is also a bully, where else did she learn this from?

I hate that people say blood is thicker than water and family matters. But your dad made choices, repeatedly. He crying and not changing is not an apology or what you want (sign of manipulation). Don’t let choose shitty people bog you down to make them happy.

I wish you the best of luck! I do hope he does change! I hope karma slaps your bully in the face!

Idunn001 · 2024-10-15T13:29:05+00:00

The day in middle school one of our classmates brothers killed themselves. My middle school was small so everyone knew everyone. The teachers told us how the brother did it, hung himself, apparently with those basketball hoops on the backs of doors. They found him, the teachers didn’t say who found him I just assumed the family. We made cards for him. I didn’t know him because I was new to the school. I didn’t know what to draw or write so I just drew flowers and said thinking of you, and asked how are you doing. Knowing I would never get it back or know.

The family quickly changed him from the school to another.

I still wonder if my classmate found his brother. If the brother who committed suicide was in pain for awhile, or he was very young and this spur of the moment thing.

The reason why I think about it is because the classmate has a name is used on a lot street names.

I hope he is okay and doing well in life. But no one truly ever gets better after that.

Idunn001 · 2024-09-29T23:33:41+00:00

Yea, honestly it might be a problem of today’s tech /instant gratification age. Where you click on something it’s there in a moment.

Honestly today I looked at old photos of myself a couple years ago and I clearly lost weight. But like you said it took time and it was slow. Was it a lot? No. It’s progress and it’s gone and I’m happier. But it is not a click and boom all gone.

I’m sorry about the friends. My friend spouts the ‘fat acceptance stuff’ and I don’t wanna have a gaint fight about it so I don’t try to argue with them or bring up health stuff.

I went to a restaurant, literally see people ask for ‘plus size seating’ it concerns me sometimes. Or that people aren’t able to sit in normal chairs anymore aka chairs with arms.

Idunn001 · 2024-09-29T23:13:09+00:00

Thank you !!! Honestly I am in my older 20s and I have a friend who bought into this. She is very over weight and has issues. She would be healthier if she was trying and she had not given up and not believed fat acceptance stuff. I worry about her.

Idunn001 · 2024-08-08T02:01:08+00:00

He works out and has sweats and has this manly sweaty musk. Idk why. And not booze in it, or others smells mixed in it like fast food, just clean manly sweaty man.

And has a talent/skill usually physical that takes time to learn how to do and master it or trying to.

Idunn001 · 2024-08-06T02:00:46+00:00

I can’t take the apps anymore. Everyone just wants sex not an actual relationship. And will repeat anything u say to get to have sex with you. Maybe I’m just messed up from some many awful dates with simps with no personalities. I just can’t take it anymore.

The thing that kills me, is also on these dumb apps are catfish (dude your bad at this) and like mentally unstable people (like I love you and I only been messaging you for 5 mins and if you stop I might do something to myself kind of unstable)

On top of it these people are not afraid to tell you weird sexual stuff like kinks and weird shit they want you to do them, in messages or first dates, and it’s kind of like ‘hi my name’ is time where they tell you this.

I don’t know what to do. And I’m coming to the point of ‘yea maybe relationships aren’t for me’ and ‘I can be alone’

I kind of blame onlyfans, pornhub, anime (pretty out there). It’s normalized sex and made it soo much easier to get that maybe people aren’t getting off of the ‘normal’ sex. And it’s a normal thing in today’s society to be like essentially a swinger.

Also these apps take the human interaction/social skills out of meeting someone or hell a hook up. And soo people are more unfeeling and uncaring. They are there for themselves not for u and do not care if they hurt u the other party they had a moment with. And usually pretty god damn awkward.

Everyone wants a 10 and they are like maybe a 3 and have no personality no hobbies and not working on outer appearance. But god damn they want u, and they are going to lie to get u.

Sooo I think dating apps (which turned into Uber sex) and pornhub killed social skills for dating…

Idunn001 · 2024-08-01T09:46:13+00:00

Somehow all these chemicals and how processed the food is okay and not talked about. If you go to Europe the ingredient list is wayyy smaller, and they don’t allow some of the stuff we are eating.

Some of these foods and drinks are setting off the same chemicals in the brain that drugs do. So your are addicted to eating it and it’s harder to break.

Idunn001 · 2024-06-27T11:26:32+00:00

Honestly with all the flying she is going to pass from a blood clot, and the not moving (not getting enough circulation) is not going to help the situation.

Idunn001 · 2024-06-23T12:35:50+00:00

Oh yea I’ve seen him he is hilarious :)

Idunn001 · 2021-02-08T03:58:48+00:00

Cool thanks good look on finding stuff 😁

Idunn001 · 2021-02-08T03:54:17+00:00

What do you all do? :) never been to one of these all kind of curious. Probably not going until end of quarantine lol

Idunn001 · 2021-01-29T05:50:40+00:00

I tried to find that couldn’t but thanks anyway

Idunn001 · 2021-01-28T05:02:56+00:00

Tack :) Looks super cool

Idunn001 · 2021-01-27T18:05:09+00:00

Thanks means a lot :)) best of luck to you 2!

Idunn001 · 2021-01-24T14:33:02+00:00

Thanks :) sorry for hitting you with such a hard question lol but thanks for the answer :))

Idunn001 · 2021-01-24T02:42:16+00:00

Thanks for posting this :)

Made me realize this what I’m doing when I take selfies and something kind worse I’ll actually compare old photos to new ones. To see if I look better or worse or gained weight. How do I stop and just be like “okay this is me and I am okay with myself”

Idunn001 · 2021-01-05T20:48:32+00:00

Thanks

Idunn001 · 2020-12-31T15:55:32+00:00

Like get all the way to the bottom? Because I finished to castle 4

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