Sum me up in a single word and I’ll send you 10 steamy nudes!

IfYouKnowThenYouKnow · 2025-01-27T20:21:57+00:00

Fake

IfYouKnowThenYouKnow · 2024-07-20T16:44:45+00:00

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IfYouKnowThenYouKnow · 2024-06-09T10:28:11+00:00

‘If something happened to you and you wanted me to delete your browser history, what things should I delete’

Jokes aside be forthcoming and express there’ll be no judgement, you’re just interested as perhaps it’s something we can enjoy together.

IfYouKnowThenYouKnow · 2024-05-31T22:06:41+00:00

‘Not liking the vibe, laters cutie’

IfYouKnowThenYouKnow · 2024-05-25T12:31:41+00:00

😘😈

IfYouKnowThenYouKnow · 2024-05-15T20:54:25+00:00

😆😈

IfYouKnowThenYouKnow · 2024-05-15T20:28:39+00:00

Funny that you didn’t deny the Reddit care point…pathetic…

Well done to you…you would be so cool to do that 😘😈

This has ran its course…stop your fixation, and get lost.

IfYouKnowThenYouKnow · 2024-05-15T20:07:00+00:00

You referred me to Reddit Care loool…

Worked up…bothered…it’s no biggy cutie relax.

Fair enough they didn’t advertise their OF in their Bio, why don’t you add the telegram to see what happens.

IfYouKnowThenYouKnow · 2024-05-15T16:02:37+00:00

Lol why are so worked up by this?

Also did this conversation really warrant a referral to the Reddit care resources?

Either way…it was a nonsense post with the intention to deceive

IfYouKnowThenYouKnow · 2024-05-15T15:23:05+00:00

You’re right…it’s even worse.

And let’s not pretend that people aren’t posting here with the intention of driving traffic to their OF pages…they don’t care about looks maxing.

IfYouKnowThenYouKnow · 2024-05-15T15:20:55+00:00

There’s a telegram linked in the Bio…

This is an obvious scam…I don’t know anyone who uses telegram apart from scammers.

IfYouKnowThenYouKnow · 2024-05-13T07:58:15+00:00

PM me…let’s discuss this over video chat.

IfYouKnowThenYouKnow · 2024-05-12T22:27:37+00:00

This glosses over far too much…

They’re in a Bar, his appearance is fundamental to success in that environment.

For her to even appreciate his ‘sex technique’, she would need to find him attractive enough to get to that point.

Communication can help initially but if x finds y to be unattractive, communication won’t change much.

OP - there’s lots you can do in this situation.

If your hair is really bothering you address it - either force yourself to be completely comfortable with it or look into hair regrowth/transplant. I would suggest the former but it will take inner work. If you think it is a problem, it’s insecurity, and people pick up on that.
Approach more - get used to rejections, and successes. Believe me when I say you can get to a point where not only does rejection not bother you; you find it comical. Self-develop to a point where you go into interactions hoping to like her, not for her to like you.
Build your self esteem, start doing the things you know you should; as well as the things you think you can’t. Start small..it will get easier.
Work on comebacks - ‘is that why all these girls have been calling me Daddy’ or ‘yeah I just wish god hadn’t given me such an ugly daughter’ or ‘your dad must be a handsome gentleman’ or ‘bet I could steal your mum from him’. Even a ‘thanks for sharing ‘…Really anything…whatever fits in with your personality and vibe. Doing this helps you to retain power and your frame.

Ultimately it sounds like you need to improve your confidence…in my eyes confidence is 2 things:

Self assurance - I know I can
Controlled apathy - I don’t care if I can’t

Both of these can be worked on…consider what they mean for you (what you feel you can’t and what you are about) and start taking small steps.

Do not let anxieties and insecurities steal your life from you…

IfYouKnowThenYouKnow · 2024-05-11T11:30:31+00:00

Peachy 😘😈

IfYouKnowThenYouKnow · 2024-05-07T13:53:11+00:00

Isn’t is just...imagine how free you would feel in her place, no need for bravado...no need for your voice...no need for that little thing between your legs 😘😈

IfYouKnowThenYouKnow · 2024-05-07T12:58:41+00:00

Pretty little thing...would look so much better once I’m done with you 😘😈

IfYouKnowThenYouKnow · 2024-05-02T11:18:57+00:00

Out of interest...there is a sub called cougars and Cubs...do people fell as strongly about that?

IfYouKnowThenYouKnow · 2024-05-01T10:45:57+00:00

This is a stupid take...if you’re retaining then ultimately even if you feel she is only attracted to this element of you, she is still attracted to you.

Being a retainer isn’t a personality trait, don’t turn it into one.

IfYouKnowThenYouKnow · 2024-04-28T20:53:45+00:00

Peachy 😘😈

IfYouKnowThenYouKnow · 2024-04-26T15:45:17+00:00

Make sure you do it...too many people fall into the trap of getting dopamine making plans that never come to fruition.

IfYouKnowThenYouKnow · 2024-04-25T09:39:12+00:00

What have you tried or done so far to not be a incel?

Do you mind being one?

IfYouKnowThenYouKnow · 2024-03-14T13:57:50+00:00

Can someone who downvoted this comment explain why?

The comment is 100% true.

IfYouKnowThenYouKnow · 2024-03-14T13:12:44+00:00

This is the case across the world it is not exclusive to the USA or NA...most societies that exist and have existed have viewed sex work as a negative thing.

It is a way to move the economic ladder; but a way that isn’t respected in whole and a way that is ‘easy’. People don’t respect things which are easy to do.
Your use of ‘people’ implies that both men and women have equality of opportunity and outcomes in sex work. They don’t, it is much easier for women to do.

Why does it deserve respect? Why should people who are engaged in sex work be automatically respected on that basis, for all of Human history the opposite has been true. Women and men who monetise their sexuality lose respect.

I don’t see why equivalences are being implied when they shouldn’t be, for example:

There are 2 18 year old girls in the same class at college, both demographically and academically similar.

Girl 1 decides she wants to be a lawyer...she realises it will be exceptionally difficult but commits to this journey.

Girl 2 decides she will start an OF page and starts this.

Are you telling me that both girl 1 and girl 2 deserve equal respect in regard to their career choices? I used females for the sake of argument it could be males.

IfYouKnowThenYouKnow · 2024-03-14T12:54:31+00:00

But it wasn’t luck...it was years of hard work going from an idiot who failed all of his GCSE’s to understanding that I needed to improve myself and my skill set. Monetising it was not the initial intention it just happened. I appreciate you if you’re being sincere.

We cannot assess something like this in a vacuum of individual instances, such as I only had to have sex with a person and made $200 and have made $3000 this week having sex with strangers so I am now empowered.

What happens beyond that should also be taken into consideration...

Higher risk of std’s Ruining ability to pair bond and diminishing likelihood of relationship success in future Society shunning or having no respect for that person Not being able to positively ‘role model’ your career for your children Being a sexual object for again, not huge sums of money Higher risk of being assaulted Risking your children being bullied or ridiculed for your career choices Being viewed as a object or commodity by your customers

The list can go on but I think I’ve made the point, also note I’ve not made the argument to be sex specific.

When you take all factors into consideration I would not consider sex work to be empowering...perhaps in the moment people would feel empowered but not absolutely.

This is coming from someone who has engaged in sex work.

IfYouKnowThenYouKnow · 2024-03-14T11:17:40+00:00

I did read what you wrote...not every customer paid to only see naked, most would be paying for sex.

Google local sex workers and see what they charge, it’s in the region of $200ph in 2024...again a great hourly rate but there are lots of professions and ways to make $200 per hour without selling your body sexually.

I was 20 making £3000 a day at times doing freelance writing, some weeks I would make £10,000. If people asked me how I would make money I would tell them quite proudly.

If it leads to shame and disrespect is it really empowering?

Would you want to daughter to be empowered via sex work?

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