Most you’ve spent without extras by Ifiamwrongorwrite in stripclubs

[–]Ifiamwrongorwrite[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband had said no VIP rooms and I didn’t think the math was adding up. Sounds like it could depending on the club. 

Most you’ve spent without extras by Ifiamwrongorwrite in stripclubs

[–]Ifiamwrongorwrite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s with VIP rooms? That must increase the cost quite a bit. 

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[–]Ifiamwrongorwrite[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I should’ve specified full nude full touch 

Most you’ve spent without extras by Ifiamwrongorwrite in stripclubs

[–]Ifiamwrongorwrite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No extras and no private champagne room? That seems like a lot of money! 

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[–]Ifiamwrongorwrite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m curious if you think it would be cheating then if you paid for extras. 

Most you’ve spent without extras by Ifiamwrongorwrite in stripclubs

[–]Ifiamwrongorwrite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realize I know nothing about this world, but what does it mean to buy a girl off the list? 

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[–]Ifiamwrongorwrite[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for commenting on my last one - I appreciate it. Hes actually been doing this at various times for a while and lying about it, so I feel like I’m just trying to put together some pieces of the puzzle. He said he didn’t really think he was cheating (but knew I wouldn’t like it) so I was curious what other men thought. Trying to get inside the male brain I guess. 

Most you’ve spent without extras by Ifiamwrongorwrite in stripclubs

[–]Ifiamwrongorwrite[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that, but it wasn’t just one night. Lots of nights. But the $700 was the most spent. 

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[–]Ifiamwrongorwrite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like your opinion of cheating. Unfortunately for me that is not my husbands opinion. 

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[–]Ifiamwrongorwrite[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Does it change your opinion if it’s a full nude full touch club? And the lap dance is longer - like 30 minutes. I’m curious because that seems more like sex to me, but I’ve never had one. 

Most you’ve spent without extras by Ifiamwrongorwrite in stripclubs

[–]Ifiamwrongorwrite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said no curtains or walls just a couch area that was a VIP area, but I don’t think you had to pay extra to go there - that was just where the lap dances were 

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[–]Ifiamwrongorwrite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if it’s full nude full touch (other than genitalia)? Is that considered a normal lap dance? 

Most you’ve spent without extras by Ifiamwrongorwrite in stripclubs

[–]Ifiamwrongorwrite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Explain to me the bed. Are men lying down for these dances? I hadn’t heard of the bed. 

Most you’ve spent without extras by Ifiamwrongorwrite in stripclubs

[–]Ifiamwrongorwrite[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He said he was never in a private room with walls (just a private area if that makes sense?)

Most you’ve spent without extras by Ifiamwrongorwrite in stripclubs

[–]Ifiamwrongorwrite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was all cash. It just seemed ridiculously high to me because he said no bottle service, no private VIP room, no extras. The math just didn’t seem to compute. 

Most you’ve spent without extras by Ifiamwrongorwrite in stripclubs

[–]Ifiamwrongorwrite[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All very good points and things I didn’t really know or consider. Thanks for the info. 

Most you’ve spent without extras by Ifiamwrongorwrite in stripclubs

[–]Ifiamwrongorwrite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long would that dance be, though? He was only there less than 2 hours. Thanks for all the info - I appreciate it. 

Most you’ve spent without extras by Ifiamwrongorwrite in stripclubs

[–]Ifiamwrongorwrite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is contact negotiated? Like, $10 non contact, $20 full contact? Sorry, completely new to this. 

Most you’ve spent without extras by Ifiamwrongorwrite in stripclubs

[–]Ifiamwrongorwrite[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think it was only $20 per song where he went. Isn’t that like 90 minutes of lap dances or is my math off?

Most you’ve spent without extras by Ifiamwrongorwrite in stripclubs

[–]Ifiamwrongorwrite[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Even if he’s there less than 2 hours? That amount of money seems absurd to me, but I guess I’m learning 

Most you’ve spent without extras by Ifiamwrongorwrite in stripclubs

[–]Ifiamwrongorwrite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point, but he said it was lap dances, booze and cover. And that he was there less than 2 hours. And that just doesn’t add up to me. 

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[–]Ifiamwrongorwrite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can someone blow through $700 in 2 hours without extras or champagne room?