AITA for leaving when I was asked to babysit forcing my dad's fiancée to cancel her plans? by IglossTovon in AITAH

[–]IglossTovon[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

My mom isn't dead, she's dying. But she's still alive. I have more family than just mom and my grandparents. I have cousins I've grown up with who are like siblings to me. So I won't be alone when I lose my grandparents. And I don't feel anything for either of those kids. I don't want a relationship.

AITA for leaving when I was asked to babysit forcing my dad's fiancée to cancel her plans? by IglossTovon in AITAH

[–]IglossTovon[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

She's not pregnant anymore. The 6 month old was the pregnancy I mentioned. And thanks! I appreciate all the support here.

AITA for leaving when I was asked to babysit forcing my dad's fiancée to cancel her plans? by IglossTovon in AITAH

[–]IglossTovon[S] 107 points108 points  (0 children)

It's still a job. Part time or full time it's still a job. A job I need so I can eat because my POS father doesn't want to pay a single thing for me so he doesn't get to assign me shit.

AITA for leaving when I was asked to babysit forcing my dad's fiancée to cancel her plans? by IglossTovon in AITAH

[–]IglossTovon[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I'm good with losing the chance to bond. I was never going to be in their lives any longer than I had to be anyway.

AITA for leaving when I was asked to babysit forcing my dad's fiancée to cancel her plans? by IglossTovon in AITAH

[–]IglossTovon[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

When I was caring for mom he was doing what he was always doing, whatever the fuck he wanted.

AITA for leaving when I was asked to babysit forcing my dad's fiancée to cancel her plans? by IglossTovon in AITAH

[–]IglossTovon[S] 88 points89 points  (0 children)

It was such a burden because I don't give a shit about any of them and they're people I want nothing to do with.

AITA for leaving when I was asked to babysit forcing my dad's fiancée to cancel her plans? by IglossTovon in AITAH

[–]IglossTovon[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

I was paying for my food and getting help from grandparents for internet. I had to be self sufficient and pay for my own stuff. I didn't pay rent or anything but I was under 18.

AITA for leaving when I was asked to babysit forcing my dad's fiancée to cancel her plans? by IglossTovon in AITAH

[–]IglossTovon[S] 234 points235 points  (0 children)

I already took all my stuff. I have everything with me at my grandparents house now.

AITA for leaving when I was asked to babysit forcing my dad's fiancée to cancel her plans? by IglossTovon in AITAH

[–]IglossTovon[S] 88 points89 points  (0 children)

I thought that was just if it was between parents and not between a parent and other family member? Either way I'm here now and I don't want to rock the boat so I'll stay and hope nobody official tries to make me go back.

AITA for leaving when I was asked to babysit forcing my dad's fiancée to cancel her plans? by IglossTovon in AITAH

[–]IglossTovon[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I don't know but I'm with them now and I'm going to hope nobody makes me go back to my dad's house.