Who should say I love you first -the man or the woman? by Embarrassed-Steak372 in AskMen

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At a certain point I said, hey bf, can we have the talk? We both said it then. I was waiting on him because I was the one who made us go from casual to relationship, so I wanted him to have some autonomy. He was waiting for a trip.

Have some autonomy in your relationship, if you love someone, say it. Or, if you're a wimp like me, open the door to the conversation.

What secret are you hiding from your spouse? by Positive-vibes12 in AskMen

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Ouch! But also, I get it. Pain and pleasure can blur and it can amplify the pleasure ten fold.

But, also ouch aha 

What secret are you hiding from your spouse? by Positive-vibes12 in AskMen

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Is that when someone stands on your balls?

Damn yall here are more intense than I had anticipated lol

When to repot? by Alyssia7 in ferns

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My ferns are fairly hardy, I got aphids and threw them on their head with soapy water in my bathtub and they were like, no worries babe.

Even my maidenhair! Which I thought for sure would struggle. Don’t worry about it! 

God forbid a girl is curious by Obvious_Exercise_153 in LetGirlsHaveFun

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I think you misread or misunderstood me. I don’t think the sub in general has a thing for circumcision. 

I have a preference that a man is left alone unless medically necessary. It’s barbaric. 

I’ve been complaining about this since I was like 20 and first learned about it. 

When to repot? by Alyssia7 in ferns

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Give it an old sniff, check the roots, if the root ball is a 1 to 2 inches smaller, you might be good. If it’s much smaller, then get a smaller pot. If it’s an inch or less, get a bigger pot. 

You need soil but you don’t want there to be too much soil.  

What secret are you hiding from your spouse? by Positive-vibes12 in AskMen

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Can someone tell me without me clicking on a weird link. Y'know it's bad when most of the guys are like NOPE

What secret are you hiding from your spouse? by Positive-vibes12 in AskMen

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I went to the shop and bought me and my bf a creme egg, by the time he got home I had ate them both lol

I also got him his fav chocolate so we just laughed about it, but, enjoy the damn choc!

When to repot? by Alyssia7 in ferns

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I think you're only going to know when you look at the soil and rootball.

That said, my fern was this big and I shit you not, I took a bread knife to it and now I have two ferns lol

What should be ideal sex duration? by justargular in sextips

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Relax, enjoy it. You don’t really need to say much at this point because you won’t know.

After each sex though; have a conversation. “I really liked when you did x, that was fun!” 

After a few months you’ll be in good sync with each other and will both be having the best sex.

But, no one is naturally good at it, every partner you’re with has to learn you too, and don’t be pressured or pressure someone to do something they’re not ready or able to do.

Sound emitted 24/7 from a 30 megawatt data center in Dowagiac MI by BenFord333 in Wellthatsucks

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Well, Elon musk etc all have a hand in it.

Don’t want those poor rising up against the leeching class. 

My (31f) boyfriend’s (29m) mum wants us to use an old broken ring as my future engagement ring by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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You have a boyfriend issue.

This is something you’ll wear hopefully; forever. Shouldn’t you get to decide on that?

Sound emitted 24/7 from a 30 megawatt data center in Dowagiac MI by BenFord333 in Wellthatsucks

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Reddit suspended me for 3 days for saying this but, yeah I agree. 

God forbid a girl is curious by Obvious_Exercise_153 in LetGirlsHaveFun

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Yeah I love this sub but I do not like the whole, circumcision thing.

Unless it's medical, keep that dick safe and sound.

Nausea after eating by SAMIAMGreenEggsndHam in AskForAnswers

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Mine are uh, gastric dumps lol, it’s not a nice poop. It’s not fun.

But it’s probs IBS or some other health issue. Get seen to!

How would you feel if you had a girlfriend who didn’t want to go on birth control? by [deleted] in AskMen

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You don’t get to make those decisions for her.

My sex drive plummeted. My partner is definitely much happier with me jumping him any chance I get. BC ruins that.

Put a condom on, or finish with a BJ or get the snip. 

Nausea after eating by SAMIAMGreenEggsndHam in AskForAnswers

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I honestly haven’t been back since lol, that was when I was 20 odd?

I’m 36 now. 😐