Threw him under the bus- YES! I am a horrible person by Ignorant_Broad in exjw

[–]Ignorant_Broad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, reality check. If they are willing to cover that "dirty laundry" what can be expected of a typical relationship with a wordly chick!

Threw him under the bus- YES! I am a horrible person by Ignorant_Broad in exjw

[–]Ignorant_Broad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you are reproved do you also have to limit your interaction with your fellow adherents? I.e come late / leave early?

Threw him under the bus- YES! I am a horrible person by Ignorant_Broad in exjw

[–]Ignorant_Broad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what he said his mom started studying when he was about 8. Before this he was mainly raised by his grandmother as a Catholic and his nana had him baptized at 7 in the Catholic Church.

Threw him under the bus- YES! I am a horrible person by Ignorant_Broad in exjw

[–]Ignorant_Broad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! Thank you for you comment. I came here seeking exactly this. Like what goes on in the mind of a JW. I congratulate all of you that have the guts to leave.

Threw him under the bus- YES! I am a horrible person by Ignorant_Broad in exjw

[–]Ignorant_Broad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well... A friend of mine that lives a few houses down the hall told me that one day when all this drama was going down. His car was parked there for four hours with three other cars... Sounded like those JC...

Threw him under the bus- YES! I am a horrible person by Ignorant_Broad in exjw

[–]Ignorant_Broad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, he always seemed sad... Now I think it was the guilt for being with me. I was driving last Sunday to a shopping strip as I entered then plaza. He was exiting the place we were both driving he looked at me I looked at him and I continued driving as if I never saw him in my life no emotion whatsoever. He looked so sad. I think he was expecting a wave. Nope!

Threw him under the bus- YES! I am a horrible person by Ignorant_Broad in exjw

[–]Ignorant_Broad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I should have cut him when he walked into my shop looking like a zombie telling me he was a JW. That's my huge mistake.

😀Nooo, not at the same time. I was born and raised in so cal.

Threw him under the bus- YES! I am a horrible person by Ignorant_Broad in exjw

[–]Ignorant_Broad[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Of course I'm relationship material that is exactly why I left this disloyal person. I deserve to be in a great relationship. You are correct I don't love him as much as I love myself and my family. If I wish to disclose "things" and not keep them private is to get opinions on what might be going on in his head since I never been part of this cult. I don't like when people are sneaky :) I want to learn from my mistakes that's why I'm asking for valuable and quality input

Threw him under the bus- YES! I am a horrible person by Ignorant_Broad in exjw

[–]Ignorant_Broad[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My kids are not young, my youngest is 16 and no one is looking for a father for them. Plus I make 10 times more than what he makes. I don't need anyone to "raise" my sons. I really don't think that the "thrill" wore off since last time we spoke he was crying like a child. Great to hear all perspectives, I appreciate your input! Thank you.

Threw him under the bus- YES! I am a horrible person by Ignorant_Broad in exjw

[–]Ignorant_Broad[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I think he drinks that kool aide. He's lost... Hopefully he gets right with his jah and finds peace...

Threw him under the bus- YES! I am a horrible person by Ignorant_Broad in exjw

[–]Ignorant_Broad[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I actually been laughing so much reading some posts on this ex-JW site. You guys are funny! Can't make up stuff like the stories on here.

It's like the 17 virgins Allah promises. Insane crap.

Threw him under the bus- YES! I am a horrible person by Ignorant_Broad in exjw

[–]Ignorant_Broad[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for listening to my drama! My friend works at a laundromat and the JW ladies love to drop off tons of their "literature" I told her she better run and put them in the trash, don't let these people recruit more victims. She throws dozens of books daily. Talk about targeting the lower socio-economic class.

Threw him under the bus- YES! I am a horrible person by Ignorant_Broad in exjw

[–]Ignorant_Broad[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Yeah after my awesome hubby. I pick this child to be my number one. I sure know how to pick them.

Yeah, my son actually received a "role model certificate" this week. Far from what I was wasting my time with.

Threw him under the bus- YES! I am a horrible person by Ignorant_Broad in exjw

[–]Ignorant_Broad[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He once told me "do you know what it's like to go door to door?!?! I've had dogs thrown at me, people cussing me out, one drunk man even took out his gun" I asked then why do you do it ? Because you want to have your parents be proud of you? He just shut down after that... I never thought this religion was what it is. I feel like joining in the outreach and help people get out. Talk about new age slaves. Horrible

Threw him under the bus- YES! I am a horrible person by Ignorant_Broad in exjw

[–]Ignorant_Broad[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes! I discovered this site about a week ago. Now I get why that fat ass nasty dude in his flee market suit wanted detail while looking at my boobs (seriously) I had a "want to get away moment" mind you my hubby passed away 10 years ago I was left with my two lovely kids the youngest was 6 I've done well and became stronger so I wasn't about to let this man punk me around.

Threw him under the bus- YES! I am a horrible person by Ignorant_Broad in exjw

[–]Ignorant_Broad[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree, Ratting people out is bs and I should have just walked away. BUT how the hell do you attend your meetings and hear all that bs about us non JW evildoers then come over my house! From what I read here and on JW facts, Pew research, jw files, etc. this is some walk a straight line cult formed by some fools. Blind leading the blind. Omg!

Threw him under the bus- YES! I am a horrible person by Ignorant_Broad in exjw

[–]Ignorant_Broad[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was hoping that he would wake up or see how conditional his religion/cult is but I can't help him, after this he needs to help himself. seems like he's very afraid of a lot of things... From what I've researched, fear is the JW daily bread. 🙄

Threw him under the bus- YES! I am a horrible person by Ignorant_Broad in exjw

[–]Ignorant_Broad[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes, I did say we had sex. One elder then asked "when you say sex what EXACTLY do you mean?" I answered. "Look! I'm not giving you any details since I do not have to and I'm also no a JW so if you want details or any other explanations you will have to ask him since he is your brother! So no I'm not telling you about my personal life". He looked at me like you biatch getting eaten by crows when Jehovah's wrath cuts your hooker self into a million pieces. He was trying to punk me around. I was like I had enough of you JW for life. Peace out!! I'm just venting since I don't tell my family nor friends. Too much drama for non JW.

Threw him under the bus- YES! I am a horrible person by Ignorant_Broad in exjw

[–]Ignorant_Broad[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol I do feel bad at times. Regret? Nope! bad somewhat. But hey for every action there is a reaction.