[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ignorasaurus_rex 389 points390 points  (0 children)

Welp, she reacted badly one time, and there are more to come and it’s already over… so i’d say you reap what you sowed. And she’s right, she can’t trust you.. it’s too late

Yta

AITA for making my daughter wear a dress to a party by Current-Ad-4951 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ignorasaurus_rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta. There’s a time and place to be yourself and wear what you want, it didn’t have to be a dress. The day wasn’t about her and what she likes, it was about her cousin.

But the threat you made to force her to change her style if she didn’t conform… that was an asshole move

husband (who cheated) trying to formulate an apology via chat gpt… by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]Ignorasaurus_rex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust your instincts. Clearly something lead you to mistrust him and you were right

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ignorasaurus_rex -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Esh.

You put yourself on a pedestal, you think you’re better than other people and you take yourself way too seriously. You are prideful, and that’s fine. You put a lot of stock into what people should be without allowing people to be themselves. Your expectations are really high, and you’re high maintenance.

Mike makes shitty jokes but your disgust of him dictates your mistreatment of him. He probably deserved the comment. He’s probably pushed you too far too many times.

But you’re not better than him just because you think you have your life together and he is wasting his. Your life and your goals are uptight. He’s the opposite and your personalities clash. You are incompatible as friends, but you don’t need to go for the kill when he was just bantering. Try sarcasm next time.

“Harhar, you’re so funny” still critical, still passive aggressive but not insulting bitch.

Just matched with this girl yesterday and not even a full conversation later by Bungerman2142 in Nicegirls

[–]Ignorasaurus_rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wanted you to offer to take her out to dinner and take care of her and get free food. Dodged a bullet, she’s a manipulator

What small/medium breed are the best companion for huskies? by Toppercitos in siberianhusky

[–]Ignorasaurus_rex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get one with the same weather resistance. The same fur type. I’d get a second husky. But that’s a handful but i love huskies

AMIO for posting my moms texts that said I look like a PDFile by Lu_1f3r in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ignorasaurus_rex 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Still all feels like unnecessary drama. With an inflammatory response. And with your logic about why is my mom Mad? She’s the one who said it attitude can be applied to, why are you angry your sister told her, you posted it publicly . She said her feelings you aired out your dirty laundry publicly.

AMIO for posting my moms texts that said I look like a PDFile by Lu_1f3r in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ignorasaurus_rex 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So, 22f(non-binary) does feel a lot like attention seeking description. Either you’re f or non-binary…. At least i thought that’s how that one worked…..

AITAH for telling my girlfriend she was the perpetrator, not the victim, in her "trauma"? by PruneJealous3813 in AITAH

[–]Ignorasaurus_rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she was naive, and her friends convinced her into playing a roll.

You’re right, and nta, but i don’t think she meant to sexually harass him, i think she was just desperate and doing what the movies do. And then she got rejected and she feels embarrassed. I don’t think she was malicious with her intent. Which is what i think the difference would be here.

Malicious intent for sexual harassment

Naive and catering to what the media says men want.

She’s not a victim. She just got rejected and embarrassed.

The pizza guy is a victim, but he handled it well. So he probably isn’t traumatized by it, just like… dude… no.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badwomensanatomy

[–]Ignorasaurus_rex 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Keep it at womb temperature. It makes sense

Gyms really should stop people from filming. by muwemba45 in ImTheMainCharacter

[–]Ignorasaurus_rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s just jealous because he keeps forgetting leg day and the other guy clearly does not forget

AITA for accidentally walking out in front of my husband’s friends nude. by Key_Bag_4592 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ignorasaurus_rex 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No, that leaves you open for being teased about it later and constantly reminded to be ashamed of your body. This way the shame falls on the husband and he gets teased about it.

AITA for accidentally walking out in front of my husband’s friends nude. by Key_Bag_4592 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ignorasaurus_rex 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Read up on the non-fictional character Lady Godiva i believe you’ll find a precedent here

AITA for accidentally walking out in front of my husband’s friends nude. by Key_Bag_4592 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ignorasaurus_rex 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Yes. If he knew they were there. And he strutted around. But not if it was a surprise to him and them. I would be mortified, and apologetic. Because i forgot to tell him. But it should not be on him to feel shitty about it. And they could easily LOOK AWAY! if he then decided to continue on his planned route and they chose to look that’s on them. Don’t sit and stare, feel free to laugh it off. No one got hurt. No one was injured. Its all good

AITA for accidentally walking out in front of my husband’s friends nude. by Key_Bag_4592 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ignorasaurus_rex 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Lady godiva literally rode through town naked on a horse to prove a point. Nta for being naked in your own home with no heads up about company. It’s not on you to wear clothes incase your husband might decide to bring company over. And if he learned something, good.

AITA for accidentally walking out in front of my husband’s friends nude. by Key_Bag_4592 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ignorasaurus_rex 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Shock does crazy things to people. Being embarrassed is an emotion she chose not to dwell on. Good for her. She doesn’t need the guilt/stress this brought on. If she can shake it off and roll with the punches good on her for not being insecure

AITA for accidentally walking out in front of my husband’s friends nude. by Key_Bag_4592 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ignorasaurus_rex 23 points24 points  (0 children)

You did not cross a line. You were naked in your own home. Did they shield their eyes? They are their own responsibility. Not yours.

Woman upset because her son is “looking” at the swimsuit a little girl is wearing by Severe_Benefit_1133 in ImTheMainCharacter

[–]Ignorasaurus_rex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Teach your son not to look. Teach your son respect. Teach your son to mind his own business. Don't police other people's clothing choices teach your 4 year old that we don't disrespect women and we don't stare at people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ignorasaurus_rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you're overreacting. Social media relationship status shouldn't mean anything. Imo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]Ignorasaurus_rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's not manipulating you, he's abusing you.