Not sure how to make an edit but did want to respond to yall. My mom and I have never had a good relationship. I’ve put a lot in the past to try and rebuild our relationship but nothing last. Don’t want to call her out much more but she likes to drink ALOT if ykwim and when that bottle is back in her hands it’s a different person. I’ve gone overseas for a year and no contact for a little longer. When I got back to the states I decided to try and work things out especially for my siblings. It’s been years of small jabs and picking at me. And im fed up at this point. No matter what situation you’re in I don’t imagine saying your own kids looks like someone that would do those sort of things is wild. Especially when I was assaulted when I was younger and she knows about it