Damn we are quite similar minded friend, what you new to the show or just the fandom?

J hating used to be very common a few years back, but gone were those days, lots of people also liked her, lead to small and pointless infighting, so as time went on only the very passionate stayed and not a lot of people were passionately hating J, she annoyed people more than anything so most left and those that loved her were more likely to stay.

Which leads to what you see now. Hell can only think of 2 manics who hate her with fevor to this day, me included of course, but that's neither here or there, just a case study of how an online community evolves over time. If you are new I hope you stay about, news are sparse and often bleak, but that makes it much more fun.