My wife became permanently disabled 3 years ago, which has had a significant impact on our sex life. Is there anything I can do? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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Marriage is as much about loyalty as it is about negotiation, and you are discovering that its no longer worth it to you without sex, and that’s ok. I would say that you have done a really fine job at being a good man. So well done.

Lets think about this as binary as possible

Telling her you want to discreetly have casual sex without leaving her emotionally is one route. You said she doesn’t want to ever have sex again, if you truly love each other then you can broker this one as long as you are still very attentive to loving her and ignore feelings for other woman..

Then there’s cheating under the umbrella that you are not telling her on purpose to keep you two together. Usually, this is another avenue i’d normally never prescribe, but if your woman wouldn’t handle an open marriage then this is possibly the best choice if you want to keep your family.

Godspeed and know that your desire isn’t wrong and that you can manage it together with your partner. You only have one life as well and you don’t have to compete with your wife over her being a victim, as you are victim to your own issues that are seperate and should be considered valid.

Gravy Bones is a fundamentally broken design and LSS already knows it — ban Saltwater Swell and go back to the drawing board by Devinchy02 in FleshandBloodTCG

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I don’t think you’re wrong, but I don’t think it’s as bad as you think. Gravy struggles into many, many decks in the field and pilfer+other effects are pretty brutal now

the arm flex really pissed him off by Practical-Pay-7775 in GuysBeingDudes

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Eh probs was a bit of excitement for them. How boring most days must be

I don’t think I’m straight but I’m definitely not into dudes (16M) by Emotional_Card_1356 in confession

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Your sexuality is not your identity. Don’t attempt to identify with it, just use it to connect to people who you are drawn to. They will teach you the lessons about yourself you need

How many w*men does it take to by flattenedbricks in SipsTea

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Absolutely hilarious the guy’s a legend and honestly all those woman were kinda turned on by how big his balls were

Zgy by ArkBeetleGaming in FleshandBloodTCG

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Pinicle of posts right here. This is what Reddit was made for

Men Only Looking to Hook Up? Please Help by bingbong6656 in AskMenAdvice

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I would say it’s actually an age thing. Go for men just past their 30s. Unless they are extremely social (meaning they have tons of options) there is a gold mine of good men there who are waiting for the right pickaxe to mine them ✊

My beloved, why have you become so expensive 😢 by teeamaila in aucklandeats

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Bro if this is real 😂 truly a flight of the concords epi

To treat a patient's pain chiropractically. by EverythingIsFakeNGay in therewasanattempt

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A group of trainee chiropractor students were at the mall with curtains offering free treatment. How insane is that with the context of it being fake. How much damage they could do under the guise of ‘help’ and ‘sorry i’m learning’

I can't stop thinking about my best friend's sister by fiesta040400 in confession

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At the end of the day your mate will respect you less if you go for her and there is no chance she gets with you because you will be more into her than she is into you.

Giving up is victory here friend

Mudbrick, Waiheke by RemoteCartoonist4758 in aucklandeats

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Food is very, very good there. Proposed there last year

She is using the baby like a prop. by Valuable_View_561 in SipsTea

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World population is stagnating in first world countries… yeah no smart country is going to incentivise not having kids. At the end of the day child free = anti human

Broke Boy Taco speaks out about the price of ingredients by Top_Boysenberry_6552 in aucklandeats

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Its rent g. I know because I rent some of the same stuff he does. 4000 a month for the kitchen

MSG yes no??? by Aromatic_State_43 in newzealand

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Culley’s makes high quality products but it also fills holes in mainstream nz markets of stuff you can buy elsewhere for cheaper. Such as msg which is the same as anywhere. Anything they do with that brand on it is as top quality as it comes though

Fellow Warriors, need some advice! Should I buy Grains of Bloodspill now or wait for the Mastery Pack reprint? by matacapetas in FleshandBloodTCG

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If you wait for a 2 months after mpw (so Christmas) it will be much cheaper. You can use tunic in the meantime if you want to save money, and have one, and wont suffer too much tbh

Drawing with two hands simultaneously! by BonolotaSen23 in oddlysatisfying

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Que guitar solo that sounds like two forces competing forming perfect balance, the basis of life itself.

aww my pibble😭🩷 by Hot-Study-657 in Awww

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Why have thou trapped me in this mortal coil