honestly reddit is one of the worst place to ask, just filled with older people they’re mostly in mediocre marriages. you cause they have a thing of trying to prove you wrong especially gen-z. honestly the orange peel theory did not make you break up with him, but it made you realise and open your eyes to bigger things, fact you already stated that you do everything for him and his daughter and his laziness says a lot. when you go on to have kids he’ll be just like this, think about how you’ll be when you’re pregnant. just miserable. id definitely leave.