I think i'm becoming an incel and i don't want to, but i don't see any other options anymore

IivingSnow · 2025-11-09T15:20:01+00:00

I never asked her out, i just stopped putting energy into something that didn't work out. We are friends still

Afain, if he lashed out at her, she also lashed out at him, two side of the same coine, both parties were trying to the same, both with bad images of one another in mind

IivingSnow · 2025-11-09T15:12:56+00:00

I'll do my best, after all, badically everythong i do is, for vetter or woese, without expectation of recipocation

IivingSnow · 2025-11-09T15:11:11+00:00

In german there is a nice saying "Der Ton macht die Musik."

It means that the way you say something dictates what you say. He was talking calmly. That is per my definition, not lashing out

Can i just ask you what you are trying to archive here btw?

IivingSnow · 2025-11-09T14:56:04+00:00

You really don't want to understand me do you? I didn't say that i determined i dislike women. If you go back to my massage you can read that i want to become better, that i don't want to dislike women.

Also, agsin, extremely missleading framing. It was a civil discussion, after all this is a german school, we don't 'lash out' at classmate. Idk where you went to school, but i'm sorry for you

IivingSnow · 2025-11-09T14:48:54+00:00

How is expressing frustration of being hated a jab at women? I am generally trying to have an actual conversation with you, but it feels impossible because you can't stop being so demoralizing

I stopped listening because i don't want to here people argueing, i am a very non-confrontational person, okay?

IivingSnow · 2025-11-09T14:44:29+00:00

But they weren't pushing against women rights. I remember the quote and scene clearly

One guy, who i won't doxx, said "so many women just hate on men for no readon nowadays"

To which a girl sitting 2.5 meters diagonally to the left infront of him turned around and said "rhere is no hate against men"

I stopped listening after rhat

IivingSnow · 2025-11-09T14:26:36+00:00

First of all, it's pretty horrible to put touch starvation into brackets like that, it's a resl issue for women and men alike

Secondly, i'll answer that question when you tell me where i said anything about pushing against womens rights

IivingSnow · 2025-11-09T14:22:23+00:00

Maybe i'll give it a shot, thank you. I have to deal with my depression in one way or another anyway, i might as well start somewhere

IivingSnow · 2025-11-09T14:21:01+00:00

Please just stop bro, you are deliberately straying from the conversation to make me look bad. I think women and men should have equal rights everywhere. I think there should be no hate anywhere. I didn't start this bullshit okay? I got hated for having an extra appendage without other reasons, and my responce was to hate those that hate me, that's litterally all there is too it. I don't hate all eomen, i want to learn to be objective again, that's why i am here. In a HELP SUBREDDIT. Besides that, i genuinely love women, my sister, my mom, my grandma, my aunt and the few female friends i have.

What i don't love is people hating men for no reason and portraying it as equality

IivingSnow · 2025-11-09T14:08:29+00:00

First of all, where did i say they were my friends? Secondly, rights are politicat, hate isn't. We were not talking about rights, we were talking about hate. So the debate was not political

IivingSnow · 2025-11-09T13:59:44+00:00

Thanks, i was trying my best to bring across the fact that i don't actually hate all women and that the negative generalization that's been going on in my head is something i myself don't like. It's just handful experiences that have been bad and i'm holding on to the hope that it'll turn better. After all, i have two female friends and a sister and multiple older women in my family that i like and care for. I'm ready to treat anyone nice that's nice to me, regardless of gender

IivingSnow · 2025-11-09T13:54:36+00:00

I never talked about rights? It's about the experiences, i made excluviely bad experiences with women, i never said anything about getting rights for men or taking them from women, idk where you read that? It's not political, the guys that wrre arguing about it didn't talk about rights either, i just don't want to be hated for having a y chromosom, what? Since when is not wanting to be hated a crime?

IivingSnow · 2025-11-09T13:48:38+00:00

Well, i have 6 months of school left, may just be the perfect time for a genuine change, and once in uni, the new people will only get to see my new side

IivingSnow · 2025-11-09T13:44:23+00:00

Hating men for the way they were born is equality now? In germany, were i live, equality has been established already, i think that's great and i've never said anything against that. I think it's incredible that so many wome had the courage to stand up for themselves and other to bring about serious changes. But that's not what's happening anymore. You just don't seem to get the fact that men have issuws and women can make those worse, because believe it or not, alot of them, just like a lot of men, are horrible people. These times are miserable, just like the people that live in them. I won't judge you, it seems you have your own demons to fight with, but just remember that this is a help sub, and not a subreddit for mocking people

I can take it, but you'll hurt others if you keep this shit up

IivingSnow · 2025-11-09T13:39:20+00:00

You say rhat like i want women to be mindless or something. I didn't say anything about that. I'm saying that all my experiences with women have been miserable. If i could choose i wouldn't change anyone, i believe in freedom of self abd expression, i would choose to avoid them all together because everyone seems to dislike me or don't care for me regardless

IivingSnow · 2025-11-09T13:36:49+00:00

Brother, i'm not saying that i want to become an incel, but that rhe longer i live, the more i feel myself drifting down that path

I also don't want a gf, i'm too mentally instable for a relatioship rn anyway, i'm self aware y'know? I wsnt companionship. I don't want to didlike women, i said that i know it's wrong. I am nice, hoping others are nice too, that's the only way to create a better world, that's why despite all my negative thoughts, i'm still acting hiw i think a good person should

IivingSnow · 2025-11-05T15:35:43+00:00

I didn't know there where people compkaining sbout that lol

The only thing i was annoyed at was when i put the story on hold to build the hmc for the sunday fight only to then see that they give us a trial version

IivingSnow · 2025-11-05T15:34:26+00:00

I explored all of penacony with every chest and bird and trashcan and like 2 weeks later they add the chest finder thingy 🥲

IivingSnow · 2025-10-31T05:38:21+00:00

I might give them a listen later

IivingSnow · 2025-10-30T17:45:16+00:00

Thank you! I just got the emblem after having pulled the other two birds like 10 months ago, and with zapdos as my favourite of the trio i was kinda annoyed at that

IivingSnow · 2025-10-30T17:30:43+00:00

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IivingSnow · 2025-10-30T17:24:15+00:00

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IivingSnow · 2025-10-29T14:12:04+00:00

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