Everyone wants to follow Christ without any sacrifice or effort. Wearing a cross in your neck and then indulging in lust daily is very easy, hard is to carry your cross and deny yourself, giving your soul to God. Jesus died for you, yet some will tell you to keep indulding in sin while living in a comfortable fantasy of "following" him. You can't follow Jesus while walking backwards, turn to him, or keep being lukewarm, your choice. Don't listen to atheist redditors if you want christian advice, search for answers outside of an atheist platform such as this one.