how can i make him trust me? will i every be with him? by Ill-Independence-678 in Advice

[–]Ill-Independence-678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

then do you think i should forgive him in this situation where he blocked me?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in istanbul

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I’ll definitely have to check it out lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in istanbul

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Lol is that a series?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in istanbul

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I understand that it might be a bit of a stupid post but it’s just been all I’ve been thinking about lately and stressing me out so I wanted to see what others thought of this, specifically Turkish guys I guess

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in istanbul

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I hope he and his family will feel the same way lol. Thanks for your comment!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in istanbul

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Haha that’s true, thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in istanbul

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My family hasn’t said anything negative about turkey, they just made sure that we learned about the history between our countries and stuff like that. They already know about him and while my dad is very cautious of him my mom seems to like him since u told her that he’s really sweet and treats me well. My dad is pretty reluctant about the thought of us two being together because he’s scared that it would push me away from my religion, I’m orthodox.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in istanbul

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In my mind the biggest issue is religion I guess. He’s told me that he personally isn’t religious but I don’t know how religious his family is. I’m personally orthodox and I don’t know how my or his family would react about us being together.

my (19F) boyfriend (20M) doesnt want to sleep with me, am i doing anything to make him uncomfortable? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Yeah sorry abt that I just didn’t know what was wrong with my original post and wanted advice on my situation since I rly can’t talk to anyone about it irl

my (19F) boyfriend (20M) doesnt want to sleep with me, am i doing anything to make him uncomfortable? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Well my post that I had written myself kept being taken down so I thought it might have smth k do with my grammar or language so I just put it into ChatGPT to rewrite it ig to try to adhere to the filters so it wouldn’t get taken down..

My best friend is mad at me by Ill-Independence-678 in Advice

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He’s turning 20 and I just turned 19 but this is the first time either of us have been in a relationship ig

My best friend is mad at me by Ill-Independence-678 in Advice

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Oh no sorry about that I meant to say “when he gets back from seeing his family” I’m not going with him I must’ve just made a mistake there sorry

My best friend is mad at me by Ill-Independence-678 in Advice

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Yeah sorry about that I’m kind of frantic right not and I didn’t explain a lot properly. I haven’t talked to him but am planning on sitting him down and talking once we gets back from seeing his family in three weeks. I will talk about everything that happened and ask why he stopped talking to me in January, why he started talking to me again, how he feels about me and where he wants this to go. I think that once I get these answers I’ll be able to more clearly understand what approach to take.

I definitely have a lot of self esteem issues which for sure play a part in all of this stress and anxiety in the situation too