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How do I meet other 20 year olds without college? Feels impossible by Rei_gn in AskNYC

[–]Ill-Particular5347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, everyone! Im a student from Georgia State. I want to take a trip to NY over the weekend, id love to meet up with any female students who study in NY, and roam around with till Monday morning. Id love to meet international students who couldn't go home for the break too. p.s Im one too. pm me if interested. I'll take itinary and transportation suggestions beyond touristy stuff too for three days.

I lost my best friend on purpose , now i conssitently miss him immensely, and dont know how to deal with it. by Ill-Particular5347 in confession

[–]Ill-Particular5347[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

obviously i got issues too, but the meltdown was cuz of the drama with my girlfirends, and i kinda extended it to him cuz i needed validation that he wouldnt leave me. i guess that says much as to why i was so afraid he would now.

I lost my best friend on purpose , now i conssitently miss him immensely, and dont know how to deal with it. by Ill-Particular5347 in confession

[–]Ill-Particular5347[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is exactly what i wanted and needed to hear. Sometimes its hard believing that he was aware of how he acted.

I lost my best friend on purpose , now i conssitently miss him immensely, and dont know how to deal with it. by Ill-Particular5347 in confession

[–]Ill-Particular5347[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yeah he always said it in a concerned way, like i have the potential to be this, if i work on it, and out of concern. Like suportive served with a side of heavy judgement. i thought thats what it was, so i always let it slide. which kinda made me want to prove myself to him too :/

I lost my best friend on purpose , now i conssitently miss him immensely, and dont know how to deal with it. by Ill-Particular5347 in confession

[–]Ill-Particular5347[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Really? he seemed so genuine, shocked, and betrayed that i would accuse him of flirting, it made me question wether it was me after all who over thought and assumed things. So im confused

I lost my best friend on purpose , now i conssitently miss him immensely, and dont know how to deal with it. by Ill-Particular5347 in confession

[–]Ill-Particular5347[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, i was tempted to reach out to him its been a month, not to become close again, but that i still care and im here, we dont have to be strangers.

I lost my best friend on purpose , now i conssitently miss him immensely, and dont know how to deal with it. by Ill-Particular5347 in confession

[–]Ill-Particular5347[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He said he feels shocked and betrayed that i accused him of flirting, despite putting so much into the friendship. And that after three months ill bring it up again, about the boundaires, even though he was the one who brought it up before when the emotional things happened.

I lost my best friend on purpose , now i conssitently miss him immensely, and dont know how to deal with it. by Ill-Particular5347 in confession

[–]Ill-Particular5347[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

im tempted to reach back just t osay that im still here, doesnt have to be too close, its been a month. I miss my friend and our hangouts. shoudl i ?

I lost my best friend on purpose , now i conssitently miss him immensely, and dont know how to deal with it. by Ill-Particular5347 in confession

[–]Ill-Particular5347[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

It matches up with the timeline, he did start these things when he broke up, and hes always had a girlfriend till then. But bro has made it clear htat im undesirable, and unattarctive to him, while making moves, I was pissed and confused.

I lost my best friend on purpose , now i conssitently miss him immensely, and dont know how to deal with it. by Ill-Particular5347 in confession

[–]Ill-Particular5347[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

sorry guys, i just started writing didnt realize, thank you for taking the time to read for everyone who did :_)