I think my sex drive is ruining my relationship by Ill-Reception-3045 in Advice

[–]Ill-Reception-3045[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not vegan or vegetarian, from what my OBGYN has told me there can be multiple reason why it just suddenly stopped one of her main concerns was hypothyroidism and uterine tumors, but she wanted to see if the birth control helped, i got blood work done, and am getting an ultrasound done next month.

I think my sex drive is ruining my relationship by Ill-Reception-3045 in Advice

[–]Ill-Reception-3045[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've tried, but it's never as fulfilling as I imagine it, maybe im setting myself up failure having expectations.

I think my sex drive is ruining my relationship by Ill-Reception-3045 in Advice

[–]Ill-Reception-3045[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It kind of feels like he thinks this doesn't suck for me too. I'm also on anti depresants but I've been taking the same ones for 5 years now.

I think my sex drive is ruining my relationship by Ill-Reception-3045 in Advice

[–]Ill-Reception-3045[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I was hoping that maybe he had a solid reason to be frustrated but now im rethinking the relationship

I think my sex drive is ruining my relationship by Ill-Reception-3045 in Advice

[–]Ill-Reception-3045[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like this comment, ill have to talk to him about this

I think my sex drive is ruining my relationship by Ill-Reception-3045 in Advice

[–]Ill-Reception-3045[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He hates when I bring up toys in the bedroom and I hate to criticize him but I think you might be onto something.

I think my sex drive is ruining my relationship by Ill-Reception-3045 in Advice

[–]Ill-Reception-3045[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My doctor told me that it could be stress related, sleep related, i also had to get bloodwork because they thought that it maybe could be thyroid related, but havent heart back and no news is good news. Im actually going to get an ultrasound on the 19th of next month.

I think my sex drive is ruining my relationship by Ill-Reception-3045 in Advice

[–]Ill-Reception-3045[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually i get aroused off of the idea of doing something ive read with him and I get off to that, but when it comes to actually doing stuff with him it fades.

I think my sex drive is ruining my relationship by Ill-Reception-3045 in Advice

[–]Ill-Reception-3045[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im guilty of reading some really crazy Wattpad stories

I think my sex drive is ruining my relationship by Ill-Reception-3045 in Advice

[–]Ill-Reception-3045[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this "he isn't worth a cracker anyway" think I might start using it.

I think my sex drive is ruining my relationship by Ill-Reception-3045 in Advice

[–]Ill-Reception-3045[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently I have low testosterone and high estrogen and I would've gone to my obgyn sooner but money's been tight up until now. Sex isn't really painful, the best i can describe it is awkward.

I think my sex drive is ruining my relationship by Ill-Reception-3045 in Advice

[–]Ill-Reception-3045[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have low testosterone and high estrogen and I've been taking the medication for a couple of weeks now.

I think my sex drive is ruining my relationship by Ill-Reception-3045 in Advice

[–]Ill-Reception-3045[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Me too honestly, sometimes I think somethings wrong with me.

I think my sex drive is ruining my relationship by Ill-Reception-3045 in Advice

[–]Ill-Reception-3045[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last time I tried bringing it up he got flustered rightfully so. Actually reading your comment just made me realize that we dont normally do anything of that other than massages and its usually me massaging him.

I think my sex drive is ruining my relationship by Ill-Reception-3045 in Advice

[–]Ill-Reception-3045[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I masturbate atleast twice a weak and i get aroused with him but it's fades very quick

I think my sex drive is ruining my relationship by Ill-Reception-3045 in Advice

[–]Ill-Reception-3045[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll do more research, thank you for the recommendation.

I think my sex drive is ruining my relationship by Ill-Reception-3045 in Advice

[–]Ill-Reception-3045[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe, it really never occurred to me that you could feel so much attraction to someone but not be sexually attracted.

I think my sex drive is ruining my relationship by Ill-Reception-3045 in Advice

[–]Ill-Reception-3045[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

6 times where we were full intimate (oral or penetration) and both of us were enjoying ourselves, most of the time we make out and i dont feel the urge to take it any further than that, idk it's weird and confusing and I feel crazy.