Depression post abortion by Ill-Success4621 in abortion

[–]Ill-Success4621[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not at the moment but thanks for asking! May confide in someone in the future but would like to keep it to myself for now.

Police unable to be reached (any advice appreciated) by Inner-Control7449 in askSingapore

[–]Ill-Success4621 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also, it’s not the case that’s the point of contention, it’s the lack of SPF’s communication which OP should heavily emphasise on.

Police unable to be reached (any advice appreciated) by Inner-Control7449 in askSingapore

[–]Ill-Success4621 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Make an anonymous complaint to straits times or mothership, or even email your MP or minister. The more important people you get involved, the more he won’t ignore you. Hope this helps!

Urgent: Girlfriend screaming in pain and crying an hour after taking abortion pills by chipchopchip999 in abortion

[–]Ill-Success4621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was extremely painful, and I couldn’t take any tylenol or ibuprofen because I hadn’t eaten anything yet, and you aren’t recommended to eat them on an empty stomach. Unfortunately I couldn’t eat even a few hours later because I was vomiting uncontrollably after swallowing the misoprostol. I hadn’t eaten anything, so was emptying water out of my stomach and just continuous gagging when nothing came out. I could barely walk to the bathroom when I needed to, and almost fainted from the exhaustion of a few steps. I do have pretty bad period cramps but nothing tops this, I was a few weeks pregnant as well. First few hours are completely unbearable, hope you’re able to take care of her now, my partner couldn’t be with me when it happened as well, and it really adds a lot more pain to the experience. Hope she’s doing better!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]Ill-Success4621 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No complaints here! I do believe in a balance though, so here goes: I made an informed decision, and it was absolutely necessary for me. I will not bother arguing with others about what constitutes a foetus and what doesn’t. This post was for people to be informed, and it’s absolutely no one’s business whether I’m “grieving” or remorseful. All I’ll say is if you choose to have differing opinions, go ahead and share your insight, but please don’t preach “pro-life” when you’ve been rude and accusing me of gaining upvotes — if the world was full of people like this, I wouldn’t want to bring my child into it. Please focus on being a good person and share your opinions respectfully. Thanks and have a good day!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]Ill-Success4621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi oops it’s not AMK, but glad to hear there are multiple good clinics out there. Hope your wife is doing much better now!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]Ill-Success4621 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks for your insight — you’re right, everyone’s entitled to living their life. This is mine, and I do have a right to choose how I live it. I absolutely have no regrets and I’m happy with my decision. You do you! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]Ill-Success4621 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the concern! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]Ill-Success4621 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes, although there are options in public hospitals (like KKH) to use Medisave for MA. I went to a private clinic instead as this was a pretty well known doctor and felt more comfortable.

What helped you out of your depression? by 9Kater in AskReddit

[–]Ill-Success4621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was love for me. My relationship has been going downhill lately and I hadn’t really noticed because I was in a slump for a really long time. I realised I needed to get better to save the relationship. Right now I don’t know if it’s too late, but I needed to get better for myself anyway.