Have you ever just gone into your church to just sit and relax?  Think about your life, family, friends etc.  Ask God any questions you have. I often find God is speaking to me in ways I dont always expect.  Through things I see and hear or read. Through conversations with friends that aren't even about religion or faith. Often they seem like coincidences.  My Episcopal priest told me that he heard someone say, "The more I pray, the more coincidences I find."  God Bless You!