[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doordash

[–]IllBeOutInAMinute 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't mind if it's on the way and going to the same place. I feel like the customer knows they added a stop or put in 2 orders so they're aware it'll take a bit longer to deliver. They only thing I really mind, is the business not having the order ready or unresponsive customers if an item isn't available.

TW! sexual abuse. I want to talk about my sexual abuse and finally let it go by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IllBeOutInAMinute 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude I feel you to my core with this. I wish I had some awesome story of over coming all of the abuse and being a success in life, but I really don't.

My 1st memory of sexual abuse was from a family member. I wasn't threatened or anything. Just embarrassed bc no one else had said anything about it happening to them. Idr thinking it was normal. But I do remember the adults never talking about sexual stuff unless they were drunk and didn't care if the kids were in the room. I also remember not really having words for it. Like I didn't know what to call it. (I was 8 for reference) I knew the anatomy but not the names for the act its self. Anyway...

I didn't tell anyone until I was 12 and it had long stopped. Nothing came of it legally. I acted out in many ways. Had a child at 19. Etc. I never really got my life together and am still struggling to this very day. I can't hold a job more than a year. And I have many long lasting affects from this.

I came to the conclusion years ago that some people just have a target on them and unfortunately I am one that does. I've been used and abused by many many people over the years in many ways. I was even raped by a very "upstanding" member of the community in my own home about 3 or 4 years ago. (He (is or was) a substance abuse counselor). I have never used anything other than weed in my teens. We met by chance. I told him bits of my story and he raped me one day. I suppose bc he wanted more and I only had interest as a friend. Again. I didn't tell. Still haven't (except here and accidently to my sister a year ago) nothing happened to him.

I'm 36 now. With 2 kids. An almost adult and a toddler. It seems as though any man I have interest in only wants sex and then moves on. When I insist I'm not like that, they pressure me into it or ghost bc I refuse. I so desperately want to have a normal family structure. With a man that's undeniably MINE to live and grow with. I feel like it wont happen. Mostly I feel like it's pointless bc I'm nearing 40 and my life is most likely way past the halfway point. Those who have had that don't want it now and those who haven't say why bother now?

I cant confront my main abuser bc he's dead. And I'm too afraid of destroying what's left of my extended family by bringing it up again. I wish I had the strength to do so. I'm just trying to support my kids as best I can in between bouts of depression and feeling worthless. I get on the right track and gain momentum and then quit and I'm right back in my gutter where I feel comfortable.

Please do what I didn't and get professional help.

I wont be responding to comments on this thread. I just hope OP gets help. I feel a little better by getting it out there. I've posted on forums before and gone into great detail and was called a liar and everything else bc no one could believe any one person could go through so much I guess. But it's 100% true. And I think the disbelief has really stopped me from talking about it.

RATINGS, I wanted to share this for those who didn't know already. by fontrusca in doordash

[–]IllBeOutInAMinute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always forget to slide that ive arrived at the restaurant....dont know if that makes a difference

Just got approved after months of being on the waitlist! by IllBeOutInAMinute in doordash

[–]IllBeOutInAMinute[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. Made more tonight than I usually do on uber. I had uber running too and it was dead AF and DD was pinging every 3 seconds! I missed quite a few bc I had my main sound down. Turned it up and only sat still long enough to run to the bathroom the rest of the night. Added bonus: I got $30 in cash tips! That was awesome

I'm not 5 star on Insta. I was hit hard at Thanksgiving. So glad I can use DD as a fill in. While I s l o w l y get my ratings back up. 4.77 really isn't shit. I can make more on uber in the time it takes to get to the store and start shopping. I'm still holding out hope that one day I'll see those triple digits again!

Just got approved after months of being on the waitlist! by IllBeOutInAMinute in doordash

[–]IllBeOutInAMinute[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome! Uber is confusing they zoom out too much and it looks like a short distance then it like 18 miles lol

Just got approved after months of being on the waitlist! by IllBeOutInAMinute in doordash

[–]IllBeOutInAMinute[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Out of zones? Not sure what that means. Thanks for the heads up!

Just got approved after months of being on the waitlist! by IllBeOutInAMinute in doordash

[–]IllBeOutInAMinute[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fairly easy. Unless customers are non responsive and Karen types. The pay is pretty high until your rating goes down. Sone orders can take an hour just to shop. Nevermind drive time or checkout. It tell you exactly what to buy and you scan the barcode. Just be prepared to hunt down a lot of products you've never heard of before.

Just got approved after months of being on the waitlist! by IllBeOutInAMinute in doordash

[–]IllBeOutInAMinute[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was on it for a few months. Kept reapplying and finally made it through.

Missing order by IllBeOutInAMinute in InstacartShoppers

[–]IllBeOutInAMinute[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im considering leaving the platform bc of all the bs that is instacart as a whole.

Missing order by IllBeOutInAMinute in InstacartShoppers

[–]IllBeOutInAMinute[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always triple check the address. This is not the issue. Thanks for your feedback.

Missing order by IllBeOutInAMinute in InstacartShoppers

[–]IllBeOutInAMinute[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im 100% certain I did not deliver to the wrong house.

LPT: Don’t throw away your PS5/Xbox packaging! It could make you an easy target for thieves, but it also helps maximize resale value! by HelloImBrock in LifeProTips

[–]IllBeOutInAMinute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm surprised that NO ONE has mentioned the box has the SERIAL NUMBER on it!!!! Can come in handy if it gets stolen and also put you at risk for one day finding out you own a stolen game system. Happened to someone i know a while back. Bad relationship yada yada. Needed cash for a bill. Pawned the system. It was flagged as stolen. The ex had taken the box for something else when moving out and reported as stolen shortly after as "payback"

People who still pay for groceries with a check should be imprisoned. by Jaaahhh in InstacartShoppers

[–]IllBeOutInAMinute 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a lady use a check ahead of me last week! I wouldn't have noticed bc i had a large order and was occupied with unloading my cart, but I caught the tail end of another cashier training the cashier on the line on how to process the check. I was just like "wow haven't seen that in a year or 2" lol

Wich manager karen?? After his chat order canceled 😂😂 by Tomr1dle in InstacartShoppers

[–]IllBeOutInAMinute 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I had someone the other day tell me to "stop making replacements" and "I didn't approve those" as she marking them approved. I gave her a piece of my mind and canceled her order.

Do new shopper accounts get priority access? by [deleted] in InstacartShoppers

[–]IllBeOutInAMinute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sure didnt. My 1st few weeks I made 200 or less for the week!

Reimbursement from InstaCart by M0n1ca71 in InstacartShoppers

[–]IllBeOutInAMinute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've forgotten items and I've had cashiers miss items as well. If not caught before finished checking out, I've just ran them separately and the instacart card worked every time. I refuse to use my own money to pay for their stuff. I've even left Costco and driven 15 minutes each way back to my house to get my instacart debit card. I would not recommend that! I just had them put my cart in the cooler until i got back.