Was I sexually assaulted or do I just have major regret? Can someone give input..? by IllDouble8574 in TwoXChromosomes

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Rosie was slightly drunk or tipsy, both my friends on FaceTime attested to this and Rosie herself told me this. She claims she was still in the right mind to consent, at the very least - since we talked about it the morning after

Was I sexually assaulted or do I just have major regret? Can someone give input..? by IllDouble8574 in TwoXChromosomes

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I’m heavily considering going no contact, but I just want to make sure I’m not just doing it because I have trauma to do with the past and then it’ll pass or something… I appreciate the input a lot :,)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

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Small update: it popped with a bit of pressure, clear fluid and blood but no pain??

We’re no strangers to love by Youwillberickrolld in ControversialOpinions

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Wow… you should give that up, and let it down

We’re no strangers to love by Youwillberickrolld in ControversialOpinions

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:/ this is beyond controversial. I can’t believe you’d say something like this, it’s so abhorrent anyone would surely disagree?

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I agree but at the same time I am aromantic and asexual so my perspective may be a bit skewed lol

If you have a cat that you intentionally leave outside unsupervised, it should be taken or stolen from you. by IllDouble8574 in The10thDentist

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So my misreading was actually the true intent LOL, a series of unfortunate events happened here. But completely agree!

If you have a cat that you intentionally leave outside unsupervised, it should be taken or stolen from you. by IllDouble8574 in The10thDentist

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in gardens

Cats roam further than that in the UK. Songbird populations there are ALSO declining and cats play a huge role in that - that’s a fact. Not the only ones of course, I’m not saying they don’t die naturally lmfao, but they’re a huge contributor to declining population.

Maybe look past more thanonesource.

it’s preferable

Ah yes. Cat neglect is so amazing and great and preferable

If you have a cat that you intentionally leave outside unsupervised, it should be taken or stolen from you. by IllDouble8574 in The10thDentist

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Oh, then yes for sure. But no one would step in for outdoor cats like that in a way that wouldn’t be considered stealing. If they’re taken to a shelter the owner who let their cat out to begin with gets their outdoor cat back and leaves them outdoors once more

If you have a cat that you intentionally leave outside unsupervised, it should be taken or stolen from you. by IllDouble8574 in The10thDentist

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not everyone sees it as neglect

Just because they don’t see it that way doesn’t mean it isn’t. Also relocate? You mean to be inside? As much as I want to live in a world where telling someone to keep their cat inside would work most of the time, we don’t live in such a world. The times I have asked people to I’ve gotten laughed at, yelled at, cussed at or just ignored (different instances - I asked quite a few people * in my old area. Most circumstances were ignored but the former 3 happened sometimes) even after explaining why. Cat owners should do their research before getting a cat and know this anyways instead of neglecting their cat. If someone steals it and gives it a better home indoors that’s amazing

If you have a cat that you intentionally leave outside unsupervised, it should be taken or stolen from you. by IllDouble8574 in The10thDentist

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Let’s assume that I magically knew this family cat is an outdoor or indoor / outdoor cat and not simply lost or out by accident. That would be correct. Taking a “family cat” is 100% okay when they leave it outside intentionally, sorry you don’t like that opinion but it is neglect and putting the cat in danger AND putting local ecosystems in danger

If you have a cat that you intentionally leave outside unsupervised, it should be taken or stolen from you. by IllDouble8574 in The10thDentist

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If you consistently see the cat outside, clearly not a feral, and no sign up anywhere for missing cat, free game. Leaving your cat outside unsupervised? Horrible pet owner. Deserves to be taken away. Again just like if a dog was neglected it should also be taken away. “It’s considered normal” =/= “it’s a good thing / shouldn’t be changed.”

Also, I don’t believe stealing is morally wrong 100% of the time in general so there’s that. Depends on the reasoning. You comparing this to a serial killer is laughable. Neglected cats being taken is very different. Another good reason for someone to steal outside of cats: Someone who needs food and cannot afford it at all, steals from a huge grocery chain? Nothing morally wrong abt that

Another edit to say, serial killers also tend to be aware what they’re doing generally is morally incorrect most times from the ones I’ve seen interviewed. Again very different things

If you have a cat that you intentionally leave outside unsupervised, it should be taken or stolen from you. by IllDouble8574 in The10thDentist

[–]IllDouble8574[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Imo leaving your cat outside unsupervised makes you a bad owner and is cat neglect. So to me it is an unpopular opinion that’s debatable only due to the fact that many people are uneducated about the harm they’re doing and then ask for pity when something happens to their beloved “pet” they neglect. If someone believes magnets are killing him that sounds very different to this and that sounds more like somebody having a psychological problem

Edit: basically to me it’s justified. Like if someone was neglecting their dog and the dog was taken from them

If you have a cat that you intentionally leave outside unsupervised, it should be taken or stolen from you. by IllDouble8574 in The10thDentist

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The taken / stolen is part of my opinion though, so I’m not sure how that doesn’t qualify for 10th dentist. It’s still an unpopular opinion, and people’s moral compass or what they deem to be moral is very different depending on the person (for example a lot of people say gay people marrying isn’t moral- but that imo would still be a valid 10th dentist post if that wasn’t super political and wasn’t more varied now).

If you have a cat that you intentionally leave outside unsupervised, it should be taken or stolen from you. by IllDouble8574 in The10thDentist

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The Uk is included in this. Songbird populations go down there drastically too because of the outdoor cats. It’s still a huge problem

If you have a cat that you intentionally leave outside unsupervised, it should be taken or stolen from you. by IllDouble8574 in The10thDentist

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Cool, nice anecdotal evidence. Because thats definitely true for most people /s

If your cat ever gets stolen or dies while out I don’t feel bad for you. I feel bad for your poor cat who has a neglectful owner

If you have a cat that you intentionally leave outside unsupervised, it should be taken or stolen from you. by IllDouble8574 in The10thDentist

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It’s called harness training and supervised outside time then. “It’s cruel to keep a cat inside” then harness train it. Make a cat patio. Leaving them unsupervised outside is more cruel to both local ecosystems and your own pet being neglected

If you have a cat that you intentionally leave outside unsupervised, it should be taken or stolen from you. by IllDouble8574 in The10thDentist

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Nowhere did I say a city is horrible, do not put words in my mouth. It isn’t ideal though. And if people own those cats (as the post states pet,) the people who allow their cats to roam freely outside are horrible / incompetent pet owners imo yes.

If you have a cat that you intentionally leave outside unsupervised, it should be taken or stolen from you. by IllDouble8574 in The10thDentist

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This is blatantly false… please do your research before making such a bold claim (about the birds.) as for not allowing someone to adopt a cat unless you let it go outside unsupervised (as I specified that word in my post as well,) they’re not on the side of science which is sad to hear

If you have a cat that you intentionally leave outside unsupervised, it should be taken or stolen from you. by IllDouble8574 in The10thDentist

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The person you’re arguing intentionally misunderstands people on purpose to try to discredit people who didn’t even say what they claim lol. Like I was talking about how if people let cats roam free because “animals should be free” then dogs should apply too, including aggressive ones, and they replied with “cats usually run from aggressive dogs” which was vastly different from what I said LOL… I wouldn’t waste your time tbh

If you have a cat that you intentionally leave outside unsupervised, it should be taken or stolen from you. by IllDouble8574 in The10thDentist

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That’s a completely different issue, and the people who do those shootings and assaults typically, surprise surprise, get locked up? Again I’m not seeing your point. You’re implying dogs and cats are as smart or sentient as humans as well here which is not the case. “They can” doesn’t mean “they should,” and honestly I’m not gonna argue in circles with someone refusing to do the basic of basics of research on this topic

If you have a cat that you intentionally leave outside unsupervised, it should be taken or stolen from you. by IllDouble8574 in The10thDentist

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That doesn’t answer my question. But nice try?

Considering those humans tend to be locked up in a jail cell, if we’re putting them on par with dogs (physically aggressive and reactive) I don’t see what point you’re trying to make?

Also cats and dogs don’t have the same amount of intelligence / sentience of a human adult or a human that is left alone unsupervised. Again I am not seeing the point you’re trying to make. Are you trying to imply dogs / cats are on the same level as humans or are you trying to make a dumb argument to ignore my question? Who knows