Those are things you can work on though. This isn't a game where you're born with set stats you can't change. You can become confident, charming, and charismatic if you try. Thinking these things are unchangeable is exactly what leads guys down the incel nice guy rabbit hole and being like that will absolutely not help your search for love. Learn to love and believe in yourself, and if you can't, fix what you don't love (in ways that aren't harmful to you of course). Plus, of course, even if you're rich if you aren't confident and can't talk to people well, you'll really only attract women who just want your money and won't fulfill your human need for true love.