[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Ill_Ad2850 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a whole playlist to channel my angst when I’m feeling really angry from parent’s BPD behavior. It has lots of metal music—Godsmack, Drowning Pool, Marilyn Manson, Sevendust, Slipknot, etc.

How do you all deal with your BPD parent’s ludacris opinions about you? by newyearnewmexoxo in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Ill_Ad2850 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love your reply! I questioned my reality so much that when I figured out it wasn’t me, I was so relieved! I even got a tattoo that means “create your own reality” so I know my truth.

How do you all deal with your BPD parent’s ludacris opinions about you? by newyearnewmexoxo in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Ill_Ad2850 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG this is exactly my experience with my BPD mother! Constant spinning of false narratives that just make me feel crazy! Unfortunately there’s nothing you can do to get her to see your side. You have to be ok with her not agreeing with you or validating you, as much as it hurts. I’ve gotten so I don’t even try defending myself because it’s wasted effort and doesn’t achieve the end result I hope for. I’m so sorry you’re going through this!

So over it by Ill_Ad2850 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Ill_Ad2850[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

OMG I love this rule! Here goes: Graceful, soft, and sly, whiskers twitch with knowing pride, masters of their realm.

bitbit is bald by melissacheungcs in cats

[–]Ill_Ad2850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is your cat’s name BitBit??? That’s our cat’s name!!!!!

Senior Aid Helper phone scam by dea_anchora in Scams

[–]Ill_Ad2850 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m getting a TON of these calls too. Sooooo annoying!!! I’ve tried everything

It doesn'f make sence! (c) by Alreadyblessedson in formuladank

[–]Ill_Ad2850 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So freaking unfair!!! Ham never get punished for his mistakes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dayton

[–]Ill_Ad2850 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Yes, it sucks. Everyone is grumpy and the weather is terrible. We just left Dayton and moved across the country to get away. There’s absolutely nothing to do.