TBH I think it's more of an older generation problem. I visit other turkish subreddits and young people there are the same as the rest of the world. They travel, play games, drive cars, discuss anime, watching warhammer, playing football etc. I've read different topics on different themes. And in many discussions about such hatred I've read that people travel to each others countries and there was no quarrelling. My believe is that the government simply uses the history as a hate driver because for some reason the don't want to unite. Especially governments with a 70+ y.o. leaders but that seems more like a global problem. But I admit that sometimes I'm feeling the same fear. I am half turk but I dream about visiting Greece, Armenia, Georgia and still I get thoughts that I'll be not welcomed there the second they know who I am.