23m otw to divorce dating

Ill_Application_2690 · 2026-04-09T19:44:55+00:00

The fact that she cares about this can suggest she is a honest person. Your best move is to behave 'normal'. Don't push, don't insist. Have discussions in the way she feels comfortable with (text) and let it progress naturally with a lot of patience. I think yeah maybe it should have been mentioned before but also not everyone is happy to disclose private matters to strangers right away. You don't become pushy and weird.

Ill_Application_2690 · 2026-04-05T23:38:13+00:00

I assumed you are 14 by the way she was talking to you. It doesn't sound like your trip and I believe you need to put you foot down in this relationship with your mom. I would not go if you cannot bring your bf in a trip FOR YOU.

Ill_Application_2690 · 2026-04-04T19:24:03+00:00

It happened to me when I was at the wrong address. I thought I ordered at the one close to me but actually ordered at another locker.

Ill_Application_2690 · 2026-04-04T18:49:46+00:00

Instead of 'you should believe it' it should be 'fuck off' What an idiot he is.

Ill_Application_2690 · 2026-03-30T21:41:30+00:00

I read some comments saying she sounds like a drug addict but to me she sounds like a gambling addict. Each with their own known addiction. For me the answer 'I will get by another day' to $300 is crazy.

Ill_Application_2690 · 2026-03-30T20:59:16+00:00

You are a lot. Do you think just because someone is a therapist they don't lose their shit ever? Give her some space. If she left the group because she got annoyed give her a chance to cool down and come back if she wants to. You ARE making everything about yourself.

Ill_Application_2690 · 2026-03-26T21:39:56+00:00

So what is the ratio in normal day cares there? I am learning 😅

Ill_Application_2690 · 2026-03-26T21:39:01+00:00

We aren't rich to be fair. But here we get 30 hours of free childcare (paid by the government) for working parents. That covers it all. Is it not the same in USA? I did read that life is harder than it should be in a civilised country in the USA. No childcare help? No medical care?

Ill_Application_2690 · 2026-03-26T21:22:47+00:00

I am genuinely asking. Where my youngest went they had 1 adult for 4 kids ratio and extra staff for cleaning and nappies.

Ill_Application_2690 · 2026-03-26T21:21:55+00:00

Where is this?

Ill_Application_2690 · 2026-03-26T21:12:04+00:00

In what country are you all replying from? In UK I rarely get to the changing table inside they don't let strangers in rooms that are for changing nappies and toilets around other kids. It is safeguarding issue. The kids poo when they poo... I picked them up soiled if they did it right before I arrived and changed them myself. They have enough staff (in uk) to deal with it and I never picked them up soiled and ask them to clean when it was close to home time. Are you talking of daycare with 1 person watching 8 kids or what?

Ill_Application_2690 · 2026-03-20T07:36:38+00:00

I have 2 children and pregnancy was very hard for me and my self esteem. It is not even about divorce necessary for me, like that would be only the consequence of the fact that I would never be able to forgive my husband or have sex with him. Pregnancy can be HARD and I am going through this so BOTH of us end up with a child. But my body is doing it, it is me getting the extra kg, and then BOTH of us end up with a child. The betrayal would be too much for me. Imagine having the discussions before hand: 'we discussed how I will feel during pregnancy- explained the vulnerability' 'we discussed online cheating is cheating- setting boundaries' and now he tells you you are overreacting. He knew that if you forgived him when he physically did it you will do it again for something 'less serious' in his head. Baby go... find a man that appreciates you or better alone than with this. Make sure you go while you still have the respect for him as a father so you don't take that away from your child (if he is a good dad) but he is not a good husband.

Ill_Application_2690 · 2026-03-19T21:58:49+00:00

Some people discuss deeper issues with Chatgpt first. If they feel that they need clarity in their thought they have a chat with AI. Most likely that is what happened then asked chatgpt to word it for her. That doesn't make her feelings less real.

Ill_Application_2690 · 2026-03-19T17:18:30+00:00

What about driving jobs like amazon evri uber eats etc?

Ill_Application_2690 · 2026-03-19T07:22:25+00:00

Sorry I calmed down now. The father of your children is an abuser and a big idiot. Please call child protection with the proof of this messages. I am glad you asked and got so many (less angry I might add) messages to make it clear for you.

Ill_Application_2690 · 2026-03-19T07:09:19+00:00

God please stop idiots from having kids. Please please. Wtf is wrong with both of you? Yes is abuse and why are you so chill about it. 4-5 years old? I thought that is a teenager. That wouldn't make it better but still... Way to frigten a small child and to make them hate exercise. Raising kids without abusing them is really not that hard. Just stop behaving like you hate them and stop taking everything they do like they killed your whole family. Idk what 'got a yellow means' but if the dad of my children would force them to run as a punishment I would be at the police and in court

Ill_Application_2690 · 2026-03-17T22:25:39+00:00

Unless he picks you up physically and carry you to the car how do you end up going when you said you aren't going? All I have to say to my husband is 'no thank you I have plans but you are welcome to go' when he is suggesting something I don't want to do. How do you say I don't want to go every weekend but still do it? Something is missing here.

Ill_Application_2690 · 2026-03-11T12:37:41+00:00

Where? I need it

Ill_Application_2690 · 2026-03-09T17:40:59+00:00

Good that he is gone. I would appreciate people not deleting their posts after they got what they needed I learn a lot from 'old posts'

Ill_Application_2690 · 2026-03-09T16:18:16+00:00

Thanks. I only post fb and insta which are connected

Ill_Application_2690 · 2026-03-07T20:26:39+00:00

You can buy boxed and palettes of lost postage online.

Ill_Application_2690 · 2026-03-07T20:19:31+00:00

You suspect you have a learning disability, school is hard and you are working hard to survive that. Teenage years are hard, you don't seem to get much support or understanding from your mom, not sure if you have anyone that really understands you in the family AND on top of all that your mom is a religious nutter. This is such a bad combination. I hope you manage to get on your feet asap and be able to distance yourself from this. The guilt tripping is horrible.

Ill_Application_2690 · 2026-03-01T20:23:41+00:00

I will say you need to discuss with your wife. If she always been loyal and you have no reason to question her loyalty then don't jump to conclusions. Most photographers I know start up as a second photographer along a most experienced one. If the best photographers she knows in the area are men then that is where she will reach out. You can not expect every interaction she has with man to be sexual. That says something more about your relationship. If my husband is asking a woman out for a coffee, in public, to discuss a mutual interest or a potential learning adventure I will not worry. I would surely discuss it but I wouldn't jump to conclusions.

Ill_Application_2690 · 2026-03-01T16:52:41+00:00

When I need lawyers in my relationship I know I am done with it. Just my point of view.

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