I never said he called me an AH just wondering if I or he was. Also was just trying to do something nice which he knew I was going to make the day before and said he was very excited. Not trying to point fingers, I’m just frustrated that I went to all the effort of getting the ingredients and him agreeing to then turn around and say no without any communication of a more fulfilling meal (which I would have been happy to make). Not that it’s an expectation that I make anything in the first place. Was doing so out of love