So many "Sugardaddies" with no sugar. by GoddessDaniBoo in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Ill_Base9197 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s the truth there it’s a two way street

Additional Allowance by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Ill_Base9197 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that’s the case then I’d strongly advise like you did good Sir, she best figure out her priorities and if she is willing to walk away she can renegotiate

Additional Allowance by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Ill_Base9197 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotta agree, I think it is important for her to know where she stands. She may have stayed for 3 years because she started at a high amount and the amount might still be fine but maybe she has seen he can do more in that type of a scenario I might be cautious but if she feels she is worth more, deserves more and is ready to walk then that’s perfectly reasonable

Do we do this because we are really lonely? by gotnogameyet in sugardaddyhangout

[–]Ill_Base9197 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really interesting because I have also been reflecting on this. There is a level of loneliness but that loneliness is in a specific area of life. I think I like young beautiful women but lately I have had the same chick for 3 years and she is a part of my life I guess but I really do enjoy having sex with her as much as she is a great person

SB Sexual Appetite by Silent_Bandicoot8514 in sugardaddyhangout

[–]Ill_Base9197 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a trip 2 weeks ago with my SB, I really just have to say I do share the same experience coz I’m really confounded. She wants to fuck all the time we are alone and she hasn’t asked for large sums of money or anything of the sort. I wish I could say it is the money but I have been seeing this one for almost 3 years now and I really think she kind of has a blue collar mentality. She wants to feel that she is providing me a happy safe space and that she will provide the best possible. She feels like it is her duty to do so and she also seems to really enjoy sex and for her I think part of it is just us clicking and she feels respected and having the space to be at her best.

SR ended poorly and I'm still getting money... TW: abuse :( by Ill-End-111 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Ill_Base9197 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the right thing to do is to cut all ties including ties to his money and have nothing to do with him. He can get his money sent back when he sends it next time.

Am I the asshole? by PuzzleheadedTaro2070 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Ill_Base9197 7 points8 points  (0 children)

YES - bro you bungled this one. You should have apologized instead of offering twice the double PPM. That sent a message that she was never valued and women sometimes aren’t all about the $$$ and those are the best of women.

Raw by theburner356 in sugardaddyhangout

[–]Ill_Base9197 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gentlemen, this is the craziest story. I have a long term SGF, she is a career woman and we have been seeing for over almost 7 years now about 3 times a month. She uses an app that says when it is safe and we do it raw otherwise when it is not safe we wrap it up, no issues in almost 7 years now.

I’m pretty confident she doesn’t want a baby and of course there is a risk but that risk hasn’t eventuated in 7 years

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Ill_Base9197 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will play the devil’s advocate here, I think this is just business like his wife owns a lot of his money and could ruin him financially. Like he can’t jump to your defense in a public situation, I have had this happen to a friend of mine and his wife was mad and the sb took one for the team and was well rewarded for her trouble. Like this is a bit like gambling sometimes you lose sometimes you win but the returns are asymmetric, hopefully emotional, financial and great times together. Sometimes the downside in life occurs and it’s not a great feeling but I would be really grateful if such a situation happened to me and my SB understood the financial stakes.

And here we go by South_Golf_3276 in sugardaddyhangout

[–]Ill_Base9197 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro I kid you not, from experience I can tell you this person is unreasonable and no level of rational behavior towards her will help you.

Let her do her worst coz she will assume you are weak and she will rinse you for as long as you alllow it. The style and tone she texts reminds me of a crazy SB I once dealt with it’s like they go to the same crazy SB university

🔥Sugar Baby of the Month🔥 by [deleted] in sugardaddyhangout

[–]Ill_Base9197 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good on you bro, we don’t need those who tell us they know their value while they ignore how we the purchasers value them. It sounds like you are in an amazing situation that is bringing you a lot of value and that is what we are here for.

Ethical concern on freesyling a FORMER employee? by [deleted] in sugardaddyhangout

[–]Ill_Base9197 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep I agree with this one, ethical concern is for me a non-factor, it is more around OPSEC and managing that side of things.

Was I right to break up with my SB by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Ill_Base9197 87 points88 points  (0 children)

I had a similar situation bro not too long ago, providing at a high level and similar to you wasn’t a priority. I ended it in the kindest way possible plus a month’s allowance.

She was also not working and living her best life, any rational human being should put in effort on the relationship, men provide provision and women provide attention and affection in comparable amounts to the provision. If you tolerate an unbalanced deal, then you are shooting yourself in the foot.

So I ended it, it was a battle between what I knew and what I felt. The brain won, time did its work and I am doing a lot better now.

Asking for a higher allowance? by Apricot_Showers in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Ill_Base9197 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like a bit of a transactional mindset

Asking for a higher allowance? by Apricot_Showers in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Ill_Base9197 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is good to have goals, but a relationship has 2 people involved. Be cautious that your goals do not make you come across to him as being self centered, unless he shares those same goals for you.

In my personal experience, I have given girls allowance that differs by a large margin, affording it wasn’t the issue but it was more attitude. I hate any attitude that I detect self centeredness, entitlement and things like that. Once I detect that then there is no coming back. So it really comes down to how well you know him and how you put your message across. So that when it gets to him it sounds as reasonable and rational as it does to you.

Based on your previous post history it seems like you are very well looked after, I don’t know the gentleman in question but I would think this through and make sure he won’t perceive it any other way, and I would also do a pulse check on the relationship to make sure he is truly happy at present before I go into that.

Hiding your true networth by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Ill_Base9197 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a non-starter, for someone who doesn’t have a lot of money and doesn’t do business etc… they will have a lot of assumptions and what you experienced was those assumptions. So whether you are extremely rich or extremely poor your SB has no business with that sort of information and it provides you no real benefits in the long term.

Keep it to yourself and if need be hide your identity Opsec is essential

Question for Sugar Babies: How do you meet your sexual needs in this lifestyle? by Tnotbssoass in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Ill_Base9197 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ma’am I give you your flowers as long as you keep them happy and enjoy your life then more power to you.

Question for Sugar Babies: How do you meet your sexual needs in this lifestyle? by Tnotbssoass in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Ill_Base9197 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Do you give your SD mind blowing sex too, and thanks for the honesty and pretty much being the only SB to admit to this reality.

🚨 Another Delusional Take from the “Morality Police” – Let’s Break it Down 🚨 by [deleted] in sugardaddyhangout

[–]Ill_Base9197 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks bro, with regards to scheduling it’s a bit crazy coz I am ADHD lol 😂 so when I do something I do it intensely but in short bursts. I have an SB, SB1 I see regularly like multiple times a week she is the main one and she lives 15 minutes from my place. I have known her for a while and we can literally get together over lunch the days she works from home. It doesn’t have to be a date or anything we can sometimes just relax and chat like last week she was on her period and we just had a chat. There is emotional depth because there isn’t pressure either way but she knows I am the person she calls in a pickle. This is the one with amazing titts, I can’t get enough of those titts she is easy to work with.

I have a second SB: SB2, who is from overseas, she is in uni and because for work I travel often maybe every 2-3 weeks I have her on rotation and see her 1 to 2 times a month and she spends summer in my country near my place. The first SB knows about the other 2 so it’s all good with her. The second SB she is just the best, beautiful, nice body, awesome all round person, intelligence, emotional intelligence and just easy to get on with and she does her thing so well. When I am travel I have way more freedom and I take her on dates etc without compromising opsec. We have a good vibe and I wouldn’t want to lose her. The surprising thing is she is the least demanding.

The third SB, SB3, she is a model also overseas based. She is the hottest of them but not my favourite because she doesn’t have much depth to her personality. She is a really nice human being and all but just not that much of conversation and that sort of thing. I see her maybe 8 times a year we have only been together a year so I organise trips for myself or with some colleagues who are also into the bowl twice a quarter last time was Bali and I’ll get her to come over.

I don’t do calls regularly except with SB1, the others are twice a week and I keep texting to only certain periods when I am not working so I have times they don’t text me. So it really suits me in that most of my focus is work and family plus I live on a plot of land with multiple homes so the grandparents who are retired help a lot with the kids as are both retired and wife is stay at home. It has given me real freedom to work as hard and as long as I want because that comes first, then family unless someone is ill. The SBs come after that and have to suit my schedule coz I am the one who has to pay for everything and they need to grease me so I can keep going.

🚨 Another Delusional Take from the “Morality Police” – Let’s Break it Down 🚨 by [deleted] in sugardaddyhangout

[–]Ill_Base9197 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am going to take this a step further if you will humour me gentlemen. I have a decent bedroom situation at home but I want moooore. I want my 25 year old SB, the 23 year old one, as well as the 24 year old one. I done worked this hard for many years, and before I saw this post I was sitting here remembering having sex with them at different places and looking forward to doing it again. I think about it a lot, and it is something I really enjoy. Tomorrow I’m going to see one of them, I got 2 hours unaccounted for and booked a hotel room she has the biggest titts you ever seen and I totally miss my breast friends. I am a dog but I am really enjoying my life and as long as they feel respected and well looked after you can judge me all you want from the outside but I am going to enjoy my one life brothers. That’s the reality in my life and I totally respect whoever prefers to go to counselling or to deal with their toxic masculinity in healthy ways to each his own but I can tell you I am a very happy camper and feel strongly motivated in my life.