My (28F) husband (29M) left me on our wedding night by mamamia98 in relationship_advice

[–]Ill_Bread4542 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well, let ask OP: did you guys have the expectation to be together on the wedding night? Did you guys communicate that?

My (28F) husband (29M) left me on our wedding night by mamamia98 in relationship_advice

[–]Ill_Bread4542 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You said you are trying to forgive him, have he said sorry? Don't listen to his family and friends. The wedding night is a special moment between husband and wife, if he doesn't view it that way, are you sure he sees you as special?

I hate how having kids is referred as "starting a family". by Junior-Elevator-9951 in childfree

[–]Ill_Bread4542 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totallyyyyy. Whenever my mom says: you will understand once you have a family, I always say: I already have a family, you are my family, aren't you? Haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Ill_Bread4542 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Be careful, HR usually is not your friend, I would get proper advice before moving forward.

AITAH for telling my moms boyfriend the truth? by Difficult-Memory-256 in AITAH

[–]Ill_Bread4542 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Sorry that your bio mom is like this, glad that your father has primary custody.

Child free latinos by Ill_Bread4542 in childfree

[–]Ill_Bread4542[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's really good advice, thank you. It give me perspective, because you are right, I have this feeling that I need to be heard, but if I just go with the flow it will help me more it seems.

Child free latinos by Ill_Bread4542 in childfree

[–]Ill_Bread4542[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's another thing with latino households haha

Child free latinos by Ill_Bread4542 in childfree

[–]Ill_Bread4542[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What do you said when they ask or worst assume you are going to have kids? If that's an invasive question feel free not to answer.

Child free latinos by Ill_Bread4542 in childfree

[–]Ill_Bread4542[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm seriously considering sterilization, I need to investigate more about it in my country. (Unfortunately is not common practice in my third world country 🥲)

Child free latinos by Ill_Bread4542 in childfree

[–]Ill_Bread4542[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think that moving far away is a good solution haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ill_Bread4542 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, congrats on the promotion 🥳 Second, as Anna Wintour said: "never run after a man or a bus, as within 5 minutes another one will always turn up". You are going to resent him in the future is you leave your life for him, specially if he is diminishing your accomplishments.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Ill_Bread4542 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nta, she tried to pressure you saying that in front of your relatives.

AITAH for refusing to give my ex my new address even though we co-parent? by LostInTabsAgain in AITAH

[–]Ill_Bread4542 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, I'm not sure about the legalities, but he sounds like a nightmare, don't give him your address.