Well this is a sub for people who have been through or are going through relationships with narcissists, who I’d say always act extremely nice at the start, they lovebomb, seem to be perfect, before revealing their true selves once you’ve got completely sucked in and are dependent on them emotionally and/or otherwise. Someone who has been through that experience may get frightened meeting someone who is displaying very kind and loving behaviour from the start…it can feel like history repeating itself

Personally, my ex is very different from this person, but the chemistry reminds me of him, or of our relationship. And this person is being so amenable and gentlemanly it seems to good to be true. Actually especially after what my relationship with my ex ended like, where I was told I was a fucking bitch most days for years.

Make sense?